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Grandparenting Long Distance: Creative Free Iphone Games

Updated on September 28, 2012

Creative Free iPhone Games

You can be really creative during Face Time games with your grandchildren. Can you guess what this is?
You can be really creative during Face Time games with your grandchildren. Can you guess what this is?

Connecting Long Distance Through Face Time

Earlier this year we upgraded our phones from the dinosaur version we carried for years to the newer iPhone. We hadn't planned on purchasing new phones since our antique mobiles were sufficient, but our grandchildren motivated us by expressing how nice it would be to visit face-to-face via the new Face Time option on the iPhone.

Well, that got us thinking. How wonderful it would be to actually see them up close while speaking! And, we discovered that you can walk from room to room, outside, downstairs or upstairs while chatting, playing games and working around the home. It's the next best thing to being physically together!

Gene Perret is quoted as saying, "Grandparents are there to help the child get into mischief they haven't thought of yet." This is true of my husband and me when we are with our grandchildren, even over the iPhone. Not always, but there have been a few times when having fun got us into trouble. Trust me, our antics and horseplay don't always go well within the confines of a living room nor do they over the iPhone.

In order to appease parents (yes, we were reprimanded!), we invented some games to play while on Face Time to keep our conversations at a moderate, civil and semi-quiet speaking level. The best part, they are free and educational!

Did You Guess Correctly?

After a couple of wrong guesses, the full picture revealed a pink gel bracelet.
After a couple of wrong guesses, the full picture revealed a pink gel bracelet.

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iPhone Guessing Game

Our first creative iPhone game was a simple guessing game using toys, small household items, tools, and just about anything small that would fit within the iPhone frame view. We took turns showing a small piece of the item over the camera and asked if the other person could guess what it was.

Here it is grandma (small piece revealed). Can you guess what it is?

A ribbon?

No.

A piece of licorice?

No. (giggling)

Can you show me a bit more?

(More is revealed.) Do you know what it is?

Nope. Show me some more, please.

Of course. (more is displayed -- followed by giggling)

I give up. What is it?

My pink gel bracelet. (the full item is displayed)

Oh! I never would have guessed!

(Laughter and giggling from both grandma and grandchild)

This is a fun game and it can go on endlessly depending on how many items you can find and how engaged the child is in playing (and if grandma or grandpa can keep up). We have discovered that the fun is to find items that are unusual, colorful, and with some mystery to the shape.

Some items we have used to play this game are:

  • Scissors
  • Postage stamps
  • Hairbrush
  • Crayon
  • Small screwdriver
  • Button
  • Toy erasers, animals, dolls and vehicles.

I must admit that my grandkids win most of the time on this game. They can come up with some clever guessing items, plus they have all those toys which they use to their advantage! Rest assured, as you learn to play this game with your grandkids, you will come up with some interesting items to display and guess.

More "Free" iPhone Learning Game Activities

Game
How To Play
Learning/Educational Concept
ABC Discover Me
Similar to Highway Alphabet. Set a time limit to find the letters around the home. You must pronounce the letter and show it over the phone when you see it for points. This can be very competitive and "active" fun.
Letter and sound recognition; some physical exercise
Noun-Question Matchup
One person writes a noun, such as cat. The other person writes a sentence. You then share your writing to see if they make a good sentence. (They usually do not match and it is loads of fun to read them!)
Language, grammar and verbal communication.
Word Look-up
You say an unusual word (the funnier the meaning, the better!), such as malodorous ("stinking"), and ask if they know what it means. If not, use it in a sentence. If still not able to guess, then you have them look it up using a dictionary.
Language, grammar, reading comprehension
What am I?: Drawing Game
You describe an item to them, such as a cat, to see if they can draw it from visual imagery. This is a really fun game because you never get it right and the results are hilarious!
Visualization, Reasoning, Critical thinking, Problem solving

Fun Guessing Game Song

The Rewards Of Grandparenting Long Distance

The single most important thing a grandparent can do is to build a strong relationship with their grandchild. The bond between the two can lead to a satisfying relationship that not only helps both to understand the gap in ages, but also provides a mentoring avenue for the child.

We love talking with our grandkids, but in order to help them open up and feel comfortable sharing their life, we need to find some common interests. I have discovered playing games with them aids tremendously in building commonality, and it downplays the formality of a conversation, especially the aspect of being quizzed. Being comfortable speaking with an adult is a learned social skill, and grandparents can help build this skill by using games to make the communication fun. It opens up the relationship to one where the child can easily converse as needed about important events, discuss problems, and the things they are passionate about in life.

Grandparenting long distance by iPhone, especially using Face Time, is a great technological advantage that provides continuity in a child's life. It conveys your love and interest while keeping the bonds that tie strong.


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      [ Danson Wachira ] 4 years ago from Nairobi, Kenya

      It is amazing how technology can enhance lives and relationships. Playing games and showing interest in kids activities really motivate kids and help them to open up their mind. Your grandkids must be very lucky to have such caring grandmom. Voted up and useful.

