Is it really necessary to allow a third person in your life?
Conflict & Intervention of third person & Ego
It is common to get a conflict between partners; whether it might be lovers, live in relationship or married couples.
What will you do in that case? Heated arguments? Fights? Being apart for some time, days without speaking to each other?
What's next? What do you will do??
Want to reunite and live together?
If you want to be united, lead a successful life, please "do not" take your issue to any third person, like your friends, parents or to any of the relatives. Instead you both please sit together and discuss. Speak about what has happened, where it went wrong, "without" ego.
What will happen if you let a third person?
The reason not to take this issue to a third person is? They don't know the real issue. They can't speak what is right, what is wrong. They can't analyze the issue / situation and provide you a judgment or a resolution.
If the third person is the guy’s friend, he will lean towards the guy. If he / she is the girls friend or relative, they will lean towards the girls side. You won’t get a valid decision or advice.
My first suggestion / advice is to ignore the ego. It is the first enemy for the couples. You can have your individual ego outside your relationship / family, but inside a relationship, if you show ego, it will not let you live.