Aversion to Certain Colors
An aversion to green
Confession time: I have a strange aversion to the color green. I always knew I didn’t like it much; noticed I’d rather not wear anything green; didn’t decorate the house with it; but just wasn’t aware why.
My poor husband didn’t see it coming. He didn’t notice that I don’t wear green. What men really notice what their wives do or don’t wear anyway; especially early in the marriage? He didn’t think anything of it that I had no green furniture or décor. He thought he was helping when he noticed we needed a new trashcan and went out to buy one. You should have seen his proud face, marching in when that horrible green trash can. I wasn’t cruel, believe me. I just wasn’t happy. I though, ewww, ugly, and took it back to the store to exchange it for a white one. Later he brought home a plastic laundry basket, green, and I refused to use it. This time he was a little miffed that I exchanged it for a white one. (Those were my only choices, white or green). The following year he brought home a new princess phone… you guessed it, green. That’s when the fight started.
What's wrong with me?
He actually yelled and me, asked what was wrong with me, and asked what was wrong with green. For the first time I began to wonder, what was wrong with me? Am I weird? Am I possessed? What IS wrong with green? It’s not like he bought me a blouse or something and insisted I wear it. It was a laundry basket, a trashcan and a phone for crying out loud. Not having the money for a therapist meant I had to figure it out for myself.
Do you have an aversion to one color over the others?
I had to dig deep and try remembering every thing that was associated with green. Trips to the mountains; no that’s not it. That still fills me with wonderful memories and good feelings.
Dad's Work Truck.
Dad’s work truck was green; but that couldn’t be the problem. I didn’t have any bad memories in Dad’s truck. I was hardly ever taken anywhere in it anyway.
Mom decorated with lavenders and yellows. The kitchen was decorated with greens in the curtains and fruit wall hangings. But nothing that would give me bad feelings.
Not the right car but the right color.
This self-assessment took months but I was convinced I needed to get to the bottom of it. What could it be? The school, no. The church, no. Friends, no. Family, no.
It took a while but finally I remember several summers in a row when we used to take weekend trips to a nearby lake (a two hour drive) to camp and water ski. I learned to water ski the first summer and really enjoyed my trips there. It was the drive that wasn’t that pleasant. My uncle drove us in his dark green Pontiac with dark green interior. I was a short kid about 10 years old, and the seats were set low so that I couldn’t even see out of the windows, side or front. Every single trip I got carsick and had to throw up at least once before we arrived. Once I held on as long as I could but ended up letting it GO in the back seat. My uncle was very unhappy with me and yelled at me to let him know next time. After that we had to pull over almost every weekend to let me puke.
The Power of Color
Makes me sick
The only reason I can couple my aversion together with this ongoing incident is that the sight of that green trashcan, laundry basket and phone made me feel sick to my stomach. I wanted to puke. When I told my husband the story he was very sympathetic and asked why I never told him about this aversion. The reason: I wasn’t really aware of it myself!
I realize this is all psychological, in my head, and now that I can put it together, I feel much better about it. I may buy something green someday… or not. Why risk never wanting to be near it in case I have to puke?
Just some of the possible reasons you may have an aversion to one color or another. These are by no means comprehensive and, as in my case, there may be some other underlying reason you hate one color over the others.
According to studies people with an aversion to red and too impulsive, too aggressive, or have a problem with people who show these traits. It can also show some hidden fears and over sensitivity to their own aggressive tendencies.
People who express an aversion to orange have a fear of their own sexual feelings or a suppression of their own sexual enjoyment. They may also have an over-sensual, indulgent or materialistic attitude.
A person who has an aversion to yellow may be disappointed and bitter in life or their life circumstances. They may show a tendency to avoid or change relationships often and rationalize their own feelings. They may have only superficial relationships and constantly changing activities.
A person having an aversion to green may show more independence and self-reliance importance than family situations. They may prefer to keep a distance with relationships and even sexual relationships.
People with aversions to blue may be strongly self-reliant, career minded and disciplined. They may have charted out and planned their own career and life with clear direction.
According to studies, a person who has an aversion for violet may have serious attitudes about life and spiritual things. They may find it difficult to dream, to have fantasies, or spiritual life. They may have a tendency to rejection and reject everything or anything that they deem as unnatural or unrealistic.
A person with an aversion to white is more interested in things they can see and touch than things beyond sight and understanding. Such a person knows and embraces their own imperfections and doesn’t strive for something as unrealistic as perfection.
People with an aversion to pink may not like the soft, tender or female side of things in anyone else or themselves.
Those with an aversion to turquoise may be looking for solidity and security in society, and especially in marriage. They may be reluctant to think originally or to walk new paths.
A person with an aversion to brown may feel an aversion to things normal, boring, trivial. They may not feel connected to their roots, their homeland, family, etc., and may experience instability in their attitudes and in their health.
Those with an aversion to grey may prefer to be straight to the point, no time for political and tactical diplomatic attitudes. They demand clarity and firm understand of where they stand.
An aversion to black may come from a fear of the unknown, or fear of the abuse of power. People with this aversion desire to be free from all kinds of dependency, hindrances and blockages; to be able to throw off shackles.
Color Theory and Color Therapy
I find colors and color theory very interesting. I’m an artist and I use color everyday. I paint, sketch, create, decorate with color all the time. I don’t mind putting green into paintings if the scene calls for it but I would rather not live with it, buy a green car or talk on a green phone.
Color therapists believe that certain colors are soothing to the mentally ill and the sick and healing. Blue has been proven to have a very calming affect and that is one reason why surgical garb has converted to blue. A patient could be very on edge knowing they are going under the knife but tend to be calmer seeing the entire surgical staff in a calm blue. Studies show that a person with a fever will naturally have a reduction of fever when placed in a blue room.
Studies on color
Studies show that red is warm but also an agitating color, the color of anger. Blood pressures will rise in a red room, which is probably why most decorators don’t paint bedrooms all red. Red also gets the attention. Police will pull over a red car fist. It is such a good attention-grabber that they use it for stop signs and stop lights.
Violet, being the last color in the spectrum right before invisible light, is considered a spiritual color. It is used to symbolize heaven and is often worn by priests and religious officials. Yet being close to the end of the spectrum it also is a camouflage color. If you want to be obscure and unnoticed, wear violet. A girl at a dance wanting to be chosen to dance shouldn’t wear violet or risk being overlooked.
These are just a few of the things that are interesting about color and color theory. Hope you enjoyed reading about colors. Have a cheerful yellow day!