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Beautiful Things Happen in Your Life When You Distance Yourselves From All the Negative Things

Updated on September 29, 2020
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Writing is my passion. I have an undying thirst and quest in the field of writing. Some eat, drink or use drugs when stressed; I write.

This world comprises a lot of negativity; therefore, everything that enters your lives will not be positive. Except, you decide which enters your life. When you open your mind with positivity, you reprogram your brain from negativity and shape your behavior. But remember, your brain can only manage one thought at a time, positive or negative.

We all know people who do good and constructive things, but despite their positive standpoint and constantly strive to give their best effort, there’s always one person around aiming to bring negativity into every good intention. When you have positive emotions, your lives are enjoyable — you stay confident, and this will turn a negative situation into a positive event.

When you focus on the positive things in life, you embrace confidence and dismiss the negatives from your lives. While negative energy exists in a dark shade, it can be found virtually anywhere, and it can easily affect anyone. And the only person who can embrace negative is you.

Alternatively, are you just lacking positivity? Are you a person who always complains about life? Well, some things in life are beyond our control, and complaining does not contribute to at all. Momentous things appear when people learn how to deal with life’s challenges. Also, beautiful things happen in our life when we detach ourselves from negative situations.

There is something exceptional inside every one of us, something to serve as the characteristic of the positive with us. It is the only real representative you will ever have. And you are the only one that has ever lived its character in all the existences, the positive people.

Positive people look for reasons to believe in themselves, while negative people don’t. This is the reason pessimistic people rarely succeed in life. When you are a positive person, you realize that negative energy can ruin your mood and, eventually, affect your life.

Also, positive people never let the negativity get to them because they refuse to feel helpless and worthless. They take the time to handle life’s challenges because they know trials are just temporary, difficulties can block vision temporarily, but successors will overcome.

Moreover, positive people embrace failure because they realize it is the best way to learn and grow. Furthermore, negative people shut down, and feel like a failure, love bringing others down, and complain about life's challenges.

Positive people do not waste time complaining when they fail; instead, they never give up and work very hard to take back the top again. The problem with negative people is that they quickly give up and refuse to accept the fact that failure is essential.

Positive people take full responsibility for any failure in their lives and never blame others for their mistakes.

Do you learn from life’s challenges as you live and mature, or do they get in your way? Well, there are many obstacles in the world. Nevertheless, it's up to you to stay focused and free yourself from life’s challenges.

Life consists of family, religion, and social media who are always telling you what you should do, how you should live, and how you should act or even how you should think.

However, everyone knows no one is perfect, and all also know that perfection is impossible.

Making mistakes is part of life. No one is perfect to be utterly immune to making mistakes. Positive people correct their errors because they know to cover them up is the worse thing they can do.

Unlike negative people, who work to cover up their errors and mistakes, they always blame others. They sometimes refuse to say sorry if it hurts someone, and they will make a promise to do better if they get caught, but they have not learned their lessons.

However, let’s keep in mind that beautiful things happen in our life when we detach ourselves from all negative things.

Let us remember life is all about taking risks, and it requires us to make our own choices. Don’t be a person who does not know how to decide. Never look back and wonder what you should have done or how something could have been.

Learn to look forward and, if you are wondering which way to go, remember it’s your path to pick; your career while... Identify and eliminate choices wisely. Remember, you cannot change the past; it’s best to make the best choice and continue to travel life’s journey because no one else will do it for you.

Life comprises countless moments and meaningful experiences. We learn that love is a complicated emotion. Therefore, living and falling in love is not that easy. We must learn how to get in touch with the silence within ourselves and know that everything in this life has a purpose.

People desire to love, not to be employed. However, when a person uses another, one person becomes hurt. The world is in chaos. They become vulnerable and withdraw from loving.

However, we must not close our hearts like this and stop loving because a buoyant life filled with love will bring us a better life.

Some people are toxic; we must detach ourselves from them. If they care, they’ll notice, and make efforts to do better. If they do not, you know, you did the right thing. When we distance ourselves from toxic people, the best thing to do is develop a closer relationship with God.

