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Lover boys watch out!

Updated on July 24, 2013

Lover boys beware or nonsense!

I write this lens about Lover boys, watch out because in girls there is much ignorance about how they proceed, and to protect them against the atrocities that someone makes, when they get into the clutches of such a lover boy, even if I only save one girl from this to happen, it has been a helpful lens.

And hope there will be more awerenes, not only by girls but also by their parents, I think you can better prepare your children a bit on things, so they will know what is coming, then let them learn the hard way.

I also know that your teens will not want to see or hear what you have to say, on things like this but It is an important subject, to talk about with your children, and not only your daughter but also your son.

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Watch out before you become the next victim


He understands me, what is so wrong with this guy, a guy who knows what I want, no meddlesome nagging parents ................... but all this is premeditated

Protection, attention, drugs and love without having to do anything, that really does NOT exist, a Lover boy makes you believe that he loves you and will do everything for you, all this is in his premeditated plan to get you into prostitution!

He'll give you clothing, jewelry, an expensive vacation, and makes you believe that you have a future together, but eventually you pay here for a very very high price, which blights your life forever.

One day he tells you that he has debts he cannot pay, and that you also are responsible for that, and you'll have to help solve its debts, you have no more contact with your parents or friends because you left your home by the many quarrels with your parents and are withdrawn in his house you are now so dependent on him.

He changes together s understanding that sweet boy in a sample that you are required to go to work, to repay its debts in prostitution, drug trafficking or arms, because of fear to the consequences you help him with your savings.

He is a tough criminal who causes your life a hell, when you're looking for a way out, he is already many steps further in his plan, he blackmails you with sex tapes that were secretly made when you had sex with him, or with photographs he has, when it has come to the rapes and threats, have no effect anymore, and before you realizes it , you just become his next victim, and you have to do what he says, and that is make much money in a way that you do not want, and if you do not earn enough then you get seriously mistreated.

Even nowadays there are already lover girls, these girls just like you already have been obtained by a pimp and have to try to get other girls in to this terrible world, you feel guilty, lonely, fully insulated and without seeing a way out, they have you in their power.


Even though you have a lot of arguing with your parents REMEMBER they have all the best interest with you, and to drive their daughter in the hands of a criminal is not want they want.

A lover boy is as it were a young man who seduce you with empty promises, do sweet and lovely, and blackmail you into prostitution where you work with many men sometimes even three times as old as you yourself and have sex.

Often lover boys seek girls on the bus / train station, in youth organizations, schools and clubs, but do not forget the profile sites, chat rooms, face book, twitter, and Hyves. From behind his computer he is looking for you, and many others at the same time, and look who will responds, trough your profile he already knows your interests, friends, girlfriends, family, hobbies and use this if you happen to come across him at school, station or favorite hangout, this is ALL premeditated.

Use the life lessons of your parents, to make your life easier, do not make the same mistakes!

Your parents love you and want to guard you against evil, even though you often quarrel, listen to their wise counsel.

What do you think

Is a lover boy the kind of guy you like?

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Is a Lover boy a Lover or looser?

On guard or nonsense!

Now that you read this, are you on your guard, or do you find this nonsense?

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Please tell me what you think

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    • tazzytamar profile image

      Anna 3 years ago from chichester

      I am raising my son to respect women and be a gentleman. I hate that some men do such horrible things to girls who are vulnerable and believe they are in love. I hope many people read this lens :)

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      marktplaatsshop 4 years ago

      @greenmind: well the guys I am talking about are for sure loosers

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      GreenMind 4 years ago from USA

      lover or looser -- that is the question!

    • TransplantedSoul profile image

      TransplantedSoul 4 years ago

      There are many great people out there - but it pays to be careful.

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      marktplaatsshop 4 years ago

      @flinnie lm: Well there are a lot out there, not every were around the world it is a problem

      but you can say, it is here were I live, so that is why I made a lens on it so

      we can warn our children about what loverboys use to get a girl in their claws

      and put them to work in prostitution or drug trafficking

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      Gloria Freeman 4 years ago from Alabama USA

      Hi there are a lot of lover boys out there, we must be awear.

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      marktplaatsshop 4 years ago

      @Jogalog: Yes that is a worry, but when you warn them for it, and let them see films on the topic, that helps, I just gave a film we had to a friend with a girl in the age of 13

      so they can prepare their daughter and let them learn on the topic,.thanks for the like of my lens, I appreciate it

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      Jogalog 4 years ago

      It also makes me glad I'm married butmakes me worry for my daughter in the future.

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      marktplaatsshop 4 years ago

      @SandyMertens: Yes it it scary to get in the clutches of an lover boy and young girls are at real risk, so thats why I made this lens so more people will realize it, the biggest danger is that lover boys seem to perfectly pick out the girls who have trouble at home, it is like they have a sixth sense on it.

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      Sandy Mertens 4 years ago from Frozen Tundra

      I would hate to be single and become a victim to a lover boy.

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      DrLibby 4 years ago

      makes me glad I'm married, whew!