I don't stalk their social websites because they do not have one.
In my kingdom privacy is not a right.
They have the right to be heard. But only one vote counts, and if ever their vote counts is a privilege.
They will do as i say. The moment they earn their own roof, I totally respect their decisions, and if they ask for my opinion I'll gladly give it. The moment they earn their way, they earn their social site.
Some teens would say it would suck to have me as a mother... maybe. But I have it clear as been there to provide for their well being. There is an age for everything. In my house, about 18 is the right age for FB. There is a whole wide of internet and beyond for them, especially when one turns off the computer.