The things that my hubby enjoys, are not neccessarily what I enjoy.
What I like and enjoy, are not among his first few choices.
We do have some things of interest, that we both enjoy.
We both like motorcycle riding, but when the weather is not condusive, each of us, makes an effort, to participate in the other's interest.
Even, when either one of us, can not be "excited", we can be respectable and fair.
My hubby is interested in guns and motorcycles...........so I keep a watchful eye for related gun shows and biker related happenings.
I am interested in cooking and all things kitchen related, so he keeps an eye open for gun shows and biker stuff.