- Family and Parenting
Do you ever sit down and think how lucky you are just being here living and breathing, alive and kicking. It’s a minor miracle that we are here, what if something had happened in history. What if, what if something somewhere along the time line of your family tree changed, would you be here? Is it a miracle that we, you and I are here all together, one wrong turn in history and it would have changed everything what we know today.
Some years ago I decided to start my family tree but I came to a complete stand still and couldn’t go back any further. A good few years later my brother took it up and continued where I had left off going back further than I did. To be honest I did get back that far and you don’t need to go back too far before you get to what if?
My Great Grandfather was born in the 1860’s and became a miner, spending a good few years from an early age down the mine before going over to America. Now this is where my hub story begins.
My Grandfather started working at the mine at the age of 12 or 13 a common age in those days to be starting work. At the age of 18 he, for some reason decided to go to America. When we first came across this we couldn’t understand why did decided to go to America in the first place back in 1881. More importantly why came back in the 1890’s which we are most great for. After some digging around the internet I came across an answer, which is more or less right to why he went to America. We believe the main reason for going to America was mining and the railroad. I guess the thought of more money, fresh start in a new world appealed to him. While he was over in the US he met his English wife who had also moved to America with her parents. They had three children before returning back to UK. The reason for coming came to the UK in 1890 was, we believe to be strikes. Having a young family and little money with being on strike he decide to come back home and start a fresh life back in England with his family.
Would I be here?
Now what if he decided not to come back to England what would have happened? What if there hadn’t been any strikes and he stayed in the US. Well for sure I wouldn’t be writing this as I wouldn’t be here. My Grandfather was born in 1899 when my great grandfather was back in the UK. Even if he stayed in America he would still have been born, but he wouldn’t have met my Grandmother, so my Mother wouldn’t have been born. My father wouldn’t have met my mother, meaning that I won’t be here.
If something had happened to have made my great grandfather stay in America it would have changed the course of history in my family tree as it is known to day. But thankfully he did come back and the history that I know remains. I’m here to tell the story of what if. However doesn’t it make you think how lucky we are to be here anyway? A mistiming, a miss meeting, last minute change in plans and it will change everything. I know looking back at my family tree and looking at all the, what if’s, it does makes you feel how lucky you are just being here. Maybe a miracle after all that I’m here alive and kicking.
I would loved to have met my great grandfather, which I know is impossible, but just to ask him why. Why did he really go to America and then come back. We can are only guess what could have happen as we don’t really know for sure. But what we do know is that he went to America and came back.
Thank you for viewing my work, take care and have fun