- Family and Parenting
How your daughter transforms you into a better woman
The love for my daughter prompted me to write this whole thing. I know a lot of mothers out there can relate to this niche most especially if you used to be a happy-go-lucky type of person and a first time mom like me.
We love our children more than anything else in this world that we are even very much willing to sacrifice everything just for their welfare. That is how great the love of a mother is to her children. It is indeed an unconditional and undying love.
Back when I was a kid, I can say that growing up was not that easy for me. I went through a lot of hardships in life, and it was a roller coaster ride for me I must say. I have to deal with some issues with myself and my family which is very unhealthy for a growing child. At such a very young age, I have to learn on how to conquer such challenges and trials in life. At a tender age, I have to teach myself on how to be strong for my siblings as I am the eldest in the family and the source of strength of my siblings.
Not to mention, I grew up in a broken home which is so hard to take back then. It feels like living in a world with no air to breathe that slowly kills you. That is how crucial a complete family to a growing child since we all want a happy and complete family. A place wherein we can call home, and a perfect platform wherein we will be molded to be the best person that we can be in the future, and would completely defines us, as an individual.
As I grew older, I just learned to accept the reality of life that everything happens for a reason and believed that it will be unraveled to me sooner or later whatever that reason may be. In all honesty, growing up, I always felt that there was something missing in my life and I'm constantly asking God to reveal what's lacking or what's that missing piece in my life in order for me to be happy and eventually, be contented with what I currently have. I asked Him to guide me for the reason that I am so confused on what path should I take. I prayed so hard to help me not to dwell on my past but rather live my present and look forward to the future.
I really have a hard time doing these things, until an angel came into my life. She was absolutely God's answer to all the things that I hardly prayed for. Back then, I was having a hard time figuring out if what was that missing piece in my life, not until she came into my life. Having her is like a 180-degree turn in my life, from no sense of direction type of person to a more motivated and inspired individual. At this very moment, I can definitely say that my life now is more meaningful and more colorful, and that is because of my wonderful angel, my daughter.
Even though raising a child is one of the toughest things in the world, as you may face some challenges along the way and you still have to learn a lot of things to be the best mother that you can be to your child, the bottom line here is that, it is indeed the most fulfilling thing for a woman and truly, the best achievement for a mother is to have raised a child very well.
Having a lovely daughter in my life made me a more loving, caring and optimistic person than ever before.Hence, I can definitely say that my daughter did transform me into a better woman, a better mother and a better person .