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How to Be The Most Popular Girl in School

Updated on August 14, 2013


Take the Test

Here is a little quiz to start the ball rolling please answer the questions and you will find your rating below.

  • 1) Are you the most beautiful girl in school?
  • 2) Are you wearing all of the latest fashion designer clothes?
  • 3) Is your hair sitting perfectly?
  • 4) Is your make up just right?
  • 5) Do you have the latest must have music in your IPod?
  • 6) Have you had your nails done in the past few days?

If you answered yes to all of the above questions (Well done!) you're looking good, but that won't help you much if you want to be the most popular girl in school.

If you answered no to any or all of the questions above (well done!), you don't have to be perfect in every way to be popular, unless you are a television character.

Before I get on to how to be the most popular girl in school I must warn you that being the most popular is hard work, and when you get the top dog position you would find it very difficult to stay there for long. You could compare it to a boxing career.

As a boxer you are constantly working, gaining strength, speed and stamina, and fighting different people every month or so until one day you get your chance to fight for the world title, as soon as you win the title you become the target of every other boxer in your weight group, they all want your title and they will do anything possible to try to take it away from you.

If you visit any school yard in any state or even in any country around the globe you will notice different groups of people hanging out together, the Cheerleaders, the jock's the geeks, the weirdo's and so on, everyone wants to be part of a group and when it comes down to the brass tacks everyone wants to be the well respected member of the group that everyone else in the group looks up to and turns to first if they have a problem.

How to be Popular

If you look up the word popular in the dictionary you will find results similar to the two below.

  1. regarded with favor, approval, or affection by people in general: a popular preacher.
  2. regarded with favor, approval, or affection by an acquaintance or acquaintances: He's not very popular with me just now.

In other words you want more friends, more people to like you, you want people to see you as a good person and a good friend.

Look at both definitions again, nowhere in them does it mention how you look, how you dress, or even how lovely your hair is, to be popular you don't have to be the best at everything, whether it be Athletics, Cheerleading, Mathematics or English.

The fact that you are reading this page leads me to believe that you lack a little confidence in yourself; you could be a little shy and a little bit lonely.

You want to make new friends but are nervous about approaching new people.

Building your confidence is difficult but with a little perseverance and patience you will become a different person.

Learn to love yourself, if you don't then you can't really expect other people to, join in other peoples conversations, smile and say hello when you pass other people, be a shoulder to cry on when someone needs it, offer advice if someone asks, have fun, join in activities, you will soon become a part of the group.

Cleanliness is next to Godliness, take care of your personal hygiene, no one wants to know you if you smell or look dirty, wash at least once every day and ensure a change of clothes every day.

Learn some jokes, but don't be the fool, although everyone likes the fool they are not taken seriously, be fun to be around and serious when the situation requires it.

If you are the type of person that complains about almost everything, then learn to control it, try to see the positives of any situation nobody likes a moaner.

Nasty people are not liked, never be a bully, never bitch about your friends, never backstab your friends, and most importantly never make your friends look foolish.

Be a good friend, ready to stand up and help your friends if they get into trouble, be there for them when they need you, always listen to what they have to say and always show your loyalty to them, this builds up trust in the group and soon you will be the first one people turn to when they need help.

You will soon climb the ranks in the group and people will love you for who you are.

You will also gain reputation throughout the school for being a good friend and other people will want to hang with you and your list of friends will grow and grow.

There really isn't a lot to it work on your self confidence, be the best person that you can be to yourself and to others and soon you will be the most popular girl in your group and if you want to, the most popular girl in the entire school.


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      Athlyn Green 9 years ago from West Kootenays

      Good Hub, Jimmy; informative and well written--and so true!

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      Poetic Knight 9 years ago from Ottawa

      Great Idea and a great advice hub. Keep on doing that and you just may be the most popular huster for popular people wanna be's.


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      MrMarmalade 9 years ago from Sydney

      I think you are going to be the most popular hubber.

      Thank you

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      Jewels 8 years ago

      Thank you so much!

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      heather 8 years ago

      thanks im gonna try it , im new in my school and have the summer to train for poularity.ttyl:)

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      ~smile4me~ 8 years ago

      i'm going to try it and thanks for the tips i think it might work because the person that is the most popular at our school,well she not very nice but still is the most pettiest and everything so im going to try it out and see if it works!!!!!!!

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      Angela 8 years ago

      Wow... I'm going to try this in high school

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      kim 8 years ago

      this is good advice but i don't think its going to work bcuz all of the populars are nasty and they have all the friends and everyone wants to be like them

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      megan 7 years ago

      you have a good point i am wanting to be the most popular girl in school just not by my looks you know you don't have to have a cell phone or a ipod or even a house people look up to you by your actions and the words that come out of your mouth but we need to be careful what we say and do because little ones will act just like we do but remember what i said because i know my cousin looks up to me and if i do something wrong she will and it gets embarassing if you have taught someone how to get in trouble!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      Samantha 7 years ago

      all the populr ppl in my skool r rly nice and pretty- that's why evry1 wants 2 be their friend... because they r so awesome (including me :D)

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      angela 7 years ago

      hi thanks for ur tips

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      gigi the giggler 7 years ago

      thanks 4 the advisse im trying to be popular but there are these popular girls that are sebding rumors about me that are not true :-(

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      totchester 7 years ago

      gud advice dnt kno how dat is gon work out

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      Leeaaahhhh 7 years ago

      I have half year to get ready for my new school. I was popular in england but when i moved to my school in aussie not so much Im kindaah in the nerd group but partly in the dance group lol! But im sure when i move to the nerdiest school ever it wont be hard to be miss popular wannabeee

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      Kendall 7 years ago

      WELL i'm wayyyy to popular anything i do i mean boyzz are just wrapped around my finger if my shoe is untied well i only wear heels so one time i wore like those lace up heels then like five boyzz spotted it then rushed to me and asked if they could tie it and it's really anoying trust me gurlz it is not easy being popular they always wanna carry ur book and shit like dat they save u a seat at lunch i waz PROM QUEEN 3 TIMES for all my proms it is hard i know i'm cheer captain and have a fat ass and big tits so i'm atracive and MY DADDY IS RICH HE OWNS A COUNTRY CLUB so gurl don't try to b a wannabe popular chick please don't ur gonna b misarble

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      Amanda 7 years ago

      I'm popular now but my parents are sending me to an all girls private catholic school for my high school experience. I start next year as a freshman and as it is not a feeding school only 7 students from my current school are attending, most of which are either extreme jocks, extreme nerds, or extreme wannabees. Two of the 7 used to be my friends, one is a total goofball and the other is a total church girl and nerd. I don't know how I'm gonna survive. :( Almost all my pretty cloths go against the dress code there and there is about 600 students for all four grades, I need to be popular, I always have been and if it changes in hs I am going to become seriously depressed. I'll try all those things but when girls began to think that school is like a drama movie they began to act like it is too, and frankly it gets hella annoying, be yourself, make others believe you are better than the rest of them, but don't for a minute believe that for yourself, believe you are beautiful, mention where you got your style ideas and others will believe you are beautiful too. Make the trends, don't follow them, It makes life at the mall a whole lot easier and makes it seem that you are not beneath ANYTHING even if that something is a magazine you totally are beneath, but still only buy cute things that will be accepted. And btw, Kendall or whatever, some of that might be true, your daddy might be rice, he might own a country club, u might be cheer captain (btw didn't cheer give you any good morals?) You might have an amazing body, and you might brag again and again of the rare occasion when 5 boys came running up to you to tie you heels? (It was such a big moment for you that you counted and remembered how many guys there were?, how cute :)And u always wear heals, well best of luck for you in gym class Kendall... Have a great life, until you realize you don't have one.

