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Mothering is for Everyone

Updated on August 29, 2018
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Mothering is an Action

Mothering is an action meaning to nurture or to raise a child and or children. During May we celebrate mothers. It is important to honor all those who cultivate others in the real sense of the word.

There are many titles, Mother, mommy, mom, mama, Lois, and for a time, this becomes their identity almost devoid of any other. Children summon regular occurrence with the call mommy, mama, or mom. If amongst a group of them when the call issues the heads turn in quick response.

For years I wondered after being told it was doubtful I would have children when or how I might become a mom. I recall a conversation at one point where Doctor shared, “you will not have children of your own, so why bother, and you might as well get rid of the parts.”

I found this cold, and the truth is they did not understand the power of my God. This limiting conversation defined me as non-mother for a time. However, In my way, I was mothering many children who needed nurturing. They may lose a parent or had one that was not as accessible as they experienced life.

Perhaps God allowed this as there was the sincere desire for me to share that love that burned inside of me. I believed my God is a mountain mover, I trusted and surrendered my status as a mother to Him. He delivered me with His amazing grace allowing two beautiful souls to care for along with my husband. Miracles of life I carried and performed against the odds of circumstance.

I too know the loss of a child through miscarriage, also many years of waiting for God’s plan for my life as Mama to unfold. Many lost a child or lost a mother in this lifetime, always before they were ready to.

Since that statement of, “you should get rid of your parts,” I vowed to experience motherhood by any means that God would provide. It wouldn't matter if they were my own, only that God placed them before me. After my surrender, He blessed me with my special babies to nurture, two beautiful miracles a girl and boy.

We all can nurture

I do not share these personal thoughts to say, how lucky I am or how amazing it is to be a mom (although it is), but rather to impress upon us all, that mothering is a gift anyone can have and be an integral part. I want to send a shout out to those who have taken the time to share with others in a nurturing way. Every mentor, every case worker, youth leader, teacher, single parent or grandparent raising a child or those caring for anyone, an older adult, or even little furry critters.

To nurture, to be love and care for, this is the art of raising the world, or for lack of a better word, the art of mothering. I recall a time working with at-risk youth in the juvenile court systems, many of those kids had no one they could call "mother." They were often raising themselves along with any sibling that fell in line with them. Even at a young age as a young adult, I felt the urge to protect and nurture those lost and left to fend for themselves. If we think about it, young men and woman at war seek this same need-based nurturing, and some soldier though not identified rises to the occasion and watches after the ducklings so to speak. In every hive there is Queen Bee, in every colony, there is a Queen Ant.

So it goes in every circumstance there is the ability to nurture and love. Therefore, all of us, male and or female can be mothering. To be a mother and the act of mothering are two very different things. I suppose the most important is the action. Let's take action and mother the world as nurturers. To nurture makes our world a better place. Our Father in heaven gave us the gift of mothers, but He gave us all the gift nurturing. So God bless everyone on Mothers Day and let's take action and get mothering.


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    • The Stages Of ME profile imageAUTHOR

      The Stages Of ME 

      5 years ago

      Tireless Traveler ~

      I am glad I hung in there too, one never knows what God has in store. Having faith is tough at times but so rewarding in the end. Also true how the little bugger touch the part in a persons heart even when it may seem frozen. How easily a child can melt it. Thanks for your comment and have a blessed day.

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      Judy Specht 

      5 years ago from California

      One stuck on themselves has difficulty nurturing. Those rascally children have a knack for drawing even the selfish into nurturing. So glad you didn't get rid of the parts just because someone said they were, "useless".

    • The Stages Of ME profile imageAUTHOR

      The Stages Of ME 

      5 years ago

      Faith Reaper,

      Thank you so much for the sweet comment, you are so kind. Have a wonderful week. God Bless

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      Faith Reaper 

      5 years ago from southern USA

      Oh, how very beautiful! Thank you for sharing here. Yes, we can all love, nurture and care for another one who is in need of a mother!

      You are beautiful.

      Voted up ++++ and sharing

      God bless you. In His Love, Faith Reaper

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