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If you could change the age at which you had your child/children, would you?


I had my child at 21 years old, and I love her more than anything in the world, but there are times I think I'm missing out on a large part of growing up. My mom didn't have children until she was 30 and she said she wouldn't change a thing because she got everything out of her system before hand... Would you change the age you had children at, especially if your child was unplanned?

 

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    Erin Nichols (lilmissmontana) 4 years ago

    My child by far the most important thing in my life. It's more for her sake that I say I missed out because I want to be the best and most mature mom I can be. I think if I would have waited I would have known more


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    Erin Nichols (lilmissmontana) 4 years ago

    I think if I would have been more responsible, we would have waited until we were at least 25-26. But now that she is here, I wouldn't trade her for the world. It makes things hard at our age, but it's well worth it.

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    Erin Nichols (lilmissmontana) 4 years ago

    It sounds like things worked out for the best, which is all that matter. Congratulations on your family!

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    Erin Nichols (lilmissmontana) 4 years ago

    I think its perfect for some people to wait. My mom loved having kids in her thirties bit i think it just depends on where u are in life and what u want to accomplish.


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