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      Sapphire Omen 7 years ago

      Im moving from a school district and have the rest of the summer to get ready for whatevers thrown at me,i was popular in friends in my old school, but was last on the food chain. Im kinda a nerd (but it don't help im in band)this year will b hard but im sure i wont be the lowest on the chain this year

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      Huyen Trang 6 years ago

      I'm gonna try this.^^

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      loner//loser :'( 6 years ago

      i agree with kim all the girls at school who r cool are bitchy :( im going ot be uncool till i die... :'(

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      dominos 6 years ago

      This post helps but its not wat u need. U NEED TO BE HOT TO BE POPULAR


      I DON'T AGREE. Goodbye

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      Alexa 6 years ago

      I am totally goingto try this, I'm getting in a whole hung of classes where I know like no one so let's hope this works!!!!! :)

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      Stella 6 years ago

      i totally know how yu guys feel i used to be a cheerleader and dated the footall quarter back.we both had it all i was homecomming queen and he was king. i loved my life...but i new life sucks a lot of guys don't even motice me now.i wont even go to the homecomming game in football because it makes me miss my old life.and i just don't no how to make myself the queen bee again:(

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      Paris 6 years ago

      thanks so much!!! I cant wait till school

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      PopularHottie 6 years ago

      I am a popular because i'm the prettiest girl in the whole school.... And so I have 2 stuck lockers but the other kids have only one!! Poor them I feel sorry for them even though I will go to another school I can be the popular girl and i'm the only popular girl.... No Other Popular Girls... No Bullies... And No Nerds in our school they are all Normal Kids But I am The Most Beautifulest Girl In my School And There Are Like 50 Boys Dreaming About Me and The Other 5o Boys Are asking Me to the Prom Ahhh!! I hate to Be the Popular I want to Be A Normal Kid!! :(

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      gleeky girl 6 years ago

      thanx I have many trobles at school and i hope these help

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      shay shelley 6 years ago

      thanks this helped out a lot.

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      hannah1234567890988888880000999999uuuuuuuiiiijhannah 6 years ago

      Here's some tips on how to be popurlar some of my friends in school don,t want to be popurlar so what i just don,t lisen to them.Some other people hate me so what i just ignor them you can do the same thing if you want to you can.

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      attemptedhumour 6 years ago from Australia

      That's a neat hub Jimmy, i think a few people could use this advice but i'm a bit past it. Cheers though, enjoyed your humour.

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      astha 6 years ago

      @hannah-you should not ignore them mah friends love me........ and i also have a bf

      they also know that i use abuse words.....but they still love me

      i am not to smart........but i am having good nature

      so, friends i think good nature will help to be the most poplar girl of school

      we go to school to study..not to be popular girl

      just top the school and be the popular girl

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      scholarshipsformo 6 years ago from California

      interesting stuff...

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      thatgirl 6 years ago

      thanks so much for this advice

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      thanks!!! 6 years ago

      than k u so much i wil some of these!

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      camryn 6 years ago

      i am in middle school and i was wondering will this work? people always call me geek,nerd,or undesirable. this one girl also said "who wants to be camryns friend". i hate how mean she is to me. any advice?

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      noora 6 years ago

      camryn, u get up to that gals face u tell her OUT! u don't need to be popular to stand up to her! i'm popular in big group of buddies because i have confidence when ever the so called popular girls get up in my face making fun of my name or my hair which is always in a braid or bun never down. ppl don't know me well so they think i am a shy gal who cant speak up for her self. but they get in my face they wished they never crossed my path cuz i don't take crap from nobody! im popular enough in my group and i don't need anymore. but camryn u better make that bitch wished she never said a word like that too ya! im in 7th grade, and no one thinks twice bout making fun of me! im telling u now that when that chick

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      astha 6 years ago

      camryn, i think noora is right.if you have a group of your friends then try to be popular in that.........i am also having a group i am not too smart but mah friends love me bcoz i am having a good nature and be confident!!

      if anyone says to you that-"who wants to be camryns friend"

      then slap her on her face and say that i also don't want to become friend of mean people!!!!

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      Cerise 6 years ago

      Camryn: ignore the girl who's being mean to you!!! If she doesn't get a response from you she'll get bored and stop!! I tried this and me and the girl who was mean to me r now friends!! I'm in 8th grade and I was voted most popular girl at school. Always have a smile for everyone it helps a lot!! Be confidant in yourself and other people will respect you for it. Hope I helped!!

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      astha 6 years ago

      cerise:-i think you are right!! having a smile for everyone helps to be popular

      camryn:-be confident

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      Vannesa 6 years ago

      Sum tips:

      hav atleast 3 different hair styles

      dnt wear the same thing too much, nvr 2 days in a row

      compliment people

      be bright and chearfull

      b confident, evn in class

      in class, dnt b afraid to say OUCH or sumthin rele loud if u kick the desk, nd talk a lot but not in an annoying way in a funny way so ur teacher won't get mad

      joke about urself

      dnt wear heals plz. Thts just not amazing. Wear vans. U shud atleast look co

      ftorable in ur shoes, oh nd dnt wear tennis shoes either, nvr all white. Ever.

      Hav a lot of stories to share

      dnt go on and on with the story cuz u might come on as weird

      listen to other people too

      dnt wear too much makeup

      actually dnt wear any

      ok maybe some eyeliner but dnt just wear makeimup cuz u can or to show it off just make I look natural

      oh for hair.. If it's straihT don't let it puff, if it curly like mine dnt brush it

      umm... B involved in sports, people would know ur name if ur on the school team...

      Dnt die ur hair a lot. Nvr BRIGGT red or anything to flashy

      talk to people u dnt no

      b random

      b urself

      dnt change for anyone

      good luck (:

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      nobody 6 years ago

      Camryn, do what your heart

      tells you to do!!! It will lead

      you in the right direction!!!

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      noora 6 years ago

      don't take no crap from anyone girlfriend. girls are catty, and sometimes we gotta live the fact that they are. but the thing is to remember that if u think they r catty, that means YOUR NOT!!!! so camryn, you have 6 ppl who don't know ya and are saying Ur amazing one jacked-up girl should never effect you. when i was in elementary, i was a huge weirdo and a push-around. now i got confidence i have tons of girlfriends and guys friends all because i got confident and bubbly. I'm so glad I'm became confident b4 middle school, but camryn you never have to be the MOST popular but you can be the MOST popular girl with YOUR group of friends, that is how it is with me. i don't want to be 100% popular, cuz your "friends" always talk behind ur back and u get sucked into all that jacked-up no sense drama be proud of who you are girl!!!!!!!

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      sexy 6 years ago

      im going to try this and get what it takes to be popular and more coffadence in my self bye babes. xxxxxx

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      grrrrrrrrrrrrr 6 years ago

      i want to be popular but the pops wont talk to me i sit right behind them it takes them 10 min. in bathroom because this person did this their hair is not good enogh.they talk about their best friends behind their back is that what i have to do or is it clothing. im geek because i don't have enough friends.i wear all the hottest stiles evryone says im nice and almost all the pops are my friend but they don't let me in their gossip circle. what should i do and i realy like one of the hot jocks but his girlfreind is one of the dramas/pop p.s.and their in the same class and almost evry activity

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      Taylor  6 years ago

      So im like pretty popular and i have a few tips: Don't be fat, be funny, curse but not too much, only talk behind ppls back if more than just u says it. Be a bitch too posers and wanna bes, be a leader. Yeah it sthe awful truth but it pays off. Im in 8th grade and i have no boobs, and i don't even wear the latest shit. I just am pretty, funny, skinny and a leader. That's what i have to do to stay on top. But none of my friends are bitches for no reason, just to jealous haters :) ily guys kk bye

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      Dancah4eva 6 years ago

      Ok. I'm popular and the popular girls seem mean but they aren't(unless you really know they r mean, they arent)


      Wear the hottest styles(with a touch of you, you don't to seem fake.)

