What I always found worked in my house when the kids were younger were lists. On Saturday mornings, the kids would wake up and each would have a list of chores next to their cereal. Rule was that no one could leave the house until all of the things on their list were done. The older kids would help the younger kids, and there was never any fighting or backtalk.
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