- Family and Parenting
Are we making the most of what we've been given?
Are any of you challenged with the issue of balance? I see how so many hubbers/bloggers publish new stuff daily.....either this is just a season or simply, many of you are truly gifted and skilled writers since even though I can type fast, I can't bang out something that I consider worth sharing all too soon. I'm not jealous. I admire and appreciate much of what many of you contribute and hope and believe several of you could be making a positive difference in the lives of your readers.
To the Lord, a day is like a thousand years and a thousand years like a day. To me, time can be a perplexing subject, even though we have ways to measure or keep track of it
I don't long to live in the past. From a professional standpoint, I can hardly wait to experience the future in terms of how my real estate business will grow and prosper. I hope./don't believe I have a love of money, but there are goals and dreams that I have and I know hard work is typically what's needed to achieve them. I know God is amazing, mind blowing - a miraculous God who is proficient at operating supernaturally. I know He can bless me beyond my wildest dreams. So far, He hasn't communicated a different way for me to achieve my goals and dreams aside from working in the field I've chosen. Hopefully I'm "tuned in" well enough to know if there is a different direction I should be taking. Hopefully, my faith is strong enough that I will trust and obey, even if He proposes something which sounds ridiculous or impossible (Moses comes to my mind, as a classic example).
When it comes to my children and how quickly they are maturing, I wish things could slow down. LIfe just isn't as simple as it was in decades past....w/ technology you think things would become simplified but in reality, I think it causes us to try to cram in more.
I remember when I was a kid, it seemed like summer vacation, holiday breaks from school, special occasions were forever taking their time to arrive. Now that I'm older, time seems to be flying by. My two boys are ages 11, and within a couple days, 9. Although I love witnessing their independence and developing characters, it's kind of tough recently realizing that "hanging with mom," is uncool. Although I know they love me, their friends rate before I do. Sigh....I know this is natural. To think in the doubling of time that has been spent raising my baby, he will be an adult. Does anyone else find themselves blown away by how fast it goes by? I guess for those who are elderly and still hold a "full deck," (mentally) it seems to go by even faster (so some have told me).
Washington is a beautiful and wonderful place to live. I love living here during the months of March through October. Daylight savings is a week away (hooray and hallelujah!) and come summer, it won't be getting dark until 9:30 at night, providing the illusion of additional time.
One thing I know to be certain is only God knows how much time we have on this earth and I want to make the most of every waking moment. I want my family to know how much they mean to me and I desire to regularly set aside quality time to spend together. Sometimes making this time is quite an effort w/ life being so busy, but it's worth it and there is no substitute. Hopefully my husband and I will impart a lasting, positive legacy upon our children. Certainly my flesh and blood have had an impact on my life, but there are multitudes of others who have positively contributed as well. First and foremost I desire to be a loving wife and mother, yet there are several other people in my life (as well as interests) that I hold dear. If each of us is grateful for the wonderful times spent together - the impacts made on one an-other's hearts and minds - then I suppose my time will have been well spent. There will come a time when I will know for certain.