either Thora Birch or Gaby Hoffman as one of the lead female roles. ( It is not Now and Then.) The movie is based on a next door neighbor who get pregnant, by some her boyfriend and is forced to go to a convent and have the child there. I know one of the key scenes is when they go to this old recorder and decide to say something on there and burry it in there back yard for 5 to ten years. The neighbor who get's pregnant is a blond and smoke in the movie. I believe it is based in the 50's or 60's. I have been looking for this movie for a while PLEASE HELP!