When I was pregnant with my first child I was very excited until the first ultra sound showed that he had fluid around his heart, lungs and in his lower abdomen. We were told by a specialist to terminate the pregnancy and try again because he would be born with a genetic disorder worse than Down Syndrome. We were very scared and disappointed with the news. Well we told him to prove to us that he wouldn't have a normal life because of this, all of the tests showed that he was normal. We were still very uncertain of how things would turn out and very scared. Today he is 16 and very smart. He did have a chest wall deformity which has been corrected through surgery, ADHD, and Aspergers Syndrome. But other than these issues he was born just fine. We are very proud of him.