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Planning and hosting a Mystery Dinner with menu

Updated on January 27, 2011

Dinner can be Fun!

How to host a Mystery Dinner

Mystery Dinners are probably the most rewarding type of meal that any person can plan. My motto is ‘The more the merrier’, this works well if you are having a lot of people for dinner. Having been the head of an organization for a short time, I wanted to reward my helpers with a fun night out. To this day it is still talked about and referred to as the most fun anyone has ever had at a dinner.

Let me explain what a Mystery Dinner is. It is a dinner that should have no less than 6 people (for the maximum amount of fun). The guests have no idea what they are going to eat, they are presented with a menu from which they have to ‘place’ their orders. A good menu should have no less than 4 courses, 5 is a good round number. It is also fun if you should include in your menu the ordering of utensils. Plates and bowls are a given, you need something to serve the food on.

The menu item will have different name from which the food truly is, such as; Jacob’s Well - which is water. Yes, they must order drinks too!

You must plan your menu, deciding what to have is the most fun. If you are known to be a good cook this makes the anticipation for what you have planned even greater. Ensure that you have enough time to prepare your food, so you can enjoy your company, and watch the expressions on their faces as their ’waiter’ brings them their orders.

You will need to enlist in co-conspirators for your venture, this is something you will not be able to do on your own. Teenagers make great helpers they are quick and light on their feet. Any left over food you have will be devoured by them, so you will have no waste!

If you are having as many as 30 people to your dinner party, I would suggest separating them as they enter. This way your guests get to meet new people and may be prone to having more fun. With 30 people you will need many tables, so having helpers is very important. I would suggest having at least 5 helpers/waiters for 30 people. Each helper will be responsible for 1 table of 6 guests.

As everyone is seated you then explain how the dinner will happen. Each helper will be standing at the head of each table, holding the menu’s. After your explanation your helper will then give each guest a menu with a pencil. Having them put their name on each menu will help the waiter remember what goes to who. They will be allowed to order 5 items each course. As the item is ordered it will be crossed off the list, so it cannot be ordered again. Using plain white paper for your menu is probably the least expensive and best, for these will most likely never be used again.

You will need several ‘master copy’ menu’s placed around the area where the food is to be served. A ‘Master Copy’ is telling your servers exactly what is what on the menu. It helps to avoid any confusion.

The types of food served and names given for each, is limited to your imagination!

Planning - If you are having 5 courses with 5 items in each course, you will need 25 items to go on your menu. Of these items, 5 should be utensils, such as fork, knife, spoon, napkin and toothpick. Each will have it’s own individual name ie; Fork - Divided Branches.

Your drinks will take up at least 3 items, coffee, iced tea and water. Coffee - Rocket Fuel.

You are left with 18 items that should be food items. Not so daunting is it? You can have meat, soup, potato, salad’s and desserts. Not necessarily a full salad, but items such as carrot/celery sticks or raisins. Your menu does not have to have any particular rhyme or reason, since each item will be ordered individually.

If you want to save on the later clean up, using disposable plates and bowls make it a lot easier.

Keep in mind this is meant to be fun, so have fun! Enjoy yourself. If after it’s over and you still have hungry guests (doubtful) by all means offer them more!

Front of double sided menu
Front of double sided menu
back side of menu
back side of menu
Master Copy of menu (just a few ideas)
Master Copy of menu (just a few ideas)

Menu

If you should like this idea and you like me to e-mail you a copy of my menu, feel free to write, I will get on it right away!

Why not make it a Murder Mystery Dinner?

If you are fairly creative, you might want to include a murder mystery skit into your dinner.  Complete with costumes and story line.  There are lots of fictional murder stories that can be found for your ‘actors’.  If you just can’t seem to think of any good mysteries, go to your local library and check out some Agatha Christy books to get an idea.  My personal favorite of hers, ‘Curtain’.  This could be written fairly easy into a murder mystery skit, with only a few people who need to rehearse their lines.  One never knows, if it’s very successful, you may be asked to perform this for pay.


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      Sweetsusieg 3 weeks ago from Michigan

      I need an e-mail to send it to.

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      Rachel Villalobos 3 weeks ago

      Please send me a copy of your menu. My daughter wants to do it for her birthday.

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      Mickey 2 months ago

      Please send me your menu, am doing this for a church function, how fun. mickeywebb1998@gmail.com. Thank you

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      Sweetsusieg 4 months ago from Michigan

      Yes, the menu as your guests will see it and the master copy for your servers.

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      Dee 4 months ago

      do u have the menu and what they stand for?

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      Sweetsusieg 9 months ago from Michigan

      Sent

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      Karen Miller 9 months ago

      Please email your menu for the mystery dinner. I'm going to hostess my Red Hat group and I thought this would be fun. I did have a copy a couple years ago, but lost it when my home burned down.