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      CassyLu1981 4 years ago from Spring Lake, NC

      Love this! My mom calls often to talk to the kids, doing it this way would make it more memorable for all of them. Excellent :) Voted up and shared!

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      Janine Huldie 4 years ago from New York, New York

      Dianna, what an awesome thing. I have used FaceTime very sparingly, because my Aunt who goes to Florida over the winter doesn't have an iPhone, but we set up Skype and I am sure these types of games can be used over that as well. Thanks for sharing these games and love your different approach on using FaceTime to stay in contact with your grandkids. Have of course voted, shared and tweeted too!!

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      Cogerson 4 years ago from Virginia

      Lots of great tips and suggestions that I can use in the future....I am also in the boat of having my granddaughter leaving many miles away....I live in Virginia and she lives 5,000 miles away in Alaska.....we do Skype but using our smart phones seems like a better way to communicate. Glad to see you have figured out a way to bond with your grandkids....voted up and very useful.

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      Linda Bilyeu 4 years ago from Orlando, FL

      Excellent idea for the guessing game! I use FaceTime often with my daughter who lives in Gainesville. We celebrated her birthday via FaceTime and she's joined us in many of Faith's events since she could be there. Aunt Michelle and Faith really enjoy their FT. Now for games, we like the talking cat, bird and toilet. :)

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      RTalloni 4 years ago from the short journey

      Such fun for those important times! Thanks for sharing your super ideas for using the iPhone to maintain your relationship with grandchildren.

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      Mary Craig 4 years ago from New York

      You always come up with great ideas and this is yet another one. It is difficult when you are far away from your grandchildren. You can use an iPad for Facetime too...I don't have an iPhone but an iPad is definitely on my list!

      Voted up, useful, and interesting.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Dwachira, playing games is fun and it keeps us laughing - important at our age! Thanks for visiting and your loyal support! Enjoy your Monday.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      I believe your mom and kids would really love this type of communication. It is lots of fun. I appreciate your votes and visit. Be well and strong today.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Janine, Skype is also a tech tool that works well with these types of games. Anything to keep the conversation interesting and fun. Thanks for your support of the topic, your votes and your sharing. You are a great supporter and I do enjoy your positive contributions. Take care out there.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Wow, you do have quite a distance to cover in keeping in touch with your granddaughter. I think Skype can be used with these games just as well... enjoy that sweet child. Take care and be strong.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Linda, you know what I'm talking about in this hub -- it's so wonderful to have this option to keep in touch with your kids. Love your games suggestions..now, that's fun!

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Rtalloni, good to see you this morning. Thanks for your visit here and for leaving such a supportive comment. Have a great Monday.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Tillsontitan, yes other similar types of technology will work with these games... just have fun! Thanks for your visit, comment and votes. Always great to have your on a hub. Be well and strong, friend.

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      alphagirl 4 years ago from USA

      Great hub for grandparents to engage!

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Good day, Alphagirl! Thanks for coming by here. Enjoy your Monday.

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      TeachableMoments 4 years ago from California

      Teaches, another great hub! I admit, I've never owned an iPhone! My phone dates back at least 10 years. However, by reading hubs like yours and watching family members interacting with loved ones with their phones, I'm starting to think now might be the time to upgrade. My family is very lucky to live so close to each other. My daughter sees both sets of grandparents at least once a week. However, sometimes I feel like the time we do spend together isn't treasured enough. We take for granted how easy it is to get together. Your hub reminded me how important it is to connect with our loved ones. You found creative ways to really connect with your grandchildren and to teach them valuable social skills in a fun way. In some ways your iPhone games are more memorable them my family sitting around the television on a Sunday night. Thank you for this hub and your clever ideas. I'm going to look into purchasing an iPhone for the times when family members are separated. Also, I think I'm going to spice up our next Sunday dinner by suggesting Family Game Night. Voted up!

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Teachable, we kept our old phones for so long and finally caved in for the upgrade. It was because we wanted to communicate with our kids in a more personal way. The games are fun and do keep us conversing much longer. I am glad that you found the hub useful and motivated you to upgrade the phone for a good reaons - family. Have fun on Family Game Night.. wish I could join you!

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      Ruchira 4 years ago from United States

      so sweet, Dianna.

      My parents are in india so, my kid generally does these types of games over skype. It sure is fun to see the older generation and younger one mingle and laugh like crazy.

      beautiful hub with many votes!

      sharing it across

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Ruchira, I am glad to hear how others keep in contact with each other and have so much fun sharing ideas and games. Thanks for your support.

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      Jackie Lynnley 4 years ago from The Beautiful South

      My son and his girlfriend are really into this stuff. They play games while in the same house or room and they text instead of talk, which I am sure many times is about me, lol.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Jackie, I can relate. You do appreciate the fun they have on the tech tools, but you wonder what they are saying about you too. Ha, ha, ha. Thanks for visiting. Enjoy your evening.

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      Rosemary Sadler 4 years ago from Hawkes Bay - NewZealand

      I don't have an iPhone, didn't think I had the need for one plus I am not really technical minded. But after reading this I can see how useful it would be to interact with my grandchildren who are long distance. So thank you I need to rethink this.

