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Are you Affected by other People's Behaviors?
Life is what you make of it!
Take Note of People's Thoughts
Thoughts on other People's Behaviors
The people you spend time with, counts for more than where you come from, and of what you know in your life.
Also, of how intelligent you have become in your life
The people you spend your valuable time with, are those who make a difference in your life.
I know that from my recent experiences.
I too could have become that way, and lose thought of what I really want from my life in Croatia.
If you want to be successful, try spend time with the successful people, though sometimes it does not work out for everyone.
You can fight together to reach that set goal.
If you want to succeed in life face up to your battles and be that strong person.
The people who share great strengths like you will lead you along to be that successful person too.
· Do you know who you would like to spend your time with daily?
I have noticed when negative people are together they tend to speak about what hurts them and what pain they had passed.
Their conversations are very stressful to listen to.
Recently, we invited a few people over to our place. It was a great day until I met them.
These individuals just went on and on of how the change in a new government has made their lives even poorer.
I got fed up listening to their agreements, and disagreements, and was impatient to see them leave my home.
I try my best to stay away from such people. Sometimes they do stop by and I don't avoid these people. It is not in me to be rude to anyone.
I respect their odd visits but have chosen not to constantly be with them.
I am with happy and optimistic people. They keep me alive and full of energy.
The kind of people who can make me feel good about my life. At even my worst times they are there to help out and support me.
Those who push you forward are the better choices of individuals.
You can't keep every person as a friend.
Get rid of those who make you feel drained of your energy.
Don't go down with those who choose to live that way.
At one time in my life, I had a long list of people with I considered were of good company.
After awhile I realized they are not the people I want to spend with anymore.
I have seen far too many envious, and negative people, and finally got them off my list.
I feel happy and smart enough to have made those choices.
I have made over the years.
I now fully understand the meaning of true friendship, and with whom I should spend my precious time.
I did not cling to anyone.
I had noticed on those occasions when I had I spent with the different people.
The way I felt when I left a room, and when I entered a room, had made me see more than I had expected.
In that aspect I have seen my true friends and successful friends.
- My motto in my life is to be the leader and not to be led by another person.
What I think and do has got nothing to do with anyone else.
I don't like it when negative people say the worst when I am at my worst moment. I feel annoyed.
A few days ago my business was quiet, and I know that everyday won’t be the same.
I had some excellent days and some very bad days. It did not bother me.
A neighbor stopped by and decided to give his opinion of why my business was not as good on that specific day.
I did not need his opinion at that moment.
All of what he mentioned made me feel stressed out and insecure for that moment.
I ignored his conversations and continued my day in my way.
In such examples life can feel really down.
He did not even try to make me feel good on that day. Instead he poured out his negative thoughts to me.
There was no help from him.
· For example:
Her husband was loser at least to her that is exactly what she put him down to.
He kept on losing his job and was completely without an ambition.
No goals to follow and no budget planned.
He enjoyed playing video games and slouching on the couch.
The same routine daily suited him perfectly.
During all that time this woman battled with her ambitious life.
She was alone in this life and her career felt drained even when she performed excellently
She had to leave her husband. Since then she had met another man who understood her career goals and has become successful and motivated in her career.
She became energetic and less stressed out.
When you choose to be with someone who does share your interests in time all can work out for you.
He looked for his interests while she did not have anyone to share her life with from day-to-day.
You don't have to isolate those who are not like you the key is to just keep your distance.
Be with them but not all the time.
It is not like I don't like the less successful people or the less- driven people.
Everyone can't be successful or unsuccessful.
Maybe they have another talent you don't know about. Learn more about those who are not as successful as you.
There must be some good in them as there is in you.
You can function with all sorts of people it all depends on how you take in their conversations. It is you who can determine who you really are not the less ambitious people.
If you are comfortable with the less successful people then be with them. They can still show you happiness.
Once you like what you do you will be much happier than those who earn six figure salaries.
Be encouraged with your very own thoughts.
I like to spend time with people in my level and like to learn more about the less successful people.
I don't mind being with negative people as I know how to ignore their painful conversations.
I don't pay attention to every word and always think of the good when together.
I do respect their moans but also prefer to not take in every word.
Life for me is not what could have and should have it is about what is for me.
I raised my self-esteem as I was raised and understand not every individual has had my way of life.
- Success is important if you want it.
Great qualities can make you a better individual.
Enjoying life is the most important for me.
I like to spend time with my son and husband my closest of family and with my very close friend.
You can surround yourself with any individual you choose to be with, the bottom line is to be with who you want to share your positive life.
I have met many people and have laughed with most of these people.
Ditch people who fail to see what you want in your life.
If people are an obstacle to what you want to achieve, don't surround yourself with such individuals.
Most important, be with who makes you feel the happiest.
Learn from your experiences.
I have listened from many negative conversations and immediately I knew I had to stay away from those who make me feel that way.
I think of my happy and positive childhood to make my thoughts clear in my head.
When I think that way I override the negative thoughts.
Issues with less ambitious people
Do you know who you would like to spend your time with daily?
© 2014 Devika Primić