      Listen to the hottest music

      Don't be afraid to do things(don't do the thing you know aren't right though)

      Be nice to everyone(yes EVERYONE)

      Be outgoing

      Be in sports(mostly school sports though. The few main popular sports are cheerleading, dancing, soccer, Ect.)

      Don't get out of shape

      Have phone, iPod at ALL times

      Natural makeup please!

      Hope these help(:

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      Babes 6 years ago

      Now every one loves me thanxs xxx

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      clare 6 years ago

      my sister is a nerd & she wnts 2 be popular like me but i don't know how 2 make that possible, but when i read what u wrote, i know exactly how to make her popular. so thank u so much #_#!!!!

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      depressed  6 years ago

      thanks soo much has really helped me with my confidence ;)

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      karan 6 years ago

      thanks .....great advice

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      kwlkid 6 years ago

      i think the hub was kwl but some other tips are:

      wear natural make up

      be smart but not nerdy

      try out new hairstyles


      use ur phone a lot

      and don't be a bitch be nice

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      lilo 6 years ago

      thank you !!!

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      Mimi 6 years ago

      The thing is I amm popular (not bieing vein). I am the girl that everybody comes to for help and advice...but also lack confidence and people feel they don't have to respect me. People seriously pick out the most stupid things about me weather they are trying to put me down or not. The other day a boy i know says wooww you have a big toe, WHY DOES HE CARE?! I just want people to respect me and know that i have feelings. i am also reaallyy fun and things like that its just that iv'e started a knew school and i'm always shy at first. this is now a problem to be shy at my knew school because no body else is since they have all known eachother for like a year, but i am the only one who is shy. if i was confident enough to open up and just be myself then these problems would be fine, im just scared of being judged.. :(


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      Erin 6 years ago

      Mimi- I literally have the exact same problem. I started my school year at a new school that's a private, preppy, bitchy school and I thought it wouldn't be too hard to adjust. I was the ONLY new girl and everyone had already been there and known each other for a whole year and I walked in on the first day, scared to death of being judged because when your on the outside looking in- people who already have an established friend group don't respect you. It's now May and things haven't changed a bit. I think that I'm nice and funny and I had tons of friends at my old school. I'm just so sick of everything- not getting invited to parties, not being in the jokes, just everything, I go home everyday and cry- literally I'm so upset. I just want to fit in and I'm not the wannabe type but I want to be included. I don't want to suck up to these people though. omg they just IGNORE you- it's insane and u try to be friends with one of them but then you can't get into the "group". omg somebody help me. I can't go through high school like this!!!!

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      Jen 6 years ago

      All of you're tips made sense. My classroom is the all star classroom, the other two classes are just normal people. Almost all of the popular kids sit in my very class. I'm best friends with the most popular girls in the school, but lately they've been drifting from me. They say mean things behind my back, even when they know I'm listening. I know I want to take a stand and become popular like them. I feel like I don't belong in this class. I wish I could just switch but my parents think it's crap. If I were in the other classrooms I would be considered normal, not nerdy. I'm pretty fat but I have an okay face that is great for popularity and I know it. I just want to get skinnier so I can dress better. Adjust my attitude from oh-so-nice-girl-that-you-can-make-fun-of into i-like-her-so-much-i-wouldn't-dare-hurt-her! I've been searching the tips to be popular and I think I know the key. But I have an entire summer ahead of me to prepare for the next year. Durring the summer I want to change myself. Not in a bad way- but in a way that will benefit me and make me feel confident. For me to live a happy life. Erin, Mimi, I totally feel your pain. I get invited to slumber parties and all, but there just isn't a time when they include me in gossip & they tease me. I hope that when I come back to school I'll be the all star. HOPE. All of your tips made me feel more confident. Being popular is easy, right?

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      alexis 6 years ago

      theres 3 popular girls at my school and i want to know how to give me the most populare girl in my school please please some one tell me

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      Mandy 6 years ago

      Thank you so much, i think it will work because its true themost popular girl in our school is really friendly and not fake! :)

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      CarlyRosee 6 years ago

      Im the most popular girl in my school. I'm not trying to be a stuck up bitch, but hey it's the truth. Honestly this whole article was a complete joke. You can only become popular this way in the stories. This is reality so I will teach you how to become popular myself. First off, you don't have tons of friends to become popular eventually. I was a total nerd at my elementary school in fourth grade because I was new. I had only 3 friends: an obsessive church girl, a geeky nerd, and an emo goth chick. I was a total loser. But anyways back to how to become popular, BE YOURSELF! Be funny, sarcastic, flirty, sweet, nice and totally outgoing! Never be someone your not because people will think your a major poser and a fake bitch. You don't HAVE to be pretty to be popular considering the ex-popular girl at my junior high looks like an alien! And her best friend was so fake and had an orange tan. I swear she got mobbed by a bag of doritos. But if you are considered hot by others, just think of that as a bonus. But remember girls, your all beautiful, inside and out! Never let someone tell you different. Maybe you could have a phone, iPod,Facebook stuff like that! It can help you socialize more. But if your really cool, people will WANT to be your friend! And yeah you can look good with the latest styles and a few touchups with some natural makeup but never dress like a slut and don't wear your makeup like lady gaga. Trust me guys don't dig that, they like girls who love themselves for who they are. Always think classy, not trashy. Don't try to perfect yourself for others. If you think your too fat, don't starve yourself. Skinny's not in style. Guys like the babes with curves! And if your too skinny, then get some exercise and eat right then you'll gain a few pounds. My real point is; be yourself and love it, also be a good friend. That is the main way you'll be popular. People want a friend that they can look up too and that they Can count on in times of need.

      They want someone they can ask advice from whether it be about family problems, boy problems, or friend problems. Don't backstab, it'll come back to haunt you. Be drama free ! Good luck darlings(:

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      Kendall Tine :) 6 years ago

      Okay my story is a bit long but i'll make it short...My Bestfriend might move states away to live with her mom, and i absolutley cannot stay at my current school so my mom said she would either let move in with my dad and step mom or be home schooled..i really don't know what I'm going to do but my cousin is very popular at the school i'm thinkin about going to , At my old school..I wasn't a total loser..but i wasn't very popular either i'm hoping i can start fresh where ever i go i just don't want to be miserable.. I've always been the girl you could talk too and i'd always keep secrets..i never talked down to anyone but i did get bullied ..any advice?

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      lucy;riley. 5 years ago

      i was popular, i am popular and am sure i will be popular!

      the thing is that i was one shy kid at my primary in y 3 to y 5 but then something very weird happened to me, i woke up and i felf like laughing all the way, every single person i met am talking to them, if ye really want to be popular then just talk a lot, try ur best, be ALWAYS active and the most important thing is to get to know people more everyday, when u c someone don't just say wat u think of then cos u don't no them.

      make new friends EVERYDAY always stick up to ur own friends.

      just talk a lot, be girly and say what u think but don't be sarcastick but anyway always say what u think of something and never lie cos then people wont like u and that's not the way to become more popular....

      and one last thing...,, be nice to everyone but be selfish sometimes cos it helps also.

      hope i helped there haha, tar Lucyyy.