      Thank you in advance for your help. My email is

      sundayquiltr@aol.com

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      Sweetsusieg 10 months ago from Michigan

      I'm gonna need your email Barbara.

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      Barbara 10 months ago

      Living in Adelaide Australia and would love you to email me the menu.

      Went to a Mystery dinner years ago was such fun

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      Sweetsusieg 10 months ago from Michigan

      Sent!

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      ginfaith44@yahoo.com 10 months ago

      Hi Sweetsusieg, this sounds like it would be lots of fun as a combine mutual activity for the valentines next month. Can you please email me the menu?

      Thank you,

      Virginia

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      Sweetsusieg 11 months ago from Michigan

      Sent!

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      Ashley 11 months ago

      Hello! I would love a copy of your menu! Ashleyaanker@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 12 months ago from Michigan

      Sent

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      Debbie D 12 months ago

      Please I would love to get a copy of your mystery dinner recipe.

      Debbied12758@aol.com

      Thank you

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      Sweetsusieg 13 months ago from Michigan

      Sent

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      Julie 13 months ago

      I would love you to e-mail me. My email is justjuliemo@yahoo.com

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      Sweetsusieg 14 months ago from Michigan

      I need an email!

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      Nanct 14 months ago

      Please send me a copy of your menu!

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      T1dunlap@aol.com 17 months ago

      Please send me the menu. Thank you.

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      Sweetsusieg 20 months ago from Michigan

      Menu sent! With a few instructions.

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      Sue Dunaway 21 months ago

      Would love to do a party for our ladies at the church. I need a menu and more instructions on how the party works!!!!

      Thanks,

      Sue

      sgddu@bellsouth.net

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      Sweetsusieg 22 months ago from Michigan

      Sent!

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      barb.allen85@gmail.com 22 months ago

      Hi! I loved your planning ideas. Could you send your menu?

      Many thanks!

      Barbara

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      Sweetsusieg 22 months ago from Michigan

      Both have been sent!! Enjoy!

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      dpalmer 22 months ago

      Could you please email me your menu Thanks gdpalmer@bresnan.net

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      Natalie 22 months ago

      I would love to do this with our youth group. Could you please email me nahuffman@yahoo.com. Thank you

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      Sweetsusieg 2 years ago from Michigan

      Sent! I hope you enjoy!

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      Tammy Edwards 2 years ago

      I am planning a Mystery Dinner for our Church Youth Group. Could you please email me your menu asap? Thanks! tammy_edwards@yahoo.com

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      Sweetsusieg 2 years ago from Michigan

      Sent. enjoy!

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      vicki 2 years ago

      could you please email me the menu ASAP.

      vickiwhitford22@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 2 years ago from Michigan

      Sent

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      Kathi Rogers 2 years ago

      thinking of doing this for Ladies Night Out. Would you email me the menu. Krogers47@mtcnow.net.

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      Sweetsusieg 2 years ago from Michigan

      sent

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      Devon 2 years ago

      I have been looking for something like this...I went to a mystery dinner given by my girl scout leader 15+ years ago and now I am a leader and want to do this with my girls...can you send me a copy? devonrem@hotmail.com

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      Jenell Mercer 3 years ago

      Please send menue and coarse forms for your Mystery Dinner to j.mercer@live.con

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      Sweetsusieg 3 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent! Enjoy!!

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      Pamela Maupin 3 years ago

      Please send me a copy of your menu. My email is pamthebaker@gmail.com

      Looking forward to receiving it and then using it in my church here in Lincoln Ca. Thanks

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      Sent!

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      sweethearts2 4 years ago from Northwest Indiana

      This sounds great for a fellowship activity at church. Please send copy of menu - laflech@sbcglobal.net

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      I need your email address please.

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      Rachel 4 years ago

      Could out send me a copy of your menu please? Appreciate it!

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      On it's way!!

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      Linda 4 years ago

      Would love for you to send me the menu I'm planning on doing this with my bible study group. mamabell62@yahoo.com

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      On it's way!!

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      carolee 4 years ago

      would you email me the menu.....thank you.......blakeann045@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent!

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      Monica 4 years ago

      I would love to see your menu. Thanks!

      rmcolvin@surfbest.net

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      There ya go, it's on it's way!!

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      Judy Miller 4 years ago

      Would you please send me a copy of your menu?

      gjmiller@telusplanet.net

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      You are very welcome! Hope you enjoy the fun!

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      Chris 4 years ago

      Thanks so much! Great tips. Looking forward to doing this for my daughter's 14th birthday. I would love for you to send me your menu! Thanks again.

      Rosses5@yahoo.com

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      On it's way!!

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      dblycker 4 years ago

      I would also love a copy of your menu. I hope to use this for our Jr/Sr. Highschool Friendship Banquet.

      dblycker@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 4 years ago from Michigan

      It's on it's way!! Enjoy!

