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My 12 yo daughter asked to see a pic of her birthmom. Does this mean she does not feel I am her mom?


I have offered before; she always said no. We have always been so close, and I guess I feel a bit rejected, but would NEVER tell her that!! I have always told her positive things about adoption and her birth mom, whom I met once, when she was born. I told her that, if her birthmom needed a kidney, I would give her mine in a heartbeat, bec she gave me my daughter. I dont ever want her to feel bad about asking. I wish I didnt feel so insecure about this! By the way, we have a 4 year old son who is adopted, too.

 

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