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Dating Justin Bieber
Many young women dream about what it would be like to date Justin Bieber. However, for those few women whose dream actually becomes a reality, dating Justin Bieber may actually be more like a nightmare than a dream. Now why on Earth would I say that about a gorgeous, talented, and rich young singer?
First of all, Justin Bieber is extremely self centered and a narcissist. He seems to be very confident of himself, however, in reality I think this is all just a cover up for some major insecurity. I mean the guy looks like a little girl, and yet he is flirting with every woman imaginable while dating someone else. Guys who feel the need to constantly flirt with different women have a strong need for other people's approval. It seems that this man is not very secure of himself, and therefore overcompensates by being a player and spending a lot of money on his dates.
Being a girlfriend of someone with this kind of personality can prove to be very difficult. It is almost as though this guy is somehow doing you a huge favor by being loyal to you and being in your life. On the surface he may be a great catch, however, this type of men are not meant for long term committed relationships. They will always somehow feel that their partner is not giving them enough attention and ego stroking and they will try to find a better deal elsewhere.
It is so funny, because he actually learned from one of the best players in town who taught him the ropes. Mr. Usher definitely knows a thing or two about how to attract the opposite sex and get attention. However, in his personal relationships he struggles. This kind of people are great at seeking out attention for themselves, but are not very good at giving attention and making someone feel loved and special.
The sad thing is that narcissists rarely change and if change is possible it usually has to happen over a long period of time with a lot of professional help from a therapist. Most narcissists find themselves alone at their old age because the people close to them could not stand for their self centered careless ways.