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My Second Life in Second Life

Updated on June 20, 2014

Queenie Moriarty, Marriage Maestra

So many people have jobs in Second Life, jazz musicians, artists, 3D builders, creators of virtual goods such as jewellery, clothing and shoes. It takes a special talent to design these amazing objects, a talent which I lack.

Instead of trying to keep up with these designers and builders, I use the skills which I already have - creating ceremonies and public speaking.

So I have the very best job possible in Second Life and I'm in constant contact with happy people.

Happiness is contagious.

Second Life

Don't know Second Life?

Second Life (abbreviated as SL), the MMORPG 3D interactive virtual reality programme now has over one and half million members (residents).

Many of these residents enjoy the Ceremonies I create for them .. and I now have over one and a half thousand wedding ceremonies under my belt.

Second Life is not a Game

People take it very seriously

If this sounds a little crazy, let me assure you that is is.

I actually make a modest income from creating a memorable wedding ceremony in a virtual world.

People are very serious about their existence in-world, they invest a lot of time (and often a lot of money) in their personal virtual representations. They don't have just 'avatars' wandering about, they have an extension of their own self interacting with other very real people.

It's not a game. Second Life is only Real Life with a digital interface.

Pastor Q

Introducing my Avatar, Queenie Moriarty

A lot of people take the opportunity to dress up for weddings in a way that they can never do in real life (RL).

I've come across a lot of women who just love to dress up. It's a little like playing with dolls, all those absolutely fabulous frocks, and what's the loveliest of outfits that any woman can wear? A gorgeous Wedding Gown of course.

Let me tell you, all brides are beautiful, in any world, virtual or otherwise.

Who gets married in SL?

I've created wedding ceremonies for people who are actually are married in RL, and the online celebration is the icing on the (wedding) cake.

Then there are the couples separated by work commitments or military service and have to live in different parts of the world. Second Life is a place that they can talk to each other - after all it's just an enhanced chat programme - and a wedding ceremony in SL is right up their alley.

Of course, there are the people who actually meet online.

I was thrilled when I first officiated at a Renewal Ceremony of a couple I had married in 2007. They had met inworld, and discovered much in common. Since then I've had the great pleasure of presiding over many anniversaries. Can I remind you that happiness is catching?

Lasting friendships are made in SL and Love can be found in all sorts of places.

Love is Love - No matter what world you're in

I married this couple - and created a Commitment Ceremony for their first anniversary

On my Beach in Second Life - Watching the sun rise


My popular Wedding Kampong is behind me.

Reality is wrong. Dreams are for real.”

Tupac Shakur

My Virtual Cathedral, Ave Stella Maris.

There's room in any world for an old fashioned Church Wedding.

My beautiful cathedral, Stella Maris, won a prestigious award for best church build in SL.

As you can gather from the name, the cathedral overlooks the ocean.

Everyone loves Second Life - Even my Cat is a Gamer!


In Second Life, as in Real Life, I enjoy the company of my little black cat.

This virtual moggy is Boris, a wonderful bundle of organic scripting and reminiscent of my blogging cat, Vladimir who is a lensmaster in his own right.

One day Vladi will write a lens about his own experiences as an Avatar in Second Life, but in the meantime you can browse through his Catography of a Feline LensMaster.

What's your opinion? - Come on, be honest

Feel free to tell the truth ......

What do you think of Second Life?

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      whirlwind 6 years ago

      Your second life in second life sounds really interesting and a fun way to make money; Thanks for sharing info about this program!

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      Deb Kingsbury 8 years ago from Flagstaff, Arizona

      I find this so intriguing. I've certainly heard of Second Life, but I've never tried it or even looked at it, myself. I'm almost afraid to, because I hear and read (including your lens) that there's so much you can do with it. And I just know I'd probably get sucked in. Which maybe would be a good thing? Oh, I just don't know! Maybe when I have some time (ha!), I'll take a peek. You've really gotten my interest piqued even more now.

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      divacratus 2 8 years ago

      MMORPGs sound great, though I haven't even tried a single one! Yeah I suck! This will be the first game I would try out in case I get an outstanding internet connection. It sure looks entertaining...

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      Mickie Goad 8 years ago

      I have not been an online "gamer". My husband already complains that I have messed the computer up with my Squidoo activities. Is 2nd Life a safe place?

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      CCGAL 8 years ago

      I found this lens from the link you left in another S/L related lens - I'm so glad you did that!

      My introduction to Second Life was same as Moonvine's - we were both part of Pat O'Bryan's Portable Empire in SL, and she is one of my best friends online as a result. In fact, I'm pretty sure that I joined Squidoo as a result of her having touted it on Second Life.

      I don't interact much on SL any more - but I do love to play Zyngo and Shrooms, and I have never had to buy a single linden in my year and a half playing.

      Loved this lens - 5* and a fav.

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      Agapantha 9 years ago

      Excellent Queenie! If I feel the urge to cement a virtual relationship I will be knocking on your door

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      Joan4 9 years ago

      Oh this is so cool! I love Second Life - Pat O'Bryan's group used to meet there! Have not visited in a while! You are inspiring me to return! Second Life is Fun! Oh, and if you go there, I am Moonvine Blessed! Be sure to say hello!

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      tdove 9 years ago

      Thanks for joining G Rated Lense Factory!

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      Susanna Duffy 9 years ago from Melbourne Australia

      You should hop in Stazjia, it will amaze you. Don't forget, it's free and fast to become a resident.

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      Carol Fisher 9 years ago from Warminster, Wiltshire, UK

      Wow! It makes me want to explore Second Life - yet another thing I've never got round to doing. 5*

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