Guys, I know this may not be what you are looking for but it is what you need if you want to live a life of freedom. Freedom means you are not bound by interpretations of past experiences.
Your world and your ideas of who you are, what you deserve, what life is like...everything about how you see the world today was determined by your 5 year old self. (my answer was flagged as too long - please visit my blog to read entire answer: prosperitywhisperer dot com slash narcissitic-wounds)
I love you.