- Family and Parenting
Child Abusers -----Beware ! I am coming for you !
I am watching you !
My letter to abusers- man or woman !
I recently got into a little "tiff " about men as abusers . So I came to this place to vent ! ......God I love hubs for that ! Thank you Hubs, and Hubbers !--- At issue was the little problem that I have with "Judging people a little harshly" , ........So ," here I go again " . I say, If you abuse a woman or especially a child emotionally and especially physically , and I ever witness it- then you are in trouble man ! In my humble and yes , "judgmental" opinion , the man that abuses doesn't deserve to live ! Now this HUB may be banned , deleted , unpublished , judged insufficient for any or whatever reasons ! I don't really care ! One of the issues of debate was that this woman said to me, " He only abused Me!, I would never have let him touch my children ".........Right !...... I say ,---- You still don't even get it yet do you ! So ?, Where were the kids? , , in the room next door , at your mothers house , at the neighbors in their P.J, s. crying maybe ?, Tell me , where were they while he abused , "only me" ! I can guarantee you this ! They knew , and if they knew it was happening , then guess what lady , t THEY , were just abused as you were ! Oh , there I go again ," Judging harshly " One more question ,...... I almost forgot ! Where were the kids really , Were they hiding in the closet holding their tiny, shaking little fingers over their ears ? And don't give me that, " Everything is not black and white you know "! Uh , yea , sometimes they are ! Like this for instance , The "blackness " of the closet with no light , and the" white" flashes of pain , that the children will feel too ,one way or the other , whether physical of emotional ! Oh , And yes , I do understand the cycles of physical and emotional abuse and the heavy weight that a woman carries in dealing with this vicious cycle , You see , I saw it all from the closet ! Even with the door closed !
To the abusive "men" out there , You are the lowest of the low !...Help us save the world from you , the abusers ! Die early and die often .......!