profile image 60

My 12 yo daughter asked to see a pic of her birthmom. Does this mean she does not feel I am her mom?


I have offered before; she always said no. We have always been so close, and I guess I feel a bit rejected, but would NEVER tell her that!! I have always told her positive things about adoption and her birth mom, whom I met once, when she was born. I told her that, if her birthmom needed a kidney, I would give her mine in a heartbeat, bec she gave me my daughter. I dont ever want her to feel bad about asking. I wish I didnt feel so insecure about this! By the way, we have a 4 year old son who is adopted, too.

 

sort by best latest

wychic profile image79

Rebecca Mikulin (wychic) says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

6 years ago
 |  Comment
flying_fish profile image76

flying_fish says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

6 years ago
 |  Comment
khjmom profile image61

khjmom says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

6 years ago
 |  Comment
Mother of Zeno profile image60

Mother of Zeno says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

5 years ago
 |  Comment
profile image60

macielle says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

4 years ago
 |  Comment
Lisa HW profile image81

Lisa HW says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

5 years ago
 |  Comment
profile image0

ellie.w says

You can help the HubPages community highlight top quality content by ranking this answer up or down.

6 years ago
 |  Comment