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Do you Give up Easily?
Show a confident life
Confidence is power!
I don't give up easily.
I don't give up easily and have not given up even at my worst moments.
I know how much has changed over the years living in Croatia.
The past experiences allowed for many challenges and in that time I did not once think.in the following ways.
''I can't do,'' or ’’I am not unable to do.''
You may never know what is next or you may know what is the next to do on your list. Giving up is not what you do when faced with a challenge.
People who give up are not sure of what to do.
Does giving up mean you are weak?
When you give up it does not mean there is weakness, it means you are insecure and less confident.
Whatever is happening in your life can feel overwhelming or too much to cope with.
I have had many experiences that made me feel like giving up.
I made sure to overcome such feelings with great positivism.
I showed happiness and joy.
I felt confident and good during my events.
I battled through change and giving up was not and is not an option for me.
I must admit there have been times when I felt powerless. I did allow myself to wake up and see the light rather than face the dark vent.
I solved my problems with own regular ways.
I focused on the present and got to live each day as I saw it.
I did not think ''I can't do, '' or, '' I won't do.''
I thought good and felt good.
I cried when I had the many stressful moments and knew I had to do something for me.
Sitting back and letting it all be was not my way of showing progress.
I had to attempt the task to see a difference in my life.
I believed in myself.
I let myself see all times and workout my way of life.
I listened and learned over time and I am still learning and listening each day. The more time I spend with people the more I learn about such individuals.
I look on and away but do get frustrated if I hear of any gossips about me. I couldn't care less for such little minds and such low mentalities.
People who support you when you at your weakest point are those you should be counting on and are worth having in your life. I learned of that from my own personal experiences.
I never stopped learning and nobody stops learning from their daily experiences.
The little moments had taught me great lessons.
Giving up has never been me.
In the past I lived an awesome life.
I am now living a wonderful life in another place and time.
Over twenty years ago I had no idea that I would be living in Croatia. When I look back on my life I would not change anything. I like my life presently.
I did not know that until I saw the greater changes of my life.
My great freedom and peaceful surroundings has showed me to appreciate my life even more.
I refused to sit by and not do for myself.
If I am searching for something that I had misplaced I make sure to find it. Only then would I be in peace. I don't give up on any thought.
I like to try what I don't know about. After all life is about taking risks that is if you are up for it.
Most people are afraid of what will be, if they tried to. If you don't try you will never know of the outcome.
It is better to have tried than to not have tried at all.
I know if I don't do for me then who will?
I have my supportive family but I have to make a life of my own. Depending on anyone else is not how I was taught to live my life.
I gained my independence with my own mind.
My life is not about thinking of the opinions of others.
I want differently and I do differently.
More positive thoughts and less negative thoughts is the way to go.
I laugh each day and that makes me feel great.
I don't care about what others have to say about me. An opinion is for free and also worth hearing or listening to. Don't take in everything you hear.
I learned from all my experiences.
People don't think alike but try to do alike.
I do what I like to do and in a unique way.
Did you give up on trying?
I did not feel depressed but sad when I came to a foreign country. The quality of my life is very important I made that my priority.
I had not once stayed in bed for hours and did not feel like getting out of it. I got up each day to move my feet forward with great strength.
Sleeping in and trying to overcome my demons was not my way of facing up to my challenging life.
I did not want to look or feel helpless to me and to my family.
My greater strengths opened me up to the bigger world.
The people I have met made me see their true behaviors. Once I noticed such envy or jealousy from them I stayed away.
I grew into another person but with the exact same personality.
A kind of personality that many people I know can't keep up to.
How did I get out of the hell road?
I did not only accept my weak points and moments. I accepted everything I had come across that made me change this way.
I continued to move on and had escaped the hell road with a lot of the happy side of me.
I tried to climb up my ladder freely with no obstacles or edges to hurt me.
The climb felt easy when the time came by. When I felt the climb was difficult I still continued to climb up. Finally I reached a point when I saw the better part of another tunnel.
I knew then as I do now the only option for me was to try. I have tried and failed, and tried again until I succeeded.
I couldn't avoid feeling awkward when I met some people those are normal feelings.
Anyone can feel awkward but that moment for me passed by easily. I did not let one or two awkward moments trouble me. I let it go by without acknowledging what was most problematic.
Certain people can make one feel awkward either on purpose or it is just the way people choose to interact.
I made my change for me acceptable and that was my most important part of me.
My great experiences have taught me more in another kind of life.
I have identified with my circumstances.
I do not fight with what I know is not worth my time and energy.
I focus on the most important and the best for myself.
I did not do this alone I faced up to change with my loving family and so glad I made it to this point of my life.
I feel everything is starting to take its place.
Time gave it all.
I am not a dreamer, I always looked for the reality of life and did not doubt my thoughts.
Having a dream and following it is a hug part of one's life. If you have a dream and don't work on it then you will not have what you always wanted.
To dream is to hope. Also, you also have it make that dream come true. To just think it will happen for you without any hard work toward that dream is definitely not the reality part of your life.
You have hope and dreaming is normal but you got to make it happen for you to allow an open path to come your way.
Don't think everything will come to you. Laziness does not bring you success.
At least try for something in life before you say ''I can't do.''
It is easy to ''I can't do.''
If you try you are showing an effort.
Always try and continue to try to make that difference in your life.
I tried and I am still trying to make my life here with all my strength. I want to beat my challenges all the way.
I don't want to give up that is not who I am.
The key to my learning process is not to give up and to keep on trying until I get it right.
I don't think my strengths will let me down.
I helped me to help others and did not feel bad about using my energy for something meaningful.
Life shows you great meaning I haven't ignored that meaning.
You can always give up easily that won't allow you to achieve anything worthwhile.
Why give up?
You will be amazed of what you are capable of.
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© 2014 Devika Primić