Emotional experience usually occurs at age 0-7 years. At this age, self control, patience, cooperation, empathy, and others more easily trained and ingrained in the brain dibandin arithmetic, reading, or other calculative activities. Do not forget, this is more emotional maturity to determine your child's success in the future than the ability to count and play computer.
In this case, I actually Television is the positive and negative. Yes, depends on us as parents, we must have consistency for the child.
TV can be helpful if we ...
? - Watch educational TV programs
? - Selecting TV programs (not all cartoons worth watching)
? - Schedule a balance between watching TV and other activities. ? Determine the weekly deadline
- Facing the TV programs with violence. Watch at least one session of your child watch a movie. If there is a scene of violence, discuss with the child (about why occurs, pain, and there are other ways than violence to solve the problem).? Explain the scenes of violence on TV is fake / engineering
? - Encourage the child to watch a show where the characters help each other, caring and cooperating with its surroundings.
- Apply the TV in real situations. Asking children to compare what is viewed with something that children already recognize before (either from experience or what has been learned)
? - Explain to children what is real and engineering on TV show
? - Use TV to explain the norms and values, especially related to drugs and alcohol.
Benefits of Video Games to cognitive development (Given, Understanding, Apply, Analyze, Evaluate, Creating (creativity)
-Select Type of Video Games that are played, the type of video games that require problem-solving strategies to improve cognitive abilities (cognitive ability / intelligence:
"Adaptive behavior of the individual usually characterized by Some element of problem
solving and directed by cognitive processes and operations. ") children
-The men and women who were trained to play video games for 1 (one) month to show improvement on tests of memory, and ability to perform various tasks (multi-task).
-Video games can make players to sharpen their thinking.
- "Playing video games with their children is also a very good idea."
-Social interaction along with physical exercise and intellectual challenges also can improve cognitive abilities in older people.
- Note the time spent playing video games.
Finally, my message is do not make your house like a prison for children.
Please discuss again with your husband, a good strategy for the good of children, strategies that do not harm your child's psychological development, I hope my answer can help. Greetings for your family. Thank you