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Forgiving the unforgivable...how do you start the process of forgiving?


My biological father molested me from the age of 5 at my earliest recollection to the age of 13. He messed up so many areas of my life that I can't even count them all. I haven't spoken to or seen or written to him in about 20 years. Lately though, I've been thinking a lot about him and wanting to talk with him. I'm not sure why. I just do. He's a little old man now, in his 70's, and harmless to me physically. How do I start that conversation with him? What do I say? How do I even begin to forgive him? ...or should I? The picture I've included is me at the age of five. Thanks peeps

 

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