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      Michele 4 years ago

      I would love a copy of your menu. Thanks. therealparkers@yahoo.com

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      on it's way!

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      Sandy Gardner 5 years ago from Grand Rapids, Michigan

      Could you please send me a menu? We are doing this for our youth group in a couple of weeks.

      loveqltng@sbcglobal.net

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      On it's way!!

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      Jeanmarie 5 years ago

      We did this several years ago and it was great fun and would love to do again for friends who have never done it. I would love a ciopy of your menu if possible. Thanking you in advance.

      jeanmariewentzel@comcast.net

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      Sure thing!

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      Kristi Van 5 years ago

      Hi! I am planning a mystery dinner for our Family ministries group at church, with our youth group as servers! I would love a copy of your menu if it is still available. Thanks! kristivan@cam-umc.org

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      Your menu is on it's way along with my interpretation of a name for Lasagna along with my reasoning behind ti!!

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      Dottie Whittington 5 years ago

      Thanks for printing your information. I wanted to have a mystery dinner from 35 year old memories. Would you please send your menu. Any ideas for what to call Lazonya?

      Thanks, dorothy5141@att.net

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      There ya go!! On it's way!

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      KimberA 5 years ago

      May I have a copy of your menu? This is awesome...

      Kimberlya916@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's on it's way!!

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      Amber 5 years ago

      Could you please send me a copy of your menu to Lp4h@ymail.com? I would surely appreciate it!!

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      On it's way!!

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      TiffanyMead 5 years ago

      Could you please send me a menu, I went to a party years ago and have been looking ever since for idea's. Your's is perfect!!! Thank you so much in advance, I cant wait to have an awesome night with a bunch of friends :)

      Sauers.tiffany@gmail.com or Mead.Tiffany90@gmail.com

      Thanks again!

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      @ Julie - It's been sent!!

      @ marilyn - On it's way!

      Hope you have fun with it!!

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      marilyn 5 years ago

      My sister and I hosted one of these over 30 years ago(yikes!!) would love to do another one..would so appreciate a copy of any and all ideas you would be willing to share!! Thanks so much!

      stampgirl57@hotmail.com

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      Julie 5 years ago

      Could you also send me your menu maxdog@centurylink.net

      thanks

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent - sorry it took so long. I will have to try and remedy that today!

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      Oreo 5 years ago

      Please Send me a copy of your menu!!!! Can't wait for the party to beginning!!

      Thanks :),

      nadinef98@gmail.com

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      Abby 5 years ago

      Please send a copy of your menu's. My 9 year old is having a mystery birthday party.

      Thanks,

      abbysink@yahoo.com

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      I hope you got it ok! Enjoy

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      Edie Draper 5 years ago

      Could you please send a copy of your menu and clues? This is a perfect activity for the youth. drapers007@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's on it's way!! Enjoy

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      Abby 5 years ago

      please send menu and clues to vdmabby@gmail.com

      Thanks

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent.. enjoy!

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      MaryDW 5 years ago

      I am planning an engagement party for my daughter. She gave a party to my husband for his 65th, now we are turning the tables.

      dmdcas@premieronline.net

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      On it's way!! Enjoy!

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      Wieska 5 years ago

      Could you please send me a copy of your menu? Thank you!

      mwoverduin@shaw.ca

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's on it's way!!

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      Sheri 5 years ago

      I am hoping you can e-mail me a copy of you information... iggos2000@gmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      On it right away!! Enjoy!

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      toni 5 years ago

      Can you please send me a copy? Sounds like a lot of fun!

      Thanks.

      mtcwilson@zoominternet.net

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      KGarcia 5 years ago

      Planning a mystery bday party for my daughter

      pwocss@gmail.com

      Thanks

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      There ya go!! It's been sent!

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      krosbymom 5 years ago

      Youth group event - please send your menu! kspaan01@yahoo.com

      Thanks in advance!!!

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent!! Enjoy!

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      Kaeli 5 years ago

      Please send me a copy! Thank you

      Kaelicrane@hotmail.com

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent!! Hope you enjoy!

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      Jackie 5 years ago

      oh pls send to me too!

      jacklynlytton@gmail.com

      Thanks!

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      They have been sent!! Enjoy!

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      Patti 5 years ago

      Would you please email me a copy of your menu. I lost the one that I have and I'm starting to panic just a little. Thank you

      wenial13@gmail.com

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      bac2726@yahoo.com 5 years ago

      I have attended one of these dinners and it was a hoot. Would like to give a mystery dinner party at my house. Would love to have a copy of your menu, etc. Thanks loads!!

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      Sweetsusieg 5 years ago from Michigan

      It's been sent!

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      Renee 5 years ago

      May I please have a copy of your menu? Thanks! reneevr@gmail.com