Pros & Cons of Being Famous + Be Prepared for Fame!
Being famous, you'll always have to pay the price, and the more famous you are, the higher the price you'll have to pay, especially for privacy and security.
Once an overnight sensation, thrust into the limelight, you're basically in a huge fish-bowl - everyone scrutinising everything you say and do. This can be quite daunting especially without the advice and guidance of a professional. Being a successful star, you'll need to handle lots of pressure.
People start looking up to you while you're rubbing shoulders and working with the rich and famous. You can enjoy VIP red carpet events, designer clothes, flashy cars, jewellery, and affording any and everything you desire. Power beyond your wildest dreams. Earnings are the equivalent of winning the lottery multiple times a year!
Fans want to be you, look like you - many will have your image or name tattooed on their body. Statues, waxworks and portraits will be made of you. Websites and fan-bases dedicated in your honour.
Everything you own or have worked with will become memorabilia. Even your autograph will have value. More importantly, you have the opportunity to create a long-lasting legacy, so being a good role-model is key.
Being famous: Spit out your gum, and watch how fast its retrieved
Once a success, you'll have dozens of people working for you including security, an agent, manager, financial adviser and media expert, while hoping they're all trustworthy and acting in your best interests. Be cautious who you trust. Employing family members as staff have worked very well for many stars but not so well for others.
You'll end-up working along-side your childhood heroes and favourite celebrities at some of the best locations around the world, and being paid millions for the pleasure.
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Most famous people would throw away their celebrity/famous lifestyle purely for a peaceful and private life. While being famous can allow you to fulfil your dreams, there will be times you're unable to leave your home. Your cars, homes and phones may be bugged. Drones and helicopters following your every move.
Being followed and spied on 24/7 by the press/paparazzi, the general public and obsessive fans (fanatics) who will constantly pester you for autographs and selfies until the day you die. The intrusion has taken its toll on many a famous person.
Famous people cannot use public spaces in fear of unwanted attention. Instead of using public facilities, they need an enormous home to accommodate a cinema, gym, basketball courts and swimming pool to stop them and their family and friends from being harassed in public.
The more famous you became, the bigger the homes get, and the higher walls become, and the more reclusive some have to be. If you're unlucky and cannot sustain your fame, homes become smaller due to the inability to finance a large property.
Former Pussy Cat Dolls Melody Thornton, said "when I started out, I was young and inexperienced. The industry is full of Sharks and Wolves in Sheep's clothing".
You may have to move abroad while travelling in disguises with the help of their make-up artists. You'll never know how close you are to someone world famous as they travel around the cities anonymously, hidden behind helmets on moped and motorbikes is very common.
Video: Justin Bieber being deliberately harassed by a paparazzi
Your every move is scrutinised by the media - The Paparazzi
The Paparazzi (press and freelance photographers/papps) will always be there to follow your rise and sometimes fall from grace. Catch 22. You need the press, just as much as they need you. Its all ery exciting at first being followed and photographed then seeing your face in every newspaper and magazine. Then the endless radio and television interviews, being a celebrity guest on top talk shows, everyone wants a piece of you will eventually take its toll.
Some papps will deliberately aggravate and annoy you to make you snap. This would make a better story and of course, give them the opportunity to earn hundreds and thousands of pounds for an exclusive story and picture (the money shot). Unfortunately, some celebs take the bait and fight back as shown in some of the videos on this page and trust me, when they take your picture, they're not always looking for the most flattering picture.
They say about the press, "when you dance with the devil, prepare to pay the price".
You may have to relocate with all your family to a more secure location to avoid the photographers and other strangers who'll be right up-in-your-face, hiding behind bushes following and documenting your every move. Very scary for anyone especially young stars to have dozens of grown men loitering outside their home day and night to the early hours of the morning, all eager and desperate to take your picture and you'll just have to smile, be polite, because you don't want to get on the wrong side of the papps, and the obsessed crazy fans also on your tail.
Princess Diana was one of the most famous and photographed women in the World
Princess Diana was continually and relentlessly harassed by the papps. She once held a press conference to vent her frustration by saying, "I was not aware of how overwhelming that attention would become, nor the extent to which it would affect both my public duties and my personal life, in a manner that's been hard to bear".
