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I am a good Father...!

Updated on December 21, 2012

Father and Sons at the Snow

Me and my kids at the snow.
Me and my kids at the snow. | Source

Father holding his new born

Father holding his new born child
Father holding his new born child | Source

"I am a better parent"

"I am a better father than my ex". In general people thinking that MEN; we shouldn't be allow to have custody of our children, but the reality of it all is that those people: women, men, judge's, attorney's and any law practitioner, do not comprehend that FATHER'S are better parent's than some mother's. And in some cases in the direction of a family setting, we are better parent's, providers, security, Love and give stability as well.

In my case, I raised a child from the age of 5 years old that was not my biological son. To him and to everyone I was and am his father, that included his friends. Now this non-biological son passes judgement, on his own biological mom, and says to her "this person that is not my father is a better parent than you". How ironic is this, that a son becomes aware of this and makes such comments to a parent!

I am have been involve in major separation cases with my client's. I have come to harshly understand that it's not easy. There's always one parent being very vindictive, because of the whole separation, the problems and instability of the marriage or relationship. In turn is not fair to the children, they suffer more than we think psychologically. Be very cautious of what you say and do, your actions and words will always be remembered and they can be very destructive and damaging.

The upset parent can't understand that, this type of arguments need stop for the betterment of the children and the whole issue at hand. I know that as parent's; husband's and wife's, there is a lot that we compromise during the marriage. This compromising needs to continue to make sure that the kids never suffer or hurt.

We are here to help you stop the arguements and fighting; We urge you settle all your issue, before they damage the kids aspects of you and your relationship with them...Family Matters don't have to be costly.

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      Some kid with a J as his first letter 

      8 years ago

      A good father is something you can never replace and I cant wait to be just like mine.....Glad your doing good rico!

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      Deborah Demander 

      8 years ago from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD

      Wise word for parents everywhere.



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