I'm sorry to say that whilst it's probably possible to do this, I don't think it's going to solve your problems.
Your communication dilemma is not uncommon, but I fear your safest bet is to just go see him. Apologise - even if it's not your fault and try and mend your fences. You could even try the initial contact via the phone, but it's something you should do as it shows your dad that you are willing to let bygones be bygones and would at least set the tone for a face to face meeting.
Bringing you two together with a spell would only be the start. You still have to mend the rift that has developed and no spell is going to do that.