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Pros & Cons Of Being Famous + Be Prepared For Fame!
Its not always so glamorous
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Video: Justin Bieber - paparazzi.
Video: Britney Spears - paparazzi.
People may hate you for a character you may have played.
Video: Beyonce - Her pros and cons of being famous.
Finding people to trust will be difficult.
Video: 10 Celebrities Who Hate Being Famous.
Poll: What Are Your Worst Fears Of Becoming Famous?
You will always pay a price for being famous, and the more famous you are, the higher the price you'll have to pay especially for privacy and security. When you become famous, an overnight sensation, and thrust into the limelight, you end up in a huge fish bowl. This can be quite daunting, especially without the advice of a professional, so being a successful star, you'll need to handle pressure.
Once famous, you'll need to employ dozens of people from an agent, manager, security, financial advisers, to media experts, make-up artists and stylists, while hoping they're all trust worthy and acting in your best interests.
Former Pussy Cat Dolls Melody Thornton, said "when I started out, I was young and inexperienced. The industry is full of Sharks and Wolves in Sheep's clothing".
Once you're famous, the celebrity lifestyle is awesome. . People looking up to you, Rubbing shoulders with the rich and famous, red carpet events, designer cloths, flash cars, jewellery,, and affording any, and everything you desire. Power beyond your wildest dreams. Yet most famous people would throw away their celebrity/famous lifestyle purely for a peaceful and private life.
While being famous can allow you to fulfil your dreams, there will be times you won't be able to leave your home. Your cars, homes and phones may be be bugged. Tracking devices hidden in vehicles. Being followed 24/7 by the press - paparazzi, aka papps. Joe public, fans, drones and helicopters following you eventually takes its toll. Continually being pestered for autographs and selfies while pretending you don't mind.
Famous people need those huge houses. They need to fit a cinema, bowling alley, basket ball and tennis courts. Even swimming pools because they're not able to visit public facility's in fear of obvious unwanted attention and to protect family and friends from being pestered all the time when socialising. Then the more famous you became, the homes get bigger, the walls become higher, and the more reclusive you'll have to be. You may have to move abroad. Most famous people travel in disguise in wigs, and helmets on mopeds which is very popular among the famous for keeping anonymous.
Video: Justin Bieber being deliberately harassed by a paparazzi
Your every move is scrutinised by the media - The Paparazzi
They will always be there to follow your rise, and sometimes fall from grace. The catch 22 is, you need them, just as much as they need you. At first, it's very exciting. Being followed and photographed - seeing your pictures in the newspapers and magazines - the radio and television interviews - being a celebrity guest on top talk shows - everyone wanting a piece of you.
Some papps will deliberately aggravate and annoy yo to make you snap This would make a better story and of course, give the them the opportunity to earn hundreds and thousands of pounds for an exclusive picture (the money shot) and story, unfortunately, some celebs take the bait and fight back as shown in some of the videos on this page, and trust me, when they take your picture, they're not always looking for the most flattering shots. They say, "when you dance with the devil, prepare to pay the price".
Tulisa from the pop group N-Dubz was on the receiving end of a tabloid sting after they tried "stitching her up" as a cocaine dealer and lied in court.
The need to move with all your family to a more secure place to avoid the photographers or other strangers who'll be right up-in-your-face, hiding behind bushes following and documenting your every move. Very scary for anyone especially young stars to have dozens of grown men loitering outside wherever you are, 24/7, day, night, to the early hours of the morning, all eager and desperate to take your picture and you have to smile, be polite, because you don't want to get on the wrong side of them.
Princess Diana was one of the most famous and photographed women in the World
She was continually and relentlessly harassed by the papps. She once held a press conference to vent her frustration with them by saying, "I was not aware of how overwhelming that attention would become, nor the extent to which it would affect both my public duties, and my personal life, in a manner that's been hard to bear". In a candid interview, Prince William told how they "chased her, called her names, and spat at her to get a reaction". He said they were like "a pack of dogs". The papps pursued her to her death in a Paris tunnel crash. They were still taking photos of her while she lay dying in the crumpled Mercedes.
Her brother Earl Spencer accused the press of being "directly responsible" for her death, saying, "I always believe the press would kill her in the end. "Every proprietor and editor of every publication that has paid for intrusive and exploited photographs of her have blood on their hands". He also said, "They killed the golden Goose which laid their golden eggs."
Video: Britney Spears numerous problems with the paparazzi. They drove her to a nervous breakdown
People may hate you for a character you may have played or portrayed
They may despise you for whatever reason. While many fans will love and adore you, some will hate you. Social media haters trolling you.
Some will go through your trash bins hoping to find anything which has a famous persons DNA or hair on it, or they're looking for private papers or hand written notes which could be valuable on Ebay. In the beginning it's fun and exciting, but as the years go by, it becomes a never ending nightmare.
Food for thought - when visiting restaurants, staying in hotels, or ordering take-outs, who knows what the employees and chefs will do to your food - especially if they hate you for a character you play, or they just don't like you.
Video: Beyonce talks candidly to Piers Morgan about her pros and cons of being famous
Finding people to trust will be difficult
You'll soon know who your true friends are... at a price. Plus, finding true love will get harder. Will they love you for who you are, or your celebrity status?. Once you're famous. your celebrity status will rise and fall. Take a look at those who achieved the 'A' List before they drop to the 'Z' List. They're always trying to get back on the A List again. Others get there via sex and drug scandals, sex tapes leaked on the Internet, appearing on every reality show, or by fighting with other celebs or the paparazzi. Anything for the attention-press exposure to get more work.
Once you're famous, all the secrets you thought were hidden in the closet are revealed by those who know you. They will sell-you-out - everyone has a price and the press will pay it for the truth. You could end up in magazines titled, "celebrities exposed", "when celebrities go horribly wrong", and "celebrity secrets revealed" so be careful who you trust. You want to be rich and famous, not rich and shameless.
Practically everyone carries a mobile phone which video-records and can capture your every move, and being streamed live via various video streaming apps and websites will invade your privacy. It's getting harder for famous people to have any privacy these days.
Video: 10 Celebrities Who Hate Being Famous
Most famous people will have other skills, jobs or a business. They know fame can last for just 15 minutes.
When you're famous you never know what's around the corner. You may fall out with your manager, work colleagues, or band-mates, An injury could ruin your acting, singing or sports career. Drug and alcohol problems have ruined many a career.
You could lose your voice, your marbles. Get fed up with all the paparazzi attention, or tire from the "show" business completely. These are some of the reasons why fame does not last, or pay for everyone.
And if you do something very bad, no-one will want to work with you. Celebrity endorsements (a nice earner) from branded companies will cease. Radio stations will stop playing your songs. TV station will stop airing anything you've been in. Your Income and any royalties received will stop. How will you then keep up that expensive lifestyle? Think about what you really want to do because you can still be very rich and "successful" without the fame. Good luck.
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