It is not easy to do so. When two families live under one roof, it is difficult. But, there is also a lesson to learn. If you plan your future with your spouse, then she is a mom like figure. I say learn from her and be good friends. 2 moms are better then one. And in my case, if it wasn't for mine, I wouldn't have a mom. Best wishes princess.
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