Collect Family History from Your Living Relatives
How to Find Living Relatives and Gather Information from Them
Time may be running out to gather information from our parents' generation. They may have family information and photos that give you clues to expand your family history.
If your older relatives are in their 70s, 80s or 90s, you'll be sorry if you delay asking them about names, dates and family stories. Some day they will be gone and there will be no one to ask.
Get organized and get in touch with your living relatives to collect what they know. I talked about this topic at my local genealogy club and members agreed that they needed to do this.
Tracking Down the Living Relatives
Start first with the ones you know. This includes your parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles.
Next move on to finding less-known relatives like second or third cousins. They share your great-grandparents and may have family stories and photos to share.
Where can you find the ones you don't already know? Ask your family. "What happened to your uncle? Where did he move to? Did he have children?"
Take the names and locations and start searching. Try the names on Facebook. Check a site like Lost Cousins which tries to match you with others researching the same names.
Once you find a missing relative, get in touch by email, letter, phone or a visit. Remember that it may take some back and forth to establish who you are and draw out the information you want. It can be a slow process.
Set Up Some Cousin Bait to Find Relatives You've Lost Touch with or Who You Don't Know about
Create a family group on Facebook or start a blog to share your family history. Get your name and your family research out there on the Internet.
If a distant relative is looking online for family names, you want them to find you. Make it easy for them.
Ancestry even set up a series of videos on Ancestry Academy on the topic of Cousin Bait: Making Social Media Work for You. It's free to watch and will set you on the right track for finding those living relatives.
Message boards have been around nearly as long as the Internet. You don’t want to ignore them since they are a great place to find like-minded researchers and cousins, and a good way to possibly get a question answered.
- Writing That Perfect Message Board Query (5:10 minutes)
- Do You Need More Email? (4:10)
- Facebook Isn't Just For Cat Videos (4:14)
- Twitter: Genealogy in 140 Characters (5:13)
- Pinterest -- Visualizing Genealogy (3:58)
- Searching for Blogs About Your Ancestors (5:28)
- Create Your Own Blog (4:35)
Set up Family Groups to Share Information on Facebook
Put Your Genealogy Info Online
You want distant relatives to find you, so get your name and your interest "out there." Starting a family group on Facebook like I suggested above is one way to go and it's free.
Starting a family history blog is another way to be visible. Wordpress.com is free and so is Blogger. For an example of this, check out my Martin/McGhee genealogy blog.
A third way to do this is to put queries on message board on genealogy sites like Ancestry.
If you're using Ancestry, look for trees that overlap your own. If someone has a lot of the same people on their tree as you do, chances are good that you are related in some way. Use the message system on the site to contact the tree owner and chat about how you are possibly related.
Here's a sample message that gladdened me to see:
Hi my name is (name deleted for privacy reasons). My Grandfather is Earnest McGhee. His dad was Green Verlon McGhee. Soloman is my grandfather to. I was wondering if we could talk and maybe exchange some information. Thank You, D.
Things to Take Along When Interviewing a Relative
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A Popular Portable Scanner Used by Genealogist
This has the ability to scan oversize pictures and stitch the parts together on your computer.
Other options are the wand style of scanner.
Tips for Interviewing Your Living Relatives
Need Some Sample Questions to Ask Your Relatives?
- StoryCorps | Great Questions
This site provides a list that you can take with you to get your relative talking about family history.
Best of Luck to You
in finding living relatives and getting more family history saved for future generations.
© 2015 Virginia Allain