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How to Deal with The Most Difficult People
Keep a Distant from Difficult People
I dealt with problematic people for a while and finally removed them from my life.
Sometimes I feel I just don't fit in with the crowd.
It hurts me to see the way people treat each other don't get me wrong they don't dislike me.
Their work is better and my work may or may not be the same if attempted.
I try to keep away from the problematic, or the difficult people.
My problem is I fail to understand their mentality.
I can laugh and talk with them and sometimes I am confused by the way they speak.
Often there is a complicated communication that leads me to thinking why?
Whenever there is a function I am not asked to give a hand like other neighbors do.
I am always left out in that way, and find that so hard to understand.
I want to be part of what goes on in the village and I do no see that happening for me.
Why am I left out?
Is it that I won't perform the tasks in the same way or will I do better than they would do?
Communication can be non existent when I don't listen. I do listen, still it is a problem for me just dealing with difficult people has become such an issue.
How would you react in such circumstances?
I know these people are inferior toward me. The local people see me differently.
This life is part of my life, a new culture, the new people, new language, and of all new challenges.
My mind flows with all kinds of thoughts and this can ruin my day or make my day great one.
I choose to have happy and good days and don't sweat the small stuff.
Dealing with difficult people can be in the work place or right in your neighborhood also in other public places.
You must stay calm when in situations with the difficult people.
If you feel upset with an individual like I am at times. I try to remain calm and react later.
If you react straight away you could lose control of the moment and say something regretful.
Don't get into a rage.
You could lose your friendship you have with that person.
Instead, be cool about the situation, and handle conversations when you have calmed down.
Do you think difficult people are worth your precious time?
Some people behave badly don't waste your precious time with difficult people.
Confrontation can ruin everything for you even your career.
The negative energy you receive is not worth your time.
The best is to keep your distance and be friendly in your own way.
Disliking someone can be powerful to you or the other person. You must have the power to make your decisions.
Avoid the misunderstanding and let it go.
If a friend does not call for you for days they are busy or ignoring you.
Don't be offended when this happens to you. Give them time, and they will call you back if busy, and if they are ignoring you that call won't come to you. Don't bother these people..
It is not about what is right, or wrong. It is about the principle.
Sometimes misunderstandings can flood your mind with silly thoughts.
You should try thinking of yourself in that person's shoes.
The difficult person will give you an idea of why their behavior is strange in comparison to yours.
The pressure one has can be hard to cope with leading them to act that differently.
People grow, and change all the time. If you understand that person, you will see more than you need to.
I feel the difficult people I come in contact with are envious, and less positive types of people.
Issues and less effective communications does lead to many other conversation.
The relationship I have with the difficult person and the issues I discuss with the difficult person has a great effective on my communication.
I avoid shouting or yelling, when in conversation that won't get me any where nice or pleasant.
Talking is better than yelling.
Being firm shows better character and shows I can solve the problem easily.
I have come across an aggressive person due to Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder he is often the temperamental individual.
He would be sweet and all so nice in a conversation and suddenly he would snaps at you.
I had no idea about this person until I worked out his behavior.
He can be most difficult to communicate with, but with an understanding of his situation it is easier to cope with his aggressive behavior.
Overtime I found out there is not much one can do except for us to keep our distance from him.
He chooses conversations to solve the problem, and often he looks for the wrong in the situation, rather than what is right.
The individual is focused on issues of debate, and his face goes red when in powerful conversations.
The instant red in the face explains all about his rude behavior.
He enjoys dominating the field and can be right out defensive.
The kind of person who thinks his opponent is stupid.
The negative person does have positive qualities. The negative qualities overrides the positive qualities.
I use humor to communicate with difficult people that works fine with me.
Sometimes people can be quite stuck up, and don't communicate.
To get words out of some people can be impossible.
By using humor with the difficult person you will see their true character.
Difficult people pick on you and focus on a fault they can use to make you feel down.
Once you show them you are in control. The power you have can put you on top of the difficult situation. Coping with the difficult people thereafter becomes a successful one.
Don't give these individuals a chance to pick on you.
Never back down, always find a way to communicate with difficult individuals.
People who don't like themselves have a problem with everyone else.
Don't be the victim of the difficult person's target.
Don't cut off your nose to spite your face.
Insecure people always have issues with themselves, and tend to make others feel problematic.
One will experience a positive lifestyle with good communication in dealing with difficult people. Relationships can be improved, and success can show gradually with power and great strengths.
You want others to see your confidence, and to know you are better. Never deny what you know. Your capabilities are of another important fact about yourself. I learned this through my own experiences.
Difficult people feel threatened by the behavior of others, and envy their behaviors.
You can't always communicate with a difficult person. Use your strong skill to show you can be better, and that you are better.
When you show the difficult person you are better than they are in all aspects. These people tend to look differently at themselves.
Feeling sorry for themselves is one of the most common ways of acting on their behaviors.
Society has all kinds of people. One has to learn how to put up, or shut up with their confrontations and challenges. The greater adventures experienced is another part of their lives that can be shown with all emotions. This if shared with the calm individual.
It comes with culture behavior, and a different conversation. Not everyone understands each other.
That does not mean you have to lose your friendships, or relationships with each other.
The many different people learn from each other, and respect each other in different ways.
Acceptance is very important.
First accept yourself. My way is not to look for acceptance from others.
If you think acceptance from others will make your life better, then think again!
Acceptance makes a huge a difference in one's life, not from others but from yourself.
Others can talk and say what they like and will have an issue with accepting you but then who cares?
Difficult people are bullies, they can be your next door neighbor, or your co-worker.
A husband, or wife, and even your child can be that bully.
It is hard for others to accept you.
Difficult people are rude
How to deal with Difficult people
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© 2014 Devika Primić