I believe there is a pain that reaches the depths of anything we've ever known. This would have to one of those times. I believe that only God can comfort when the pain is this numbing. I don't think there are words for something this traumatic except, I'm here if you need me", and "Let me know what you need me to do" This is a time to just show love and not rely on words - I don't think there are any.
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