Beauty for Ashes-Famous People Who Overcame Sexual Abuse(How To Protect Children From Exploitation and Abuse)
Overcoming Pain Through Laughter.
Laughter can be the best medicine.
Actor, Producer, and author, Tyler Perry has accomplished a way to reach out to millions of his faithful fans through inspiration and humor.
Around 1990, Perry moved to Atlanta, where two years later I Know I've Been Changed was first performed at a community theater, financed by Perry's life savings. Only 22-years old at the time, Perry worked endlessly to perfect his plays.
Perry's plays touch on Christian themes of forgiveness, dignity, and self-worth, while addressing issues such as child abuse and dysfunctional families.
Some of Tyler Perry's movie touch on painful subjects such as child abuse.His ability to console those who have been violated sexually is a unique gift of compassion and sincerity, encountered through his personal experience, which he shared on Oprah's Show.
Tyler Perry Shares His Story With Oprah, As He Was Once a Victim of Child Sexual Abuse.
Former Miss America Marilyn Van Derbur Established The American Coalition for Abuse Awareness
Marilyn Van Derbur is the 1958 Miss America pageant holder.
The former Miss. America Marilyn Van Derbur founded the American Coalition for Abuse Awareness. The Sexual abuse Van Derbur faced in her childhood prompted her to speak out beyond the pain. Once Marilyn rose above the pain she was able to use her celebrity to help others.
A heartbreaking Violation.
What is Sexual Abuse?
- Sexual Abuse/child abuse: Is another form of rape through the violation of another person's innocence. Also referred to as molestation, by forcing undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another in which most cases the victim knows the abuser.
- Rape: When an undesirable sexual abuse is of immediate force, prompted by a violent act of rage.
Union is extremely passionate about speaking out against sexual abuse.
President Barack Obama appointed Actress Gabrielle Union to the National Advisory Committee on Violence Against Women, a national board dedicated to addressing women's rights and domestic violence.
In 1992, at age 19, Union was attacked, beaten and raped. As a victim/survivor of sexual assault, Gabrielle Union is extremely passionate about speaking out against sexual abuse.
Gabrielle Union Speaks Out On Surviving Sexual Assault - HipHollywoo
Statistics, reveal that 91% of rape victims are female and 9% are male, and 99% of rapists are male.
According to a report conducted at the University of Arizona one in five women will be raped at some point in her life.
Reports reveal that one of six U.S. women has experienced an attempted or completed rape. More than a quarter of college-age women report having experienced a rape or rape attempt since age 14.
A large number of rapes go unreported, only 25% of reported rapes result in arrest.
Many rape kits are not tested. Only 16% of rapes and sexual assaults are reported to the police.
Protect The Children!
Watch Your Children
Please Educate Your Child
How do I Protect My Child And Myself.
Children need to know that it is okay to report anyone who makes them feel uncomfortable. Many children believe that will get in trouble for allowing someone to touch them inappropriate. They walk away feeling shameful. In reality the shame is not their burden to carry. Free your children from such shame. What exploits a child is their inability to report the violation.
Children are innocent by nature. Monitor what they watch on television. In a world which promotes sexuality through music videos, commercials and movies your child's programs should be studied with caution. Make sure that negative influences involving sex is not being displayed to your child.
5 Tips to Protect Your Child From Sexual Abuse
Talk often with your child and set a tone of understanding. Talking openly and directly will let your child know that it’s okay to talk to you when they have questions. take time out to listen to your children.
Teach your child key safety principles. For instance:
- Teach children the names of their body parts so that they have the language to ask questions and express concerns about those body parts.
- If your child is uncomfortable or if someone is touching them, s/he should
tell a trusted adult immediately.
- Let your children know that if someone is touching them or talking to
them in ways that make them uncomfortable that it remain a secret.
3. Strengthen. Your Child
Your child should know that she/he has the right to peak up if they are uncomfortable, or if someone is touching them. It’s okay to say “no” even to adults they know and family members.
Implement Internet safety protocols, and parental controls through platforms such as the Google Family Safety Center. Work with older children to set guidelines for who they can talk to online, and what information can be shared. For instance, be cautious when leaving status or away messages online and when using the "check-in" feature on Facebook or Foursquare.
5. Educate Yourself.
Educate yourself about the warning signs of childhood sexual abuse. Know what to look for, and the best way to respond.
National Sexual Assault Hotline | 1.800.656.HOPE(4673)
The History of Rape Can Be Traced Back To The Time Of King David.
King David's Daughter Tamar Was Raped By Her Half Brother.
King David's Daughter Tamar was raped by her half brother Amnon. Because of this Violent crime Tamar's spirit was broken. It was said that back in those days a woman violated by rape was considered to be spoiled and not fit to marry. Because Tamar's virginity was taken away through a senseless crime she was left to live n shame. This family betrayal inflicted deadly consequences within King David's Family.
Women: (How To Protect yourself from becoming a victim of sexual assault )
- Beware of your surroundings. Avoid dark alleys
- Avoid hostile and verbally abusive men. Rather your at a party or at work.
- If you find yourself in a bad situation fight, and scream do not allow your attacker to take you to a secluded location or a second area. Many Psychiatric professors encourage women to choose fight over fear! Get Angry!
There Are Some Men Who Are Dealing With The Pain Of Rape.
Men Who Have Been Violated Hurt Just As Much As Women.
Because sexual abuse is more common among women, men who have been sexual violated are often overlooked. Mainly due to embarrassment many men keep their painful encounter buried deep within.
Who can forget the true story of Antwone Fisher. In the movie the victim confronts his abuser through a riveting Speech.
I'm still standing, I'm still strong
Have You Ever Been Sexually Abused?
I You Have Been Sexually Abused How Did You Overcome Your Pain?
How Can I Overcome Rape or Being Sexual Abuse?
Healing The Pain Is Possible!
Rather your pain is through incest or a random attack, you can have closure!
- Don't Blame Yourself! Blaming yourself is a waste of time move on towards your healing.
- Get Help.
- Surround yourself with motivational speakers and books that provide comfort.
Inspiring people such as Joyce Meyer's teaches people the following:
- How to deal with the emotional pain of abuse.
- Why victims of abuse often suffer from other addictive behaviors.
- How to receive God's unconditional love.
- The importance of God's timing in working through painful memories
Joyce's testimony can be viewed below.
Joyce Meyer's Personal Testimony (1)
A Great Book To Read Written By An Author Who Has Overcome Abuse On Many Levels.
Support And Educate Your Children. In Rememberence Of Steven Stayner
National Sexual Assault Hotline | 1.800.656.HOPE(4673)
To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he might be glorified.