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      faye 5 years ago

      Some of the stuff iv'e read are all like ... Don't be fat don't be mean. Well the pop girl in my year is charlie. She wins everything, she hates me and she is way fat! And all of them on here tell me to be friends with the pop girl hows that gonna happen?

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      R.D 5 years ago

      ty 4 the help

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      anyotomous 5 years ago

      This is great advice thanks a lot!=]

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      JustAnotherGal 5 years ago

      Hey xx I read your advice and it totally helped! xx

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      陈飞 5 years ago

      I'm now hanging out with the popular group in school, your advice really works :)

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      Bella 5 years ago

      I realllly wanna be popular. Im really shy and i always wanted to be the one with all the fashion and friends. But my confidence is stopping me. I think this post was fantastic, teaching that you don't have to change yourself to be popular.

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      lauren 5 years ago

      omg i am soooo pretty (i think )

      i hate being nonpopuel

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      PuppyLover 5 years ago

      So I am like new to an area we mover cross country AFTER MY 5TH grade year and I was a bitch at my other school Iwas that tough one everyone feared but I took a new aproach these past 3 middle school years. I was the smartest kid, people knew I could kill them but I didn't advertise that. I was nice to everyone and that is the key. My parents can't afford 30$ Aero shirts or 50$ A and F jeans so I decided to wear bright fun colors to show I am a bright fun person.Before I knew it I was that girl everyone wants to be friends with. I didn't wear the latest styles I was myself and I got straight A's the schools socer and basketball stars plus a star cheerleadeer all because I was nice so wearing the latest styles helps but being nice is key. Also don't forget to show people being nice doesn't mean pick on me show them you can stand up for yourself and FREE BANANA MAN!!!!!!!!!!!FUCK THAT PRINCIPAL

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      layla 5 years ago

      I think why does it matter if your popular. If your one of those kids that has no friends there will always be a person to come around and will make friends with you at my school when your popular you called stuck up and preppy so why be be popular just to that name and when u are popular people will just want to be friends with you to become popular I bet half of your friends wouldn't even know your last name.

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      dntknowwhttodo 5 years ago

      okay i started this new school for high school I'm not a nerd nd I'm not popular either but i rlly wnt to get to know the popular people, i mean i have some friends in the normals ppl group but i find myself feeling its not enough i wnt to b popular, but its difficult to get to know the popular people cause 1 they drink nd get high, which I'm not into, 2 they only tlk to u if ur there friend. i mean they seem like ppl i could defiantly could hang with but i just dnt know how to get to know them. i feel like theres a whole nother part of my grade that idk so i rlly dk how to get to know them nd idk how

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      KANDY 5 years ago


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      cody simpson 5 years ago

      thanks for all my yaer i was a nerd but when i started singing i mean bfore i started singing i was a nerd and these tips helped me thank you a lot

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      Katie 5 years ago

      i reaaally want to be popular i am in 5 grade help!

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      claire 5 years ago

      i will take this confidence tip and c whut happns. it's friday tomorrow so i'm already happy. :)

      oh, & thanks a lot.

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      claire 5 years ago

      Katie, be you. don't be fake or whatever. be friendly, and do DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY OTHER PEOPLE!!! and it's ok to stay true to you, you don't always have to change for other people. Go ahead and talk to some cool girls, i mean it's no biggie. i'm in 8th grade and i have experienced this stuff already. i took a risk jumping into this cool girl group, but they got to know me and we're close.

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      Teresa 5 years ago

      Every one should be themselves

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      court 5 years ago

      i need to be popular

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      jess 5 years ago

      thanks but ive been nice for 8 yrs. and been saying hi to people but everyone says hi like so why are you talking to me your part of the nobodys and then they walk away. its not working.

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      estelle 5 years ago

      thanks for the tips

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      girly girl 5 years ago

      i already am the most popular girl at my schooland everyone likes me and i have a boyfriend but the tips sound real helpful thank u

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      No-Name 5 years ago

      No one needs to act fake, be YOURSELF! Be funny and smart, but not the joker or the geek. It's quite simple. Just, be YOU!

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      samantha 5 years ago

      if i had to do any thing in the world what woude it be

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      sabrina 5 years ago

      thanks for that information i totally needed it

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      khy-khy 5 years ago

      At first I was like this ain't gonna help but then ado thought about it and start being the best sport and enjoying nice person now everyone know me at school and I'm popular pple text me hang out wit me try to be even popular as I am but they can't cause they don't know the trick Thx 4 the tips

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      sexionia 5 years ago


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      dbears 5 years ago

      just be urself who cares who u r

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      Kimmeh Bieber 5 years ago

      Be yourself. No one is going to like you for being fake.

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      Marla Biddle 5 years ago

      I really want to be popular. First of all, I'm a goodie-goodie. I only use proper grammar(even when texting.)All of the popular kids in my class pick on me. I think that if I'm popular, I won't be picked on as much. I was thinking of going to a new school, where we don't wear uniforms. Then, I would completely change myself and wear heavy make-up, fancy dresses, get rid of my dorky glasses, and not be as bashful. Also, I think I should carry around a designer purse and wear high-heels every day. Should I stick with this plan? Or should I just be my normal self?

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      Mack 5 years ago

      Make more bffs u will not be popular buut aleast u have bffs

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      Rachel 5 years ago

      im just a lonely "scene" kid looking for some friends xD

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      steph 5 years ago

      my friend or was my friend became popular and now she doesn't talk to me i want to be popular just to have more self confidence and feel great so thanks for the tips ill use them

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      babypott:) 5 years ago

      ok to marla u should so totlally stick to the plan an try not to roll ur ankle:)and to the ppl who say b ur self ur obviously not cool

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      Nicole 5 years ago

      well wuts the yougest age you can be popular cause like i am in forth grade, by the way theres this girl in my class and like shes a tottle bitch i meen shes my bfflad but like i had a crush on this boy cald kip anthney loy at sylvan elimentrey school and like i told her witch her name is kimberly sawer witch she told kip i like him by the way she is a popular bitch so like omg kip knows i like him and like he likes me but he wont admit cause last year i herd him say it and to act like he does not like me hes dateing kimberly so like why i am going to be popular because i want to get my crush back so like if either of them red this well you know my fillens now so hopefully joy for the future.

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      keke 5 years ago


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      sweetiepie 5 years ago

      I will try it!!! :p

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      sharlene chew xinyu 5 years ago

      i really want to be popular but no one like me even my class

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      5 years ago

      Ok so I wS reading these and every thing is wrong I'm in 6th grade and obviously if ur urself it won't work get rid of ur glasses were a skirt and straiten ur gosh darn hair... U people are so stupid being my self would get me pieced on in every way. I'd have ugly brown eyes flat brown hair, and dress like a slob. Never b ur self unless it's acceptable!

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      Carrie 5 years ago

      I have freshman orintation soon, but THAT would be fine if it were my only problem. So I used to go to this catholic school but noone liked me so i left and now im going to the highschool and The girls are snobs and bitches so im stuck. Help?

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      anonymous 5 years ago

      face it, it's very hard to be popular is to be attractive, whether u like it or not. I know life's not fair. Ur next best bet is to be best friends with somebody attractive. U can disagree but this is coming from a boy.

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      Lottie 5 years ago

      I think these are great tips. I'm trying to be popular at by school at the moment but I don't know how to get into their group. In the group that I'm in at the moment the leader is a bitch and kinda popular but not in the popular group. Can someone give me some advice on how to move groups? I really need help and are not happy with my friendship group at the moment. Can someone plz respond? I'm going into grade nine nxt year at a private school. Please help me.