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      Linda Crampton 4 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      Using FaceTime to communicate with grandchildren is a wonderful idea, Dianna, especially if the games that you describe are played. I don't have an iPhone, but I do have an iPod Touch. It is fun to communicate with people using FaceTime, but you've shown that it can have educational value too! Thank you for the ideas.

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      IAmForbidden 4 years ago from Neverland - where children never grow up.

      Dianna, this is super cool!

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      Nancy Yager 4 years ago from Hamburg, New York

      For someone like myself who refuses to use a cell phone and dislikes everything about them. For something fun like this, I might consider getting one.

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      b. Malin 4 years ago

      Loved your Hub Teacher...Lots of Wonderful and Useful Information. I'm not sure if I'm going to get an Iphone...But if I do, I've got this Hub Bookmarked! I've used "Skype" to communicate with the Grandkids as well as the Adult kids. Of course the Telephone and e-mails still work when all else fails.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Thank you for all of your wonderful support of the hub:

      B. Malin

      Lipnanacy

      Unknown Spy

      Alicia C

      RoseMay

      You are all so great!

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      drbj and sherry 4 years ago from south Florida

      I dunno, Dianna. How did we grandparents ever grow up the right way without Skype and the iPad? How lucky our grandchildren are!

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      Nithya Venkat 4 years ago from Dubai

      Great hub, iphone is a great gadget to have!! Face time and innovative games for bonding and learning. Another gem of a hub with great tips and ideas. Now am sure all grand parents will opt to buy the iphone. Voted up.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Drby, I think we enjoyed our grandparents just as much in the past, but now we have the advantage of technology. Thanks for your visit -- always a pleasure to see you.

      Vellur, yes, I think it is a great way to keep in touch with grandkids... you just can't miss out on a chance to bond with them. Enjoy your day, friend

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      Movie Master 4 years ago from United Kingdom

      I love the idea of these games, I am bookmarking in the hope I will get a iphone one day!

      thank you and voted up!

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Movie Master, we waited years before updating our phones, we like to be frugal in our spending. However, the new phone is useful in keeping connected with our grandkids. Thanks for coming by and you take care out there.

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      Christy Birmingham 4 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      How cute - and practical too with families now so spread out! I can just see you playing the phone game about the bracelet :) What fun! I am glad you updated your phone so you have more 'face' time with your grandkids.

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      whonunuwho 4 years ago from United States

      A really great hub and many fine ideas shared. Thanks so much for your wonderful ideas.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Christy, just used FaceTime today to play games. It's a blessing. Thanks for visiting here today. Enjoy your evening.

      Whonu, good to see you here. I appreciate your being part of the discussion here. Have a great evening.

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      Honey Halley 4 years ago from Illinois

      Those iphones games seem fun; and, if I wasn't a Gramma myself; I'd pick you to be mine...lol! My grandsons are both autistic. I think that the younger could probably play those games with me. He works his way around my daughter's phone like a champ. The problem is it will probably takes me months to figure it out. I have a crappy Razor but I know how to work it....lol! Thanks for the comments on my hubs, also. I really enjoyed your hubs.

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      Honey, you have made my day with your quick wit. I love the fact that you work with your kids to help them enjoy life. I agree that the phones are difficult to navigate at times, but the kids have no problems with this at all Thanks for your added value here. Enjoy those grandkids.

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      ExpectGreatThings 4 years ago from Illinois

      My kids would love playing these games with their grandmas. Thank you for writing this. I'll be passing it on to them!

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      SimoniniKid 4 years ago from Beautiful Glen Ellyn, IL

      Can't wait to try these....as a Grandma who loves playing with her Grands! Plus, you've stimulated my own creative juices and teaching instincts to flow. Will be fun to see if I can also come up with even more clever ideas! Thanks for your ideas!

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      Dianna Mendez 4 years ago

      ExpectGreatThings, I hope your kids and grandma have hours of fun playing together. We always have a blast doing these fun games. Thanks for visiting and commenting. Enjoy!

      Simonini, glad to know you liked the game ideas, they are so fun to play with grandkids. You will probably come up with even more creative ideas, you'll have to share! Enjoy your weekend and thanks for coming by here today. Blessings.

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      Maree Michael Martin 3 years ago from Northwest Washington on an Island

      Those games sound so fun and easy to do. Just got an iPhone, so excited now to try these features out. My family isn't that far away, yet, it would still be fun to interact with them this way.

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      RTalloni 3 years ago from the short journey

      Glad to see your great ideas highlighted again. Am now on Pinterest so in two clicks this will be on my Children's Activities/Books/Games.

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      Dianna Mendez 3 years ago

      Ruby, my grandkids and I have fun playing guessing games and they are pre-teen and teen-agers now. It is always their choice on what to play when we call -- sometimes I am surprised at what they can think of doing for fun.

      RTalloni, Thanks for sharing on pinterest and for your comment. Hope you are having a wonderful day.

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