its not so much what i wish someone had said something, but how much i had listened. one of the biggest, and i canot stress it any more, is abstinance. in fact no dating in general. having a boyfriend, or girlfriend, causes more stress and more distractions than most people can handle during highschool. now i am twenty years old, a stay at home mom and approching my second year of marriage, and even though i love my family and we are happy together, i don't see my life going anywhere other than staying at home serving my family. lets face it moms are slaves.