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      Ashleigh 5 years ago

      Hey, even before reading this advice, I was popular. I was just checking up to see if this is what everyone else seems to be trying to do.

      People respect me. Do you know why? I was first in the 'brainy/nerd' section...I was by myself, too. But funny quips always get you out of trouble. Be daring. Outgoing. Being shy never helps. Now people say hi to ME - I don't have to say hi to them. I'm not at the top, obviously, but I'm getting there slowly. My advice: wit is key. Always. If someone takes the mickey, or 'piss' :P, slowly, calculatingly, and calmly, take the mick back. Don't be spiteful. Say it calmly with a smile on your face. If you can't think of anything to say, don't say it. Just say instead,"If you say so," in a sarcastic tone, or similar. Don't gang up on people. Never a good way to become popular. You will just enduce fear in yourself. And one day someone will have enough guts to take you down. So, here's my advice as a list.

      1)Study. Yes, do study. But make time for your friends IN that studying. You don't want to fall behind. Stupid people are rarely popular.

      2)Try new things. Maybe you'll get a new hobby - a new hobby that other people may enjoy or find interesting.

      3)Be polite, but smooth and make a few jokes now and then - but only if the situation is right. Jokes aren't fit for serious situations.

      4)Try to help people. Don't always go out of your way to do it, but if it seems like you should help (from another person's perspective) do help. Helping everyone can make you look clingy, though.

      5)On the subject of clingy, don't cling! Hang out with different groups now and then (like I do). In my school there are different houses. I'm in S. I hang out with C and T sometimes (the other two houses).

      6)If there are houses in your school, try and help them. Team workers and people who take pride in what they are doing and who they are generally get respected, especially if they were once a low down geek.

      I hope these help as an additional extra. :)

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      coffeeisthekey 5 years ago

      I dunno how exactly I got here, I just know I've been clicking and viewing stuff until I stumbled upon this one and it made me curious. So, I can't really say that I am the most popular girl in school right now...but I'm one of those people. Not to brag or anything, but lots of guys have a crush on me and I always hear em say I'm hot. I guess to be popular you really gotta have the face and the body for it. And the clothes you wear, make sure they're up to date and that they'd look good on your body. Not all clothes compliment the structure of everyone's body. It varies. Also, put some make up on. Not too much, though! You don't want them laughing at you about how colorful and stupid your makeup looks! Make sure you know how to put makeup, because if you don't...well, you know the answer to that already. Look for makeup videos in the net, like in youtube or something like that. Also, be friendly! Make sure to strut your stuff but don't be over the top! Be confident with your body and make sure you show em how confident you are. Confidence is sexy. Just make sure you know how to present yourself.

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      breanna 5 years ago

      i already am the most popular girl in my school but trust me you definitely don't want to be the 'it' girl. sure, when i first started it was awesome - i was invited to everyones parties, hooked up with the hottest guys and was team leader and captains for everything. but then the excitement dies down and all you really want to do is be a nobody. when you're popular you get loaded down with expectations - you have to spend ages doing your hair just so it looks perfect for everyone, dress in borderline acceptable outfits for school (tight as t-shirts and leggings/tights that show off your legs/butt etc) spend hours doing your makeup, pick the right perfume etc etc etc. it all gets too much. they expect you to be on top of the trends and constantly switch out of styles so it makes it hard for everyone to keep up. you literally have to be perfect and an all-star. its even harder when you have to make time for friends, family and your boyfriend. a 'boyfriend' who lied, cheated and used me. it was awful. it all gets too much and i ended up with depression. then one day i said 'screw it, i'm done.' i rocked up with my hair in a messy bun, jeans and a sweatshirt with barely any make-up and no one would look at me and i couldn't have been happier. it showed me who my true friends were and who was just using me for popularity. i have new friends now - better friends who don't backstab or bitch and who aren't nasty. all my friends tried to steal my popularity when i was the queen bee and you know what? let them have their spotlight. it won't last for long.

      my message basically is don't try and fit into society's expectations. it really isn't worth it. being popular isn't all it as fabulous as it seems. for some it may be the best thing ever but for me, it was hell. i loved it at first, everyone looked at me and noticed me but now i couldn't care less. your in school to learn and get an education for your future - its not a competition on who can wear the highest heels and shortest skirt.

      be-YOU-tiful, being you is all that matters. if people don't like you for who you are then they're pathetic lowlives.

      bre x

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      Emily 5 years ago

      Almost everyone hate me in my school it sucks I'm in the six grade and the reasons ppl don't like me is because I am so damn "unpretty",I have a history of being a goth and emo,I listen to green day a my chemical romance,and everyone thinks I'm sad all the time it FIRETRUCKING SUX!Oh ya and I'm a punk rocker so that's why almost everyone In my school hates me

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      kelleyward 5 years ago

      So true. I would love to forget High School even though I was kind of popular. I was glad to get to college and leave that life behind. Thanks for your hub

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      A person!!! 5 years ago

      Thx 4 the awesome advice...I don't really know if I could consider myself popular though cuz all the popular girls at my school r like super rich and Im not even aloud 2 wear makeup! Wish I was lolz :)

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      Crystal 5 years ago

      I am super skinny, have long chestnut hair, a tan and a great personality; still I am having problems with popularity and friendship groups. Can someone plz give me some advice?? ily xx

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      Cheyenne 5 years ago

      No offense but being bitchy will work. I have done that my whole life and all the guys like me I have millions of friends and all the weirdos follow me. Plus I've had a boyfriend since 4th grade. I am pretty cute and all ways flirt with the guys. That will score you popularity points girls. My boyfriend is the cutest guy in school and all the girls want to steal him from me. I am 15 and I still have the same boyfriend I guess I'm the regina George of my school but I am way popular than her. And ps my boyfriend and I have made out 14 times, 9 times without a condom. I have 1 child who is 1 and my first make out session was when I was 11. Beat that. Ps read my comment and tell me Wat u think. I don't care about hating OK

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      Cecelia 5 years ago

      Hey, I am a part of the so called "in group" at my school. Its pretty hard to manage, but if just let people know that you are a nice person they will be all over you. Just a simple compliment will put a positive thing in there head about you, so when one of there friends says something about you they can say that you are nice.

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      Elizabeth 5 years ago

      hi im 10 and when i went to a new school i became popular like 123...... but im getting ready for 6th grade since im in fifth so like this really help me!!!! oh btw haters don't be wrighting comments that will hurt my 10! year old feelings lolz

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      Rissa 5 years ago

      I wouldn't say that I'm popular, but I'm the top hoe at my school, or at least so I'm told. I'm in seventh grade, I'm known as the seventh grade slut. All of my greatest friends r in eighth grade, and so if I was in eighth grade I'd b little miss popular but I'm in seventh grade, known as the girl that flirts with all the older guys, which is where the top hoe and seventh grade slut came from.

      I'm dating an eighth grader right now, and i've only dated one guy in my grade (outta like 5 guys). Everyone is spreading rumors about me, and it's all stuff like "had sex in the bathroom" or "pregnant". I'm a average height girl for my age, long brown hair and deer eyes, super skinny, athletic, big butt and average boobs, and guys drool all over me. People look at me and think whore. Im not allowed to wear short shorts or tank tops, so it's not because I look like a whore or anything, I guess I just act like one.

