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Ways to avoid confusion with your children

Updated on December 6, 2015

Deal with the root of the problem first.

What to do if your children are dealing with lesbian and homosexual spirits. I know that this is very harsh to some who are reading this, but this truth must be taught to many who are not knowledgeable of this.

So many parents without knowledge, have a tendency to put braids or plats in the hair of their young infant or toddler boys, to them this is very cute and is a fashionable statement. So many parents allow their young boys to play with girly things, such as dolls made for girls, makeup or wigs, thinking that this is very cute. Many parents dress their daughters in the image of boys, clothes made for boys, they dress them to look like boys or vise versa. Do they realize that they are raising them up with those spirits? Who are to blame if their children end up as lesbians and homosexuals? No child is born this way, but many children are raised that way; this sounds so foolish to many but it is true. The same holds true that if two gay parents raise up children that the children might grow up confused and may become the same way. These spirits travel and are attached to what is around them. God gave us a stern warning in his word about what a woman should wear or a man should wear; indeed he did this for a reason, and that is to keep that spirit out of people.

Deuteronomy 22:5

5. The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.

The question is what pertains to a woman and what pertains to a man?

I see many women who are dressed as men all the way down to a tee, but does that make them men? They can dress like a man as much as they desire, but as long as they live they will always be women, they were born women and they will die women; the same holds true for men.

Be careful of what they wear.

Don't let them manipulate you.

Now, when we see our children acting a particular way or behaving a particular way, we with discernment must weigh in on the matter and focus on that spirit. The child doesn’t know that they have that spirit; neither do they know what the circumstances of these spirits working within them are. Jealously has a spirit, anger has a spirit, pride has a spirit, murder has a spirit. You can discern a murderous spirit in a child by their behavior, or you can discern a homosexual spirit or lesbian spirit in a child, but you must act wisely or it will ultimately overcome a child, because the child is very sensitive to these spirits.

Parents must see things in their children early and correct those things which aren’t right, because later in life it’s going to benefit the child. God will let you discern what type of spirits that’s dealing with your children, in order for you correct the problem early.

Those that are spiritual (have the Holy Ghost) must rebuke these spirits immediately on a daily basis, laying on the hands, anointing the children with holy oil in the name of Jesus. After a while maybe after some years that spirit will eventually leave and the children will never have known that they had these spirits in them. If you can recognize the strong man than bind him up first.

Saint Matthew 12:25-29

25 And Jesus knew their thoughts, and said unto them, every kingdom divided against it is brought to desolation; and every city or house divided against itself shall not stand:

26 And if Satan cast out Satan, he is divided against himself; how shall then his kingdom stand?

27 And if I by Beelzebub cast out devils, by whom do your children cast them out? Therefore they shall be your judges.

28 But if I cast out devils by the Spirit of God, then the kingdom of God is come unto you.

29. Or else how can one enter into a strong man's house, and spoil his goods, except he first bind the strong man? and then he will spoil his house.

Here at this point, Jesus is saying that no house that is divided against itself can stand, and Satan if he is divided against himself he cannot stand. Satan will not cast out Satan. Now Jesus said how could he have cast out devils by Beelzebub, and if he then cast out devils by the Spirit of God then the kingdom was nigh to the Pharisees.

In order to enter a strong man’s house and spoil his goods you have to first bind the strong man. The strong man could be a homosexual or lesbian spirit in this case, this strongman must be bound with strong prayer or fasting. It just won’t leave on its own accord. Now what are his goods here? In the case of the children, the goods maybe what were handling them physically, putting boys clothes on girls, or putting girl clothes on boys is feeding into these spirits. We must spoil his goods after we have bound the strong man. If you do not bind the strong man, he will begin to overcome and take full control over the lives that he has bound. Bind these spirits in the name of Jesus, or do nothing and see how the evil spirits will take control in the spirit realm.

Bind the strong man.

We who are spiritual shouldn’t let the enemy go unnoticed without first recognizing it first. What! the devil in your children and you don’t take notice? Some of you recognize the enemy but ignore him, you are making a big mistake, and it will cost you in the long run. Take a stand for your children’s lives or let the enemy take control and see their ruin.

Listen, these spirits are rampant in the school system, in the homes, in the church. We as Christians see these spirits in the lives of the youth and we do nothing at all. These spirits are everywhere; attack them with prayer, and fasting. We as Christians have the power to cast out these demons from hell, but many are afraid to offend, are you soldiers for Christ or not?

As one good example of this, Brad Pitt and Angela Jolie’s daughter Shiloh desires to be a boy; they are in agreement to this and dresses her accordingly in the image of a boy. They have the power to put that spirit in subjection to them, but they chose not to but rather let that spirit have free course.

In a recent article in Radar online, Jen Heger wrote,

“As Shiloh, 9, continues to dress in boys clothing, Brad and Angie have been doing everything possible to protect her from being bullied by her peers and outsiders.”

That spirit that is working in that child is very manipulative and cunning; it wants to have its way and ultimately will dominate to the point of no turning back. You can bend a tree when it is in its early stages, but when it is fully grown, you can no longer bend it. When the children are fully grown, there is nothing else that the parent can do because the training process has come to an end.

This is not to say that they cannot be changed, it is never too late for change, but in reality, it will be very difficult to reach them at the grown up stages in life. Prayer has the power to change anyone who is open to change.

©2015 by Curtis Shelton

The four step process.

What are the processs to train up a child?

1. Avoid the things not suitable for a boy or a girl, boys with girly things or clothes, girls with boyish things or clothes.

2. Don’t let the children manipulate you; this is a spirit at work in them.

3. Watch their behavior early in life like: boys acting femininely or girls acting masculine, always show kindness and pray against and rebuke the spirits and not the children themselves.

4. Show love and kindness always in any manner of behavior, the evil spirits hate when we show love.


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    • Eldercurk profile image

      Elder Curtis Shelton 2 years ago from Stone Mountain

      It makes a lot of sense for you to express your views on this mater. Yes they do have to explore their sexuality to see what direction they are headed in.

    • SpiritusShepherd profile image

      Kris 2 years ago

      I disagree with you. I do not think enforcing gender specific clothing or play is the answer to dispelling confusion. I believe there are certain ways that a boy can healthily express his feminine side and healthy ways for a girl to express her masculine side.

      Growing up, I became confused about my sexuality because my parents would tell me the things I liked were for boys. I began to wonder if I was supposed to be a boy. It took a long time for me to sort through this confusion and years of stifled individuality before I realized it was perfectly fine for me to enjoy activities usually associated with masculinity and still be a woman.

      I will be having a son soon, I do plan to guide him in his gender identity, but part of that means allowing him to explore activities that are considered more feminine.

      I do agree that homosexuality is a sin, for the Bible specifically says this and I do agree that parents should guide their children in their gender identity, specifically that boys are boys and girls are girls.

      I believe however that exploring their sexuality is a better way to do this than strictly enforcing gender ideals.

      For example: Allow a boy to play with a baby doll. Normally this considered "a girls only" activity, but allowing a boy to play with a baby doll allows him to express an important part of his sexuality: the day when he become a father.