Do men ever wonder where a relationship is going with a special person? How do

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   brakel2posted 11 years ago

   Do men ever wonder where a relationship is going with a special person?  How do you resolve it?
   
   Relationships seem more complicated these days with divorce, children involved, indecision, and other issues.  Some thoughts please.

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   onegoodwomanposted 11 years ago

   They are MEN, they are not comfortable, speaking of such things.........
   
   
   YES, they wonder, they speculate, they dream, they feel, and they fear...........
   
   
   If women find relationships " complicated".......rest assured, the men do too.

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   nightwork4posted 11 years ago

   of course we wonder. so many things change in a relationship and it sometimes baffles me. some women have constant mood swings, their sex drive changes all the time etc., that it makes a man wonder what tomorrow will bring.

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   savvydatingposted 11 years ago

   Yes, men do wonder where a relationship is going. However, women often want to know where things are going right now. It sounds like you may be wondering what your special someone is feeling about you. Over time, a man's actions and words will tell you how he feels... It is never a good idea to press him into declaring his intentions too quickly. Time will tell.
   
   On the other hand, if you have been dating for more than a year and he remains casual or standoffish, it may be time for you to move on to someone who is more appreciative and intrigued with you. You will know when a man is intrigued because he will be eager to pursue you no matter whether you have children in your life or a divorce in your past.
   
   I do not know what you mean in using the word "indecision." Are you indecisive or is he? Either way, perhaps the time has come for someone to make a decision. Frankly, if a man cares, he will say so. Men are not that complicated. Either they love you or they don't. Trust you gut.

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   ackman1465posted 11 years ago

   As long as the participants are heading toward a bedroom, men have no reason to wonder where (else!) it might "be going"!!!!!

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