      I hate being talked about. My best friend called me a slut behind my back, my other best friend left me because she thought I was bad, most of my friends in eighth grade could care less. People talk to me as if I'm a piece of meat or score. Guys ask me out or try to kiss me just to say they have, and they use me like a sex toy. I now have trust issues with my boyfriend now, who's an angel who loves me and calls what everyone says about me bs and stands up for me. He's my first love.

      Before you try to be popular, make sure you're going for popular and not a slut or whore. You'll regret it for the rest of your life if you go down my path.

      Hope this helps, Rissa

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      abd 5 years ago

      hey guys so my school is full of brats, nerds, medium ppl but there isn't really a popular group. the problem is that I want to be popular but I don't exactly know how to be with everyone. I'm really good friends with all the girls in my grade but I can't trust anyone. I'm nice to everyone but theres so much gossip I just can't find a certain group that won't backstab me. what do I do?

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      Jessica 5 years ago

      Want to know why being popular is bad? Well, they might backstab you and tell all you secrets. We know we can't trust all the "popular people" unless you really are friends.I am in the middle class, so I am not actually "popular". I know some of the popular people and once I told them who my crush was, so they told him. He then dared his friend to take me to his house and have sex with him. And well, I did end up in my crush's friends, Tyler, house. Before I knew it I was having sex with him. ( I'm 16) Tyler was drunk and did some inappropriate things. To my surprise, I fell in love with Tyler. Girls..don't spill your secrets until you really know them.

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      melanie 5 years ago

      being popular isn't every thing as long as you have friends that's all that matters the popular ones are normaly the mean/snobby/and think there better than every one else like a girl that goes to my school named Kyla Tomas

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      jessica 5 years ago

      hey being popular is not a good thing cause that means every one will always be surronding you i don't know about you but i hate that if i was popular i would never be able to do anything so take it from me i used to be popular if you want to know how i stoped being popular here you go while your on the playground or during class ask people do they want to cry with you ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

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      Alissa 5 years ago


      I really want to be popular at my school... my hair is not that nice it just get curled quickly .I'm trying to be a friend with one girl in our school. she is pretty and really she is popular she helped me by saying how to improve my hair and we are having some fun

      i can say try to be funny and get the popular friends even though u are scared that they will regret you ... popular people never show their sadness. always laugh and have fun never ever cry infront anyone the will think that you are a looser

      give me more help i'll be happy :D


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      Miss. 5 years ago

      In my school it's super easy to be popular.

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      Chloe 5 years ago

      I would count as the popular girl in my school at Canada, everyone knows me and likes me, but it sucks 'cause in my school people don't care about popularity, it's just like being a regular person.MY SCHOOL SUCKS

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      nancy 5 years ago

      i think i am the most popular girl in school but its tough because everyone gets jealous easily.some people just suck .they think they are beautiful than me but i am the most beautiful.overall i maintain a positive nature.i also get high grades.thank you

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      Glimmergirl 5 years ago

      I am the taylor swift of my school!! If you flirt w/ the guys that will score you popular points, girls!

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      Sochukwu okoye 5 years ago

      I love it

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      tonya 5 years ago

      Im like the most popular girl in school but everybody is jelouse what should i do

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      RubyJones! 5 years ago

      Okay, so i was sorta popular last year but now im in 8th grade and im really good friends with a good group of girls and we arent the most popular because we are sorta a clique even though i don't want to be in a clique but one of the gurls is dating a total loser and he has really ugly friends who tag along when we all go out and i don't wanna be seen with them because the reason that some guys don't like me is because of who i hang out with but i love the girls that i hang out with just not the guys so much because they are the losers and i have all the makings to be popular, because i am on all the teams and i am pretty-ish and i have been told that i am the funniest person that some pwople have ever met and im smart (but a lot of peoplle think im dumb because apparently its impossible to be smart and funny even though im in advanced classes) but i don't know how to harness it all and actually become popular because i spend my whole summer with the popular girls at sports stuff but im usually left out so i really don't know how to become friends with them all but they are all really nice and i know that i could be friends with them if i knew how so could somebody pretty please respond to this and help me out over here? thanks!!!! :)

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      lyla 5 years ago

      i am now popular

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      Eri 5 years ago

      Ok so life been hard for me the last few months :/ every thing was going fine I moved schools in 2010 I thought It would be hard to fit in as I had none of the 'popular' girls in my class but I just went straight to the top with in a month I was said to be most popular and every one said the boys fancied me I was asked out by 7 boys in one week in my first 3 months there I had been asked out 31 times by different boys:D! All the popular ones too... I went on holiday with all the most popular girls and went out for lunch and all that until November 2011 I kissed a boy.. it wasn't the first time.. but as a cover up he said i told him all the girls bra sizes that I didn't even know !the girls never trusted me since then I have been put down to hang with the people I used to make fun of but the thing is being popular doesn't get u the guys being u does they r all still nice to me ect.. The girls keep bitching about me an blaming me for bitching about them when I don't bitch. I'm a nice girl I'm always the girl that holds open the door or says hi or helps an elderly person I'm also very polite saying Thankyou and I always have a smile on my face but those girls I used to call my best friends make me change so much every time I think about them.. I have stressed related Illnesses because of them and I hang out with 2 girls now, tbqh I don't really like them.. I used to make fun of them so much because I was one of the popular bitches! But those 2 girls I'm proud to say even tho I don't really like them they r what u call true best friends! Thought I might add boys r Soo much nicer and easier to talk to than girls 2 boys have stuck by me the whole way ilovethem so much friends..but life is still hard for me even with these lovely people my parents have been intouch with the school things should be sorted out soon I hope I go to a privet school now and I wanna move back to my old school I'm 13 years old btw I have 6 more years in school with them help xxxxxxxxxxx

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      Kimmy 5 years ago

      I'm in seventth grade, I think this should mean nothing to you. I admit I try to be the popular gitl, but then I sit & think about it and it just wasn't what I wanted. My pasion is soccer. I'm so good apperently I made jv. I started hanging out with highschoolers and eighth graders&I became one of the most respected girl in my grade. if you need help beng popular then I say do what you love, also take care of yourself. Be presentable...and definitly flirt with guys.

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      Brooke 5 years ago

      I am the prettiest girl at my school, and everyone adores me! I have been out with several hot guys ^.^...and friends with the mega-popular people. All I do is have confidence, beauty, and flirt with guys...will score you major points...also, if you aren't that popular, try cleaning up during the summer and transfer if possible (only if you are totally desperate)Hope this helps!



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      aniya 5 years ago

      i will try this

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      jade 5 years ago

      Love it but I am in third grade my best friend stood me.up for some stuck up out of style lame Harry bitch now I don't know what to do so far I found a new friend still the most popular kid at daycare but I mean really what do all those stupid people know they'd cant even put on the right shoe.on one JILIAN IS STUPID and a big JERK and I hope she saw this later

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      Lisa 5 years ago

      I'm the most populest girl in school!Im smart,pretty,and funny!!!

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      simran rana 5 years ago

      Everyone wants to be in tht *POPULAR n HOT n DESIRED* gang in skul but trust me once u pass out of skul nobdy wud actually care about any of such shit....though this is very true...there is politics among friends as well but ou have to really face the end of it...DON'T EVERY CHANGE YOURSELF TO BE LIKED BY SOMEONE ELSE WHO YOU THINK IS POPULAR and can take u to the status u want to be recognized with,,,,everyone cant be sporty and cannot do everything...but remember there is something within you which even that popular guy or gal dznt hav....JUST LOVE THE WAY YOU ARE AND CHERISH LIFE...everything hapns fr a reason and for the good :D

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      sally 5 years ago

      It is to much to read

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      sophia 5 years ago

      howq do we answer to thes qeustions

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      KW 5 years ago

      this is not very useful for me i mean i have tried it but it doesn't really work i still get laughed at fo that one thing!!! every day i get laughed at cuz my hole face turns beat red cuz im EXTREMELY shy but now im able to talk to people and joke around now everyone comes to me for help but then lthey lauh at me cuz I blush!!!! What do i do!!!!!!! please help

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      Alina 5 years ago

      O.M.F.G I never knew that this loud of infomaition would relly work, I read all of it and now I am the most popular girl in school xx thank you so much!

