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Homes are built from the heart, they begin there.
The Man should be Lovingly Understanding.
The home, being a social institute that would be called smallest should by no means be underestimated. It is from the home that we get a state.
A home can be made up of two or more, but the way in which they relate affects the whole world in two ways; what they do, and what they do not do which they in the best of their status are supposed to do.
The value of a home increases proportionally with love. Yet this love begins in the heart, that is why we can suppose that a home begins from the heart. And what is a home without forgiveness? It is just as a heart without forgiveness; painful, heavy and unbearable. We have a home somewhere if we have peace, a place whereby we are accepted as we are human beings, capable of making mistakes. The differance between a pleasant home, and a terrible unknown place is the good understanding we find at home.
It is the understanding that draws the attention of graceful obedience which inturn crowns a home with love due to submissiveness and loyalty. If a man understands the other, it is a ticket to peace. But how can a man understand the other if he gives way to anger and shuts his good understanding? How can a home be built without mutual understanding? How can we build a home without the lovingkindness of a good understanding?
Through this understanding we get a home; and thus I find it better to choose a good understanding than riches. It is this understanding that keeps a family together.
There is always possibilty, it only depends on our understanding and the state of our hearts. If our hearts out of love are set towards building then we will build others up and not ground them or drag them down. Everyone is special in a special way, if we don't give up on them and they don't give up either on themselves or those who are to provide the help, the potential still stands.
It is from such things as forgiveness and understanding that a home is built. Yea, it is always good to be smart, but what is the beginning thereof, it is the faith that something can be made better or rectified with unrelenting conviction through understanding. We need this in our homes, and any one who acquires the smartness, it does not matter the state in which he is. He will soon or later find himself a very fine home. Why? Because he is needed in a home to keep it together.
It is not always the best thing to be quick on giving up on ourselves or others, thus judging ourselves or the others as bad. For when we were created, we were created with dignity. It is this dignity that we should see in others, not their faults, we should not set our eyes on on the faults of others or those which we make, but rather on the posibility of change and a remarkable impact.