Why should we hide our sadness infront of our loved ones? why can't we live as o

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   bnsrockposted 11 years ago

   Why should we hide our sadness infront of our loved ones? why can't we live as ourself?

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   JThomp42posted 11 years ago

   Speaking from a man's point of view, We are taught from a very early age that is inappropriate for a male to cry. "Suck it up and be a man". How many times have you heard this? We are taught that it is a sign of weakness for a man to show his emotions. Therefore, We do and try to be the strong "Man" for everyone else to lean on.

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      bnsrockposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      sometime emotions can't be controlled.. right?

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      JThomp42posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I agree.

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   duffsmomposted 11 years ago

   You can let your sadness out but beware of one thing.  People will be sympathetic to a point but if someone continues to be sad around them say all the time, they will lose patience and stay away.  Human nature I guess.

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      Express10posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I couldn't have said it any better. Too many people seem blind to this.

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      bnsrockposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      yes thats true..this will happen!

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   onegoodwomanposted 11 years ago

   Speaking only for myself............
   
   
   If I knelt down and cried my  honest tears......................WHO would stand to  prop my children and loved ones up?
   
   
   I CAN NOT succumb to tears, when so many are looking to me to bridge them up.
   
   In my greatest passion.........one afternoon, I am going to hide myself away, in a secluded place and just CRY...............one sweet and carefree afternoon.......when there is nothing else to do.

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      bnsrockposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      children happiness and their innocent faces makes us to hide our sadness infront of them.. sometimes it might be we going forgotten things which is hard in our life.

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   tonie2weeksposted 11 years ago

   We shouldnt.... not at all.. If our children do not see us have pain and learn to handle itl... they will believe thier own emotions are not valid, blown out of porportion, etc. whoever made up was trying to display perfection... It dosent exist and this is why so many of us are isolated.. We can be in a room of one hundred and still be lonley

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      bnsrockposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      loneliness will not going to answer the all things all the time but I think it will relax us.
      But sharing with friends it might be going to help us to forgotten some sad things/feelings.!!

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