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      SexySportsBabe 5 years ago

      Hey school is not good for me :( Im not being all bout myself but I am pretty and I said yes to those questions up there and no one likes me :( I have been backstabbed 3 times this year and I don't know why. I only have 2 friends and I want to meet more people but no one likes me Idk y because I list everything up there. help!!!!!!!!!

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      JAcob luvr 5 years ago

      ok so i flirt with guys to be popular but wat if i hav a boyfriend wat do i do please help me!!!

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      nedagirl 5 years ago

      I do this on a daily basis, but something that isn't fair about these groups is if u try to join, u get backstabbed. The group I wanna be in , is one of my friends.we hang outside of school but not really inside of school.I tried hanging out with them and I thought they liked me but my bff told me tht girl told her I was annoying and followed them.also she sad some of her friends didn't like me.her friends would talk to me and we would laugh and have fun.I'm really stressed about school acidemically and then this.its not fair what people do to u without realizing u have feelings ;(.

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      kaighlie 5 years ago

      this advice really helps im now so popular in my scool

      that everyone is jealouse. yay!

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      Kar 5 years ago

      Don't worry about what people think of you; they're jealous.

      Just laugh it off, point to their shirt, and be all like, "Thanks... I love your shirt by the way!" Walk away! Being rude back isn't going to solve anything.

      The more confident you are, and the more you accept yourself, PEOPLE WILL WANT TO HANG OUT WITH YOU! Nobody wants a person who always complains because she/he's "not good enough."

      Just smile at random people in the hall, and compliment people! The more nice you are, the more people will want to be around you! Be someone that people can ask for advice, or just rant to. KEEP THEIR SECRETS, AND IF YOU ARE FIGHTING- DO NOT, and I REPEAT DO NOT TELL THE SCHOOL THEIR SECRETS!

      You're just going to look like a complete asshole.

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      jada 5 years ago

      I love to be the most poplaur girl in school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      hamster lover 5 years ago

      thanks i feel so good i am so hot {i know but other people might not think so} but i feel so good

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      chrystal17 5 years ago

      so since everyone is writing their own story, im going to go on and tell you mine, well, not MINE, oh yeah im a 17 year old girl, a junior in highschool right now. So where was i? oh. yes. so the story is not mine its actually my neightbor's lets call her... Samantha (no names for safety reasons) so when she was a freshman she started flirting with tons of guys and she lost her virginity at a very early age with a senior, she was like 15ish and he was 18. no, she's not prego before i go on. SO she did this and during her sophomore year she had TONS of guys friends.oh i met her when she was a sophomore and i was a freshman, she was taking my bus to school and we started talking, something clicked, we started calling each othe cousins and being bffs until we got into a huge fight, she has a twin brother btw.. forgot to mention.. Ok to sum it up she gave me a living hell and with all her blowjob followers they gave e hell too just to get her to hook up with her, but sooner than expected she had no girl friendsbecause of what she did and guys just forgot about her when the new slut came along, she was alone. I shortened the story A LOT but in conclusion she wanted to be popular and wanted so she did all of this, and even with the bj fans she felt empthy in a room filled with ppl and after that she was alone. She's about to graduate now, she got a bad name and no guys asked her to prome because people say she got herpes and stuff, So before you try anything just think of Samantha, it could, no IT WILL backfire so if you really want to be popular smile a lot and be happy, you don't have to really be happy just make people think you are it would drag them in and in no time you'll be popular. love your skin because you're unique if you are a little in the chubby side think of this: marylin monroe was a size 10 and her thighs touched and she is still remembered for her beauty and her talent. and if someone has a problem with you being happy, send them to hell! because you are you and life is way too short to listen to people that since they're not happy want you to stop being happy! you are perfect and you only need yourself as proof! so i think that's it, hope it helped someone, because if even 1 girl's life is changed with this it was worth typing all this out.

      byebye now!

      and don't forget to smile :)!

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      liz 5 years ago

      Well, I'm definetely not the most popular girl but I have a ton of friends, I made homecoming court over one of the most popular girls and I'm known as the nicest cheerleader. and guess what's funny about this? I do not flirt with every male in the room, I'm nice to everyone because no one is better and I don't care if I'm extremely popular or not. No offense but some of you sound conceited, especially you middle schoolers. When you get to high school or college watch out. With that attitude no one will want to be your friend. Just have fun and love everyone! I have people who I've never met that hate me because qoute 'im a cheerleader so I'm automatically a hoe'. Do I care? Nahh. *btw I stumbled on this when I was looking up cheerleading stuff and I meant to click the website under, but I saw some comments and I had to something* but seriously, if you had to read this is "become popular".......then wow. :) peace!

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      candie gurlie 5 years ago

      I wonder if you have to have a boyfriend because I have my eye on this boy

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      Grace 5 years ago

      Everybody hates me at my school. I am horribly ugly, my nose is always red, i have bumps all over my face and zits that won't go away!!

      I get straight F's and people called me dumb for liking a movie star from Star Wars Mark Hamill aka Luke and I barely have anything, just a stupid track phone when everyone else has iPhones, iPods, everything! They even have pets like puppies and turtles. My friend Mackenzie is SO rich she gets EVERYTHING best hair, handwriting, school stuff, in swimming, EVERYONE calls her beautiful, and the MOST popular girls ask her to hang out with them. I'm so dumb how can i be popular?


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      rhonda 5 years ago

      i realy want to be popular i have friends that are popular and i am like 2% popular is because i pick on the stupid people and my hooters

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      bri 5 years ago

      I'm in 7th grade, and I do most of these things. The only problem is, IT DOESN'T WORK. The popular people don't like talking with me. They just say yeah okay whatev and start talking to their friends. I am semipopular but could be more popular. My problem is I hang out with the geeky weirdos and every1 thinks I am crazy. But they are the best friends in the world and i would never ditch them. The boys only like me as a friend, and i have never been asked out, even though i know some boys have liked me. I am pretty, smart, and funny. What is my problem? Why can't i be popular?

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      Chloee 5 years ago

      Right, I am not popular. I am pretty. And actually I am a very kind and nice person. I don't have millions of friends. I DO have mates but what I really want is to have these mates who will be happy if I'll hang out with 'em.

      This girl in my school is very popular, she has been hanging with me just for 1 week, but then she has gone to another group of girls, she hangs out with different people every week.

      I had a best friend, but we've broke up for some reason, and now she bosses me around and HATES me for some reason, she says nasty things to me, which I ignore or say to her ''Why don't you say something about me, you always have to say these things about yourself?!''.

      The thing why I am writing this, is because I want to be extremely popular! I want to be in a group of girls who won't boss me around and in which I won't feel left out. What can I do to make my dream come true?

      By the way, thanks, but this don't work as much as I thought it will :)

      Thank you for reading this, and please reply! :)

      Bye xxx

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      Jessica 5 years ago

      Hey there!

