Parental guidance first step
People usually anticipate children with a good or bad personality, but often they forget that actions of their children are a replica of what they see and understand.Parental guidance is the main attribute of their actions in public or when they are alone.Often children have been spotted arrogantly communicating with others but no one actually understands the frustration of problems developing inside the child ,instead the child is punished either for misbehaving or the child is now with a tag in his surrounding as a spoilt child.
In today's world rapid changes are occurring, therefore parents don't have time for their children and this the step which draws their child into the world where they feel helpless . This is the stage where children should learn ,what is good or bad? what is the meaning of strangers ? ,parents believe that it is the duty of the schools or institutions in which children are studying to teach them the basic things and their duty is over, they just have to attend the parents teacher meeting once a year or quarterly. This way a child starts separating from his /her parents and his mind shifts towards the other part of the world which maybe friendly or hostile , but the child has to bear it alone.
Parents must understand that they have to play a very important role in guiding their child with all the knowledge that is required which he may or may not understand from the outside world . The child must have a knowledge about the society , he must not feel lonely at times when he's on a wrong path , parents should always understand that tomorrow in this world he may have to be alone, but before that he should understand the comfort that he'll get when he is with his parents and eventually he'll know what he has to do when he'll have kids.
Importance of motherhood is undoubtedly the most affectionate thing a child always craves for. It's often said that a child always learns from his/her father but the values are hereditary from his/her mother. Mother is the only person a child remembers when he's alone or scared . A child has a blind faith on his/her mother , whatever she teaches her child it becomes value rather than merely being a knowledge.
In the end it can be a concluded as a child should never feel he's apart from his family. True the world does not give time to people apart from earning money and satisfaction of needs cannot be fulfilled without it , but in the absence of parental guidance what a child can become we all can assume.