In a candid interview, Prince William told how they "chased her, called her names, and spat at her to get a reaction". He said they were like "a pack of dogs". The papps pursued her to her death in a Paris tunnel crash. They were still taking photos of her while she lay dying in the crumpled wreck of the crashed Mercedes.
Her brother Earl Spencer accused the press of being "directly responsible for her death", saying, "I always believe the press would kill her in the end. "Every proprietor and editor of every publication that has paid for intrusive and exploited photographs of her have blood on their hands". He also said, "They killed the golden Goose which laid their golden eggs."
Video: Britney Spears numerous problems with the paparazzi. They drove her to a nervous breakdown
People may hate you for a character you may have played or portrayed
While many fans will love and adore you, some will hate you, social media haters trolling you. They will despise you for whatever reason.
The papps and fans will search through your trash bins hoping to find anything which has information or anything valuable like sTV scripts or hand-written notes. Some are looking for far more personal items such as anything which holds DNA or hair on. These could be very valuable on auction sites. In the beginning, it's fun and exciting but as the years go by, it becomes a never-ending security nightmare.
Food for thought. When eating in restaurants, staying in hotels or ordering take-outs, would you ever think about what the chef might do to your food because of something you may have said or done!
They may despise you for a character you played, or they don't like you. Either way, always be mindful. There are some food "additives" that are not recommended!
Video: Beyonce talks candidly to Piers Morgan about her pros and cons of being famous
Finding people to trust will be difficult
You'll soon know who your genuine friends are at a price, because finding true love will get harder. Will they love you for who you are or your celebrity status? Family and associates will be jealous/envious of your wealth an/or success.
Once you're famous, your celebrity status will rise and fall. Take a look at those who've achieved the 'A' List before they dropped to the 'Z' List. They're always trying to get back on the A-List again. Others get there via sex and drug scandals. Sex tapes leaked on the Internet, appearing on every reality show, or by fighting with other celebs or the paparazzi. Anything for attention-press exposure to become publicly well-known again for more work which can work.
Once you're famous, all the secrets you thought were hidden in the closet will be revealed by those who know you. They'll sell-you-out because everyone has a price and the papps/press will pay for the truth. The culprits can be family and associates who are jealous/envious of your wealth an/or success.
It's a fantastic feeling to be featured in any magazine, but not with the titles, "Celebrities Go Horribly Wrong" or "Celebrity Secrets revealed", so be cautious who you trust. You want to be rich and famous, not rich and shameless!
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Continued: Finding people to trust will be difficult
Any tweets or Facebook posts you've made in the past that are racist or homophobic could ruin your career so delete them. Be cautious of what you say-and-do in front of friends and frenemies who may be secretly recording every conversation you make which could come back to bite and haunt you when you're famous. Note: Blackmail still exists.
It's getting much harder for famous people to have any privacy these days. Practically everyone carries a video-recorder (mobile phone ) which can capture your every move. Either on holiday or staying at a hotel, people will invade your space you think is private.
Your activities and location revealed and posted on social network sites or even streamed live via various video streaming apps and websites. It really will be hard to take time-out unless you can afford those secluded, more secure holiday locations.
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Most famous people will have other skills, jobs or a business. They know that fame can last for just 15 minutes. When someone famous turns bad, no-one will want to work with them. Celebrity endorsements from companies will cease. (a nice earner) Radio stations won't play their songs. The TV networks stop airing anything they've been in and when all income and any royalties cease, how will they keep up that expensive lifestyle?
When you're famous, you never know what's around the corner. Drug and alcohol problems have ruined many a profession. Falling out with band-mates, your manager or work colleagues. An injury could ruin your acting and sports career. You could lose your voice, your marbles.
Other potential problems to be aware of is plastic surgery problems, severe over-or-underweight issues due to the stress of work or life have turned many notoriously famous people into reclusive. Falling out with family and friends who have money, drug or alcohol problems, get fed up with the paparazzi attention or tire from the whole business completely.
These are some of the reasons why fame does not last or pay for everyone. Think about what you really want to do because you can still be very rich and successful without the fame. Good luck.
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© 2011 Tony T