      Oh, yes, I am nice and pretty, I smile to people and say hi! But how can I become more than ''Just Nice''? I want to be DA BEST! I am in year 8 and I want to be extremely popular, hot, and also ''GAWJUSS'' (I am gawjuss anyway) but I want to BE ''HOT, BEAUTIFUL, POPULAR, e.t.c'' all at the same time.

      Tnx for reading and plzzzz reply as quick as u can ;) xxxxx

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      laurz 5 years ago

      i agree iam a popular girl in school but you also need to be a bit of a slagish person mix with other be yourself be friends with the teachers people think your pretty cool then x

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      miss a 5 years ago

      i hope this trying to make a boy notice me you know . but am pulling the strings on this one because he is a player.

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      karishma 5 years ago

      your tips are very very very useful to every girl as all the girls want to look a beautiful guy ..... thank you for your such a good advice...........................

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      Miranda 5 years ago

      I used to want to be popular but I now realize that there's more to life than everybody liking you, people have to realize that there's always going to be one guy that doesn't like you back, and one girl that thinks your stuck up, and one teacher who doesn't think your the smartest. Nobody is perfect and nobody has EVERYONE liking them, whether as a friend or a lover. So thinking like one day everyones going to like you, is not going to get you anywhere. But anyway, if you still want to be popular after reading this, goodluck:)

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      Brittany 5 years ago

      Hey to all yall girls on here i am 17 and i have never wanted to be popular and to me all it is about is girls want everybody to like them and all the boys to be on they knees to tie they heels of shoes and it is not right they is always going to be girls at school who thnik u are a Bitch and not pretty and some guys who think you are a whore and no good for nothing and not Hot but it is life you will live just be who you are and never change for nobody they will be one guy out they who thinks you are hot in every way and a few girls who will want to be your friend and will have your back no matter what.Bye

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      Pam 5 years ago

      Ok so I always complment pepole an smile wave, say hi Im talkative outgoing and pretty but I'm skinny and I walk kinda funny my brothers therapist said I should go to doctor and he will give me things to correct my feet it's not that serious thoe this on mean girl started a fake fight to yell at me she always Is trying to look hot and we're gross cloths pluss she always making me look stupid in front of voyage points really inapropiot things out and teaches me really gross thing I get bullied a lot but everyone says I'm nice and come to me for addvice:(

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      Lol981 5 years ago

      Very helpful

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      Forever21 5 years ago

      Thx for the help trying to be popular.

      I am going to give myself a makeover so I am the prettiest girl in school!!!

      I am going to throw all my clothes out and by new ones thx for the help again!!!c(:

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      Kendelle 5 years ago

      If anyone is mean just keep being yourself and don't mind them. People only do these things because they are trying to stick out to be the ONE. Well they aren't the ONE, you are! I'm super popular and it's really hard sometimes... But if someone is mean I'll be sure they'll never come across a problem with me again. Being popular isn't always great as you would expect... I get stalked and touched and people are just homos. People at my school know me and I have no idea who they are! Just be yourself keep your passion and confidence and be the bigger person!

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      Victoria Smith 5 years ago

      Okay, I will try this for middle school, good advice, Jimmy! It's very good! I will practice this summer, and my last week at grade 5....

      Next, please write an article on what if there is a girl at school and she is trying to get into my group of me and my two other bffs and she is SO annoying and weird but she won't stop stalking me and my friends, and she bought my friends and me yo-yo's and cookies to be our friend but just because she is trying to show us that she is cool won't work, unless she has a good heart, which no offence but she doesn't and I have a feeling she talks about me to other people but uses me to get to my VERY popular friends and me! Help, good answers, please!

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      mary onu 5 years ago

      this is so helpful it really helps me i am going to keep it as a secret i am not going to tell anyone in my class because they might look on the website and be better than me

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      catherine anderson 5 years ago

      to be popular you need over 50 friends and you need to show respect and wear makeup if you can't wear makeup at school then talk about it not too much or you'll blow it you need to wear a school skirt and black tights and clip clops shoes and a clean blouse and a cardigan and you need blusher on and body lotion lip balm and perfume have a bath and make your har good as possible leave it down though and talk like a real nice girl

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      Rose 5 years ago

      u know i can do these things but i can not do two things that r- i do not have the latest music in my IPod and fighting

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      softballchicka 4 years ago

      My only prob is that here its about who you know...the popular girls at my school have been friends since preschool I'm still new and I totally hate the town I live in.:(

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      :) Was Here 4 years ago

      I really appreciate this advice it really did help. Yes, by the way you are right I am lacking a bit of confidence that I should have. The only reason I really looked at this article is because I am finding it hard to maintain my popularity and my grades at the same time. Last year I thought i was extremelly popular, but reading this article made me realize i really have not been popular yet, only a fool. Meaning im only that person that people like because im funny or weird. Im in the 7th grade so I geuss this type of concern is common? The worst part is my school definatlly is not normal. Right now our populars are either in High Achievers or The Trouble Makers. Im not a trouble maker what so ever and I only have 2 classes in High Achievers. In those 2 classes my friend and I talk. Thanks for the article, but my most important qeustion wasn't answered. How do you maintain popularity and grades at the same time?

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      Britt Adknzz 4 years ago

      I try to be popular...and I am. I'm like In the top 2 most popular girls in my grade . This other bitch from my old school is popular 2 . I hate it when people compare us. I'm way prettier than her .She's ugly . here's a tip ... you have to make the guys like you and just b cool with people. have the boys go crazy over you.

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      iwa 4 years ago

      love the advice i tried it and boys went crazy over me.

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      vedangi 4 years ago

      good idea hubbs thanx a lot ,now am popular in school

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      jenny 4 years ago

      i hope this will work i have a bf but everyone is making fun of me and not hom

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      coolgirl 4 years ago

      i wanna b popular but i need more info but thx anyway (ps i am all of those and im still not popular)

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      armychick 4 years ago

      Thank u so much I was shy now I know what to to th x again!

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      aaliyah9151 3 years ago

      that's not true u have to be rich and hot

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      Girlygal 3 years ago

      I'm sorry but let's face reality. People who are nice and well known, at most schools aren't considered popular... It sucks but it's true. The popular girls at my school all have the same clothes, care way too much about their hair, and basically only talk about theirselves and other people. And on top of that, if you don't wear the clothes they wear, you are considered stupid and not worth while ..

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      bull 3 years ago

      Well I'm friends with the popular girl but she just leaves me out of the circle like she doesn't like me please make be likable.

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      Wow... 3 years ago

      I don't think this is REALLY true, because I wasn't really nerdy in school, I was just the girl people ignored and no one really liked me, but I'm not going to lie I WAS mixed amongst the popular girls crew and ladies it's not all glitz and glamour. They aren't that great, being popular isn't that fun! Since I left my school for an alternative, I have become more fashionable then they are! And plus everything there is in school? Is a popularity contest, like Student Council? Good luck getting in if you're one of the mean girl's crew!! They WILL ditch you, and mistreat you. It's just how they are.

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      Elisa 3 years ago

      I sure want to be popular but I will dress cool

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      anna 2 years ago

      I don't think it will work i want to be loved but im shy i cant even talk to the boy i like his name is TJ

      he is a football player

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      miranda 2 years ago

      this was amazing and showed me what to do and I read some of the other comments which said what and what not to do. I also have some tips for you 1 be nice to your teacher 2 smile and wave to other people even if you don't know them.3 be kind don't let your differences make you think that your better then any body else, don't be mean.4 Pay attention in class so make sure you don't go day dreaming so the teacher calls on you an you don't know the answer and every body looks at you and you get embarrassed

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