It was time for us to have lunch and I was talking to my mother on phone,He got angry and chose to answer me monotone since then. He can keep that up till 3 days and will only talks to you when he needs to and the painful part is he will be laughing and talking to everyone happily except me. He won't answer when you ask of what's wrong even if you did it for the first time without knowing he has a broblem with it. Then he just begin to act normal again like nothing happened, being more helpful and sweet . Am confused.
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Thanks a lot honey I like your advice, I will do just that. Thanks a lot.
Lawrencia, I doubt that you are anything like James' mother. Give yourself more credit. If your boyfriend makes you cry again, do not be so quick to blame yourself. You deserve to be respected. Please read about narcissists. It could help.
So true, Paula. Responding to his bad behavior is rewarding his emotional abuse. Not a good plan.
Thanks dear. I will give that a try next time. Thanks a lot.
Thanks to all 3 of you. Lawrencia, use all of this great advice from everyone to your benefit.
absolutely correct, Yves. ...and as they continue to suffer no consequence from such ludicrous behavior, they only get worse!
Thank dear.I want to see if it will repeat itself because he once saw me crying and apologized that it won't happen again and that was the second time .
Thanks a lot.
making you cry was what he wanted. Emotional manipulation. He now knows how to get to you.
Fine, Lawrencia.....Now, you need to communicate to him that you don't appreciate disrespect either!! The sooner, the better. A relationship is about TWO people of equal value and worthiness!!