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How To Create That Perfect Life For Yourself

Updated on April 3, 2012


Do you want to know how to create that perfect life for yourself? I know I do, but as you know there is nothing exactly perfect in anyone's life, but we sure can try as hard as we can to get the closest as possible to making that perfect life.

First and foremost we must live our life clean and sober each and everyday of our lives. I am not saying to never have a drink of alcohol in your life, but I know many of us, including myself, can not have just that one drink, so those that are in this category just must not drink at all and that include me.

Living the clean life is the one of the best ways to create that perfect life for yourself.

Just think about it for one moment and ask yourself a few questions that would spoil living that perfect life. Mine are as follows and maybe you might find a couple that relate to your life.

  • Drinking and using drugs would certainly not let you enjoy that perfect life.
  • Continuing to be in some sort of trouble in your life.
  • Having hatred towards others.
  • Lying to others and to yourself.
  • Not giving yourself enough credit in whatever you do in life.
  • Not respecting yourself and other.
  • Thinking negative thoughts each and everyday.

These things will not make you have that perfect life as we see it. These things above will make you have one horrible life that you would not be very proud of. All the above can be avoided if you really want to at least try to have the perfect life that you can be proud of and share with those who love and care about you.


The way I see it if you wish to have the best life you can is to love yourself first and then transfer that love you have for yourself to others. Let others, such as your spouse, children, family and friends know that they are special in your heart and praise those that have warranted such.

  • Keep a positive attitude in your life 24/7 and never be negative.
  • Enjoy your time and spend quality time with your spouse and children. This quality time will be something they will never forget.
  • Do things that are productive and rewarding which will make you proud of your accomplishments.
  • Cherish every moment in your life.
  • Learn to love God because as he love all of us and will never leave your side no matter what happens. The presence of God in your heart and soul will brighten your life if you let him in.




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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      @ Made - thank you for commenting on this hub. It took a long time for me to realize that living in a negative world I did will never get me or anyone for that matter anywhere in life. Positive Attitude from here on out !!!!

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      Madeleine Salin 6 years ago from Finland

      Thank you for writing this hub. I like the thought of always keeping a positive attitude. Voted up!

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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      ImKarn23, Sorry it has taken so long to reply to your comment. I have been very sick, but I'm back :) I want to thank you for the bottom of my heart for your kind words to me. It really means a lot to me. Thank you for reading and and fro being a friend.

      God Bless


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      Karen Silverman 6 years ago

      You have learned so much in your quest for your 'perfect life', Mr. Clean...You have an inner strength and understanding that many do not. You should be very proud of your accomplishments and your commitment to 'the clean life'. I love your using the term 'perfect life'. I believe the perfect life is something we never attain-but continue to strive for each and every day! Great hub!

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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      sunkentreasure, Beautiful and every word of it is SO TRUE. Now if people would only follow these things the world would be a happier place. Thanks for reading and commenting.

      God Bless and Happy Easter to you!

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      Look for the beauty

      in everything you see.

      Walk in peace

      showing kindness


      The secrets of success

      are motivation

      and dedication

      Happiness is

      what you make happen

      for yourself.

      Caring is

      going to the ends of the world

      for a stranger.

      Be useful with your life.

      Whatever you are doing

      put your whole

      being into it 100%

      Loving is

      pleasing your loved one everyday

      in a 1000 different ways.

      Control your mind

      you are its master

      Be in control.

      Live your life

      without hurting or


      Believe in yourself.

      Have respect for yourself.

      Walk through life

      always with a song.

      © Bernard Levine

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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      incomeguru Thank you for your comment and yes we all need to continue to believe and we will see the power of God. Happy Easter to you as well.

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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      @ Ardie - Thank you Ardie for your kind words to me and for reading. All I want is to make people realize there is a great life out there for all of us to have and share being clean and sober. My goal is to help as many people as possible by my writing.

      Have a wonderful Easter Holiday Ardie!!!! :)

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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      Taleb80 Thanks for your comment and the Vote Up and shared. Enjoy your Easter Holiday !!!

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      Mark Bruno 6 years ago from New Jersey Shore

      cherrycrime26 Thank you so much for your kind words and I am glad you enjoyed this read. Thanks also for the Vote Up!!

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      Oyewole Folarin 6 years ago from Lagos

      To live a perfect life,we must believe in God, the angels, the messengers of God, books of God, and the last day.

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      Sondra 6 years ago from Neverland

      I agree with what you say and with what you are doing. Drugs and alcohol do not lead to happiness - they just fool one into thinking the happiness comes along in that manner. Strive for better things in your life, be honest with yourself and those around you, and choose to remember every single tiny wonderful moment! :) You are an inspiration to so many - keep up your work.

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      Taleb AlDris 6 years ago

      It is a short cut way.

      Thanks for sharing.

      I voted up & useful & shared with followers.

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      January Moon 6 years ago from NY, Now Living in Atlanta Ga

      wonderful Uplifting hub, 2 thumbs up, voted up :-)