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" A Liaison with Death"

Updated on August 21, 2010

"A Liaison With Death"

I'm writing this hub for the awareness of sexual transmitted diseases, especially the HIV disease. I met a young black women, in her late thirties that told me, she tested HIV positive and she wouldn't have known if she hadn't taken the test, after someone seen her boyfriend at the clinic. she was devastated, because she said she had been in a relationship; eight years and hadn't never cheated on her mate. The sad thing about this situation is it happens all the time to loving and caring women, that trusted their mate or partner to be faithful and not cheat on them. This young lady learned a gruesome discovery that would change her life and her children 's life forever.

Mind you, this is only one story of million of women all over the world that's infected with the HIV virus, and don't know that they have it. I know it's really scary to think about it, but if the women involved don't take the initiative and try and protect themselves, because most men on the make ,want do it. 99%  of the women that's infected is black and unaware that they have this dreaded disease; because the man has been cheating on her or he's using drugs intravenously. This young women told me, she hadn't told her mother or family because they will judge her and she don't want to feel any worse than she does already.  Most women aren't very careful of our mates actions behind our back. Ladies be very protective and careful about your intimate partners, because they could be offering you more than just a good time in the bed; they could be killing you for a good time in bed. Everyone isn't forth coming and being honest about their personal details about their sexual partners. some will even go out of their way to hide the truth from you.

The truth is 99% of the women infected are wives and women with live in mates that aren't aware of their mates infidelities. Again I tell you to be protective and conscience of who you're sleeping with, because ,I promise you everyone doesn't have your best interest at heart. I cannot stress to you how important it is to be safe, than to be sorry, so take precautions if you can't abstain from sexual intercourse and protect yourself at all cost; to ensure that you aren't caught off guard by a deadly diagnosis. ladies please understand that because you're in a committed relationship , doesn't mean your partner or mates are a committed as you are. Please don't let yourselves become statistics of a disease that kills millions every year. So be wise and stay healthy and alive by cancelling out your liaison with an untimely death.

Benny Faye Douglass    


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      pmccray 7 years ago from Utah

      This is so sad. Cheating now takes on a new face . . your mates cheating ways can kill. I can understand why she would trust this dog after a relationship of 8 years, Lord I will pray for her and her children.

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      benny Faye Douglass 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Hello, as always you're always welcome. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Hello, hello, 7 years ago from London, UK

      Thank you for a grea hub and a great warning.

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      benny Faye Douglass 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you always exploring, for your visit and your comment, I appreciate you. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you Love To Read, I try my best to write about hubs that will mean something to people everywhere, so they can get the right information. I care so much about people and I want everyone to get the correct information to help them to protect themselves. Thank you again for your support,and comment. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      benny Faye Douglass 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Good seeing you here at my hubs Audrey, I hope all is well with you. Thank you for your comment. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 7 years ago from Southern Illinois

      Such a good reminder for women and men as well. Thank you for sharing much needed advice.

      Love and Peace

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      Loves To Read 7 years ago

      Thank you for writing this very informative hub creativeone. HIV is sadly one of those "Diseases" that hit every type of media with a whack years ago. When it was so exposed people became more aware and took precautions against it. The trouble today is that there is so much going on around us that HIV has been shoved into the back of our minds. It is obvious that the actual disease has not been put behind us also.

      I would encourage everybody to heed this hub of yours as it seems people have let their guard down. Great Hub

      Peace and Hugs

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      Audrey Kirchner 7 years ago from Central Oregon

      Great info, Faye - sad that so many folks (especially women it seems) don't even know they are infected until it is too late.

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      benny Faye Douglass 7 years ago from Gold Canyon, Arizona

      Thank you puter_dr, You are correct,about the women, but I think the men out weight the women, I guess it's not who do does the most, it's the damages that is being doing by careless people that's not being responsible for their own actions. Thank you so much for stopping by my hubs with your comment. Godspeed. creativeone59

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      Mike Bouska 7 years ago from Midwest USA

      This is sadly true. There are some promiscuous women that end up in this situation, but many are innocent partners of a man who fools around.