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Neil Sedaka and Carole King Dated and Sang for Each Other

Updated on May 27, 2017
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Glenn Stok grew up being a music enthusiast and has a strong attachment to music of the past. Now he enjoys researching what he remembers.

My favorite singer in the '50s and '60s was Neil Sedaka (born March 13, 1939). He dated Carole King (born February 9, 1942) and wrote his song "Oh! Carol" for her. Did you know that Carole also wrote a song about Neil? This article has YouTube audio of both songs.


Neil Sedaka's Song About Carole King

When Neil Sedaka was a child he used to scratch out the name of the singer on records and write in his own name to see what it looked like.

His focus on being a singer/songwriter became a reality when he graduated from the Julliard Scholl of Music. He became a great piano player and was a concert pianist at Julliard.

In addition, I think he's a talented singer and a creative songwriter. I loved the lyrics of his songs. As a romantic, even at a young age, I especially liked "Oh! Carol" and I memorized the lyrics and sang it over and over myself.

I didn't realize it at the time, but "Oh! Carol" was actually a dedication to Carole King, who was Neil's girlfriend at the time.

Little known at the time, Carole also wrote lyrics about Neil. Thanks to the Internet today, I found her dedication to her boyfriend. I have that for you too, but one thing at a time.

Neil Sedaka Sings "Oh! Carol"

Carole King Sings About Neil Sedaka

In response to Neil's song, "Oh Carol," that he wrote in 1959, Ms. King responded with a song just for Neil around the time when they dated.

She appropriately called it "Oh! Neil." Here it is in the following video:

Carole King Sings "Oh! Neil" (1959)

Oh! Neil - Lyrics by Carole King

Carole King
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How Neil Sedaka Got Started

Neil Sedaka was born on March 13, 1939 in Brighton Beach, Brooklyn, New York. His father was the son of Turkish immigrant and his mother was of Polish-Russian descent.

He wrote songs together with Howard Greenfield, who was his next-door neighbor and childhood friend. When Howard's mother overheard Neil playing the piano, she introduced her son to him. He was 13 at the time. Howard, who was 16, became an aspiring poet and lyricist. The two of them continued to write lyrics together.

Original Neil Sedaka Songs on YouTube

"Breakin' Up Is Hard To Do"

I'm not sure if Neil wrote this song when he broke up with Carole King. But I know how strong feelings can make one become creative with the need to talk about it. Or sing about it as Neil had done.

See how young he was in this video? Time has surely flown by for all of us.

When you watch this, keep an eye on the girls in the back just for the fun of it. They may have been stand-ins hired for the photo shoot. They must have been happy to have had the opportunity to be on stage with Neil. They seem to be glad to be watching Neil from so close up.

"Calendar Girl"

This video of Calendar Girl was strangely made. At one time Neil is playing the piano as he sings. At another time he is standing with the girls. Then suddenly he is playing a completely different piano!

After watching this a few times I suddenly realized the color of the piano changed to represent the different days of the calendar. Notice how the days of the calendar behind him have different colors. And the piano changes between white to red. I guess they only had two pianos to do that video.

It was unusual for a video to be in color at that time. It was one of a few that used color technology already.

The sexy models really add a nice touch to the video. And their costumes are great. Looks like Neil is enjoying himself singing with all those girls.

"Happy Birthday Sweet Sixteen"

"Tonight's the night I've waited for. Because you're not a baby anymore."

Possible Translation: You're not jail bait anymore.

It was such an innocent time back in the 50's. With the way we think today, that song takes on a totally different meaning. Or maybe he did mean it the way we interpret it.


Solitaire was not very well known. He recorded this one in a music-special in 1982 when he was older.

Notice the different style of his singing. This video shows his experience as a concert pianist at the Julliard Scholl of Music.

Neil has always been a great piano player and here he plays and sings. There are so many times where I just saw him sing to the music without playing the piano.

"Should've Never Let You Go"

Neil's daughter, Dara Sedaka, acquired a lot of his talent by singing with him. It has been a rare opportunity to see Neil sing with his daughter.

"Heaven Must Have Sent You From Above"

If you want to hear one more from Dara Sedaka, Neil and his talented daughter sing this memorable Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell song.

Sedaka's Songs For Children

Being inspired by his kids, Neil rewrote 11 of his songs with themes for children. He used a play-on-words to change the titles and modified the lyrics to turn them into children's songs. Then he combined them into an album. You can find it on Amazon: Waking Up Is Hard To Do.

Isn't it amazing what creative ideas come to us when we have children to focus on? I think this is priceless. Neil has three grandchildren. Twin girls and a grandson. And they all love his old songs.

These new songs are selling on Amazon and are fun gifts for your own kids. We grew up with Neil. Now your little ones can hear the same melodies with lyrics all for them. Such as "Lunch Will Keep Us Together," "Where The Toys Are," and "Waking Up Is Hard To Do."

Comparison of Sedaka's Songs and Their Children's Versions

Original Version
Children's Version
Where The Boys Are
Where The Toys Are
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
Waking Up Is Hard To Do
Love Will Keep Us Together
Lunch Will Keep Us Together
Happy Birthday Sweet Sixteen
Happy Birthday Number Three
Calendar Girl
Dinosaur Pet

Neil was on Huckabee, on Fox News, were he talked about how his grandchildren inspired him to rewrite the lyrics to some of his songs. He changed the words just for the kids.

You can hear him sing his new version "Lunch Will Keep Us Together" in this recorded interview on YouTube:

Understanding Lyrics

I liked listening to Neil Sedaka sing because I could actually hear and understand his lyrics. Some singers either let the music overpower their voice, or the voice track simply wasn't clear.

Maybe it's just me. I find that this problem still exists today with a lot of songs where I have trouble understanding some lyrics.

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© 2011 Glenn Stok

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      Glenn Stok 4 years ago from Long Island, NY

      forbcrin - I'm not sure what you are implying by your last paragraph. Neil Sedaka was extremely proud to be Jewish. Sedaka, means "charity" in Hebrew and he always had wonderful feelings for his surname. He also had produced a little-known album of Jewish songs. By the way, his father was born in New York. Most everyone in this county has grandparents from somewhere else.

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      Glenn Stok 4 years ago from Long Island, NY

      LongTimeMother - I also love Carol King's lyrics and music. Better than Neil's for that matter. Thanks for the vote and for sharing.

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      Crin Forbes 4 years ago from Michigan

      Nice post! You are right, it brought back memories. Different kind of memories though. The time when the TV shows were broadcast live and the singers were lip singing... He was the guy I would have grown up to, if I were in the States at that time. He is an entertainer, one of the few left around...

      By the way, I am not sure Neil would ever want his Jewish origins laundered. His father was a Sephardic Jew, of Lebanese descent, while his mother was an Ashkenazi Jew of Polish-Russian extract.

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      LongTimeMother 4 years ago from Australia

      I was never a great fan of Neil Sedaka, but I loved Carol King's lyrics and music. Tapestry was my favourite album for years.

      This hub was a lovely blast from the past. Voted awesome and sharing it. :)

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      Dennissg 5 years ago

      Just saw Carole interviewed on Piers Morgan and recalled this song Oh Neil

      Great memories!

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      Glenn Stok 5 years ago from Long Island, NY

      tirelesstraveler ~ Yeah, I remember Dick Clark hosting American Bandstand. You just brought back some memories. Thanks for stopping by and for commenting.

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      Judy Specht 5 years ago from California

      Splendid fun, I remember watching Neil on American Bandstand. I'm glad they don't show people chewing gum on TV these days.