We have to be careful not to look back and remember to forget our past mistakes. God will be there to get us through tough times. When we walk alone, we must learn to lean on God to help us along the way.

When we understand that decision making is a big part of life, and everything that happens in our life is no accident. Only God knows the plans He has for us.

Although we must stay away from toxic people, we must also require them to change for the better. We need to stop trying to hold on to people who do not love us or know our value.
Learn your worth and tell yourself, “Enough with this mess.”

Move on and know that toxic people cannot change, end up changing us instead. Although sometimes significant changes that mean so much to us can happen so fast that the difference impacts our minds and hearts.

During those times, when our lives have changed, but we still long for past life before it altered everything when we feel tremendous pain. However, I can assure you, from my experience, you grow from such great pain, and you will learn to live a better life.

Also, you will find yourself unable to imagine things being the way they were before. Please take the time to allow your heart to heal, set your soul free, and be guided by a hand that will always lead you in the right direction.

When it is all said and done, don’t forget to trust God and remember beautiful things happen in our life when we detach ourselves from all negative things.

Ways to Heal a Broken Heart

  • Remember, an ended relationship is a breakup, not a breakdown
  • Never wallow in self-pity
  • Know It is not the end of the world
  • Always think positive and believe there’s a real reason the relationship did not work out.
  • Seek guidance from people who will lead you in the right direction like a trustworthy church member or a clergyman.
  • Get a makeover, pamper yourself, and be open to a new relationship.

When we are struggling to overcome a broken heart, it is difficult to accept the pain that we feel. It is best to recognize that you are going through an emotional time. Yes, it takes patience and proper guidance to get through a tremendous hurt.

The agonizing pain of a disappointing relationship is the grandest suffering anybody can ever experience, especially when we lose something that means so much to us. This hurt makes it reasonable to feel confused and sad. Feeling confused, depressed, and in pain is an essential part of a broken heart.

Now that you are ready to turn off the pain that cut you so deep it time to stop listening to the music that makes you dance to your past love, it is time to jump back into the playing field and look and feel different from finding love again. It is time to change your thinking habit, and the next step is to release the hurt that you see so devastating.

Next, you need to focus on your mental state of mind from lost love. Now you are ready to control your ‘visualization.’ You will be able to see life crystal as clear as a mirror. You will no longer react to the hurt negatively; you are ready to take a chance at love.

How to break away from negative people.

• Stop justifying negative people and things.

• Separate yourself from people who belittle your ambitions.

• Surround yourself with encouraging people.

• Hang with people who support your ambitions.

• Let go of judgmental people.

• Let go of people who want you in their life as a convenience.

• Cut lose people who drain all your positive energy.

First, let’s define toxic people. A toxic person is an individual who criticizes almost everything and everybody. They dump their problems on whoever allows them to and do nothing to change their situation.

Now, let express why it necessary to detox your life from negative people. Negative people cannot support your ambitions and drain all the positive energy. They prevent you from achieving all goals. Negative people will cause your stress level to rise tremendously.

They will prevent you from manifesting any and every opportunity. Releasing negative people from your life open up the room to grow and beautiful things happen in our life when we detach ourselves from all negative things.

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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2015 Pam Morris

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    • Pam Morris profile imageAUTHOR

      Pam Morris 

      8 months ago from Atlanta Georgia

      Hello Rida, Thank you so much for your reply, I appreciate you sharing you think my hub is an amazing article. I look forward to you reading and replying to other hubs.

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      Rida Fatima 

      8 months ago from Pakistan

      Amazing Article. Your words cut deep.

    • Pam Morris profile imageAUTHOR

      Pam Morris 

      5 years ago from Atlanta Georgia

      Thank you so much for that excellent insight. I agree with you totally when we learn to let go of negative feelings and face we will sometimes fail beautiful things will happen in our life.

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      Charito Maranan-Montecillo 

      5 years ago from Manila, Philippines

      Very enriching! What beautiful insights, Pam! Yes, you're right in saying that we have to learn to let go of negative feelings. I strongly believe that those who know how to face failures and mistakes eventually become better persons. They face life's challenges or struggles with a more mature outlook. And they are happy even in the midst of tribulations!

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