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COLOURS OF TEENAGE LIFE
'TEENAGE LIFE', when anyone hears about something related to this the first thought that comes into everyone's mind is how cool this life is. When a child is born he/she loves the attentions that he/she gets the interference of our own parents does not affect us.But as the time passes when grow a bit more we start speaking about ourselves,and the most important thing is we try to take strand for ourselves.And then comes a turn for this beautiful life known as teenage life as soon as we enter this life we go through many colours we enjoy the company of our friends we love getting along the people and the most important thing is as soon as we enter this life we completely forget our parents .We all of a sudden start hating the company of our parents we love being with friends all the time rather than noticing our first god known as our parents .I'm not trying to mention here that these all things and these all colours and different faces that we people face are wrong but i am trying to mention that all of this is very natural and happens with each and every individual but how to go through this teenage life and how to enjoy it without going in a wrong path this has a catch and everyone has its own way of handling it . For instance there are many people who take these all things very seriously and goes in a wrong path and blends so much with a teenage life that after a course of time then they regret of what they have done. Some people are golden spots they take this whole segment of changes in a positive way as when they see people seeking success they become more focused and try to achieve their ambitions. As we have earlier also discussed that if a particular thing has its own good and positive site then its a but obvious thing that it also has some harmful and bad sites of its own.So on this note it is very important to be aware of the good and bad facts of it .Teenage life is full of fun and everything has a different impact of its own on this life.
*Now we will discuss about the the advantages and disadvantages that a teenager goes through this life.
The main advantage of being a teenager is that you can explore yourself without serious consequences.You can find out who you are. The disadvantage is that there is difficulty in growing up ,and puberty can be very hard .You also often have the intellect of an adult without all of the rights. You and I as a teenager may well have different answers than those who are well past our teen years .From my perspective ,looking back at my teen years,I see that there are many good and bad things about the teenage years.
The major advantage of being a teen is that there are so many possibilities .Your whole life ,as they say,is ahead of you.You do not know what will happen to you in that life .There are still very few careers that you know you cannot have at this point in your life. All of these things are really exciting things that you still get to wonder about and will find out about.
But that is also major disadvantage of being a teen .You dont really know what your life will be and so there is more stress ,perhaps,than the older people have .At my age,I know more or less what sort of work ill be doing the rest of my life[I THINK] .As a teen ,there is not that kind of stability and certainty in your life.There is much more in the way of worries and insecurities.[What if I never find a job ],[ what if I never find love ] all of these sorts of worries are more prevalent in a teen's life .
So ,to me, the advantages and the disadvantages of teen life are related. You get the thrill of new discoveries and of finding out what life will be . At the same time,you get the instability and insecurity that go along with the thrills.
As we have discussed a lot about a cool life known as the teenage life so I must share some facts about the same .
Each and every teenager when enters into the coolest life known as teenage life he/she experience different colours of this life. Every teenager is so busy now a days in being the coolest chick in the world. everyone wants high standards of living everyone is in the energetic stage to gain popularity and most importantly each and every teenager is so full of themselves that they don't haver time for anything other than that . Everyone is so busy in the world of glamour,social media and friends that they have completely forgotten about the people who have a big hand in making what we actually are .We people are so involved in our lives that we are completely unknown of the fact that if we people have become young so its a obvious thing that our parents have become old . we completely forgot that when we needed our parents the most they were always there standing like a pillar next to us but now when we have become young and our parents need our hand and support we are acting like unknowns.If we people for atleast come out of this cool stage known as teenage and think that how many times our parents helped without even asking questions well there and then get to know that actually we are wrong somewhere.We people are continously blending with this stage that we enjoy every bit of it.
AND HEREBY I END UP BY SAYING THAT THIS TEENAGE LIFE IS A STAGE THAT SHOULD BE ENJOYED TO THE FULLEST BUT IN A LIMITED AND PRECISE MANNER AND NOT IN THE WRONG MOTIVATIONAL SITE. AND IF WE PEOPLE TRY TO FOLLOW IT THIS STAGE WILL BE LIKE HEAVEN AND WELL BE ABLE TO ENJOY EVERY BIT OF A TEENAGE LIFE.
Now as we have discussed a lot about teenage then its a obvious thing that the pillar and people who were always there standing like a pillar through are thick and thin feels what about this adventures stage of life known as teenage.
THERE ARE SEVERAL FORMS AND TYPES OF PARENTING THAT WELL DISCUSS NOW
Parenting teenagers can be challenging and many parents find it hard to adapt to changes in their child's behaviour as they grow up.Here youll find lots of practical advice on how to deal with common teen issues.
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NOW WELL DISCUSS STAGES OF PARENTING EWITH TEENS
*COMMUNICATING WITH TEENS
Knowing how to talk to your teen can be tough. Here our practical guides on how to have meaningful conversations with your son or daughter .
*ALCOHOL AND DRUGS
Some teens may be tempted to experiment with alcohol,drugs or smoking and as parent that can feel frightening.so parents in this case parents should act like friends so that the teens doesnt feel scared of while talking about these things with their parents.
Mood swings are normal in teenagers but if your teen is coping with something more serious here is my advice is to spot the signs that they derive like those of depression ,anxiety,obsessive behaviour or self harm .
SCHOOL AND WORK
Issues can for your teen at school or work, but they may not always come to you for advice or know how to deal with them.Parents can help the teens in many ways like helping your teen find a job .
'Behaviour' can be seen and treated in a manner like you should make sure about these petty things which actually have a great influence on teens life . some of them are make sure that your child is not copying with discruptive teenagers, make sure your childs company is not having a bad influence, is not doing any crime and is not having anti social behaviour. and so on.
*Understanding their role in the family and what happens when things change can be hard for teenagers . here are the advices that can help parents on these issues and some of them are
*Talking to your teen about separation and divorce
*Understanding family problems
*Fostering a teenager
A PARENT SHOULD ALWAYS TRY TO BE A FRIEND AS SOON AS HIS/HER CHILDREN ENTER THIS CONFUSING STAGE OF TEENAGE LIFE SO THAT THE CHILDREN DOES NOT FEEL SHY WHILE TALKING ON ANY KIND OF TOPIC WITH THEIR PARENTS AND CAN TAKE A SENSE OF CALM WHILE THEY TALK ABOUT THE SAME.
AND HERE I END UP THIS ARTICLE BY SAYING THAT THIS WHOLE SCENARIO OF TEENAGE LIFE AND PARENTING IS COMPLETELY INCOMPLETE WITHOUT EACH OTHER .SO EACH AND EVERYONE SHOULD BE AWARE OF THE ILL EFFECTS AND POSITIVE EFFECTS OF THE SAME .Hope you people will get a piece of knoledge with this article and i hope this will help you to change from with in.
WRITTEN BY-SUHANI TARIKA