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Absent Dad's Non Absent Dad's!
Wake up Call
Dads Dads, listen up Dads, including the ones who work and play, spending time with family is not a hard strain, its just that Mothers need their time too their drained.
We need you Dads to understand sometimes, that we do no stress you although we should, but we let you get on with your own tasks, while you wait around just for us to ask
Why?, How?, When? Now?, we want things to get done,somehow, as soon as you can get a chance DAD'S, please realise that your role is only part time, We Mother's do EVERYTHING! from birthing, to bathing, changing nappies, controlling sickness, attending appointments, going on school outings, balancing things, then in the end we left with just shouting not just at the children but at you fathers, out of frustration, feeling annoyed simply because we Mother's always feeling distraught
Yes we feel tired most times, Yes we need you to take over for a while , Yes we would love you to read children a Bed time story, as for the father's who are in and out of your child's life, Ask yourself this, do you think this is fair? not just for the Mother's but also for your child, wake up,smell the coffee, enough of this nonsense, the story of your dream is now over, this is reality not reality TV, the children are your environment, not pretend play get over yourself enough of your games
When we were producing you sure was not asleep, remember the good times we had under the sheets, enough of this reminiscing, this is no longer a dream, you wish it could go back to the way it was RIGHT? laugh out loud That will be your dream! Well this is life now, stop fussing and arguing, no more absence, need more presence around your children guarantee this will make a huge difference.
Now Dad's, Dad's once again Dad's, Respect Us Mother's we gave Birth to your child, to your children, as for some Father's their the best when it comes to their children, as for the rest of them they are the ones who gives us the stress!
Which Role is Harder?
© 2015 Melissa Francis