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Do you Give up Easily?

Updated on October 6, 2017
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  • I don't give up easily.

I don't give up easily and have not given up even at my worst moments.

I know how much has changed over the years living in Croatia.

The past experiences allowed for many challenges and in that time I did not once think.in the following ways.

''I can't do,'' or ’’I am not unable to do.''

You may never know what is next or you may know what is the next to do on your list. Giving up is not what you do when faced with a challenge.

People who give up are not sure of what to do.

  • Does giving up mean you are weak?

No.

When you give up it does not mean there is weakness, it means you are insecure and less confident.

Whatever is happening in your life can feel overwhelming or too much to cope with.

I have had many experiences that made me feel like giving up and made sure to overcome such feelings with great positivism.

I showed happiness and joy.

I felt confident and good during my events.

I battled through change and giving up was not and is not an option for me.

I must admit there have been times when I felt powerless. I did allow myself to wake up and see the light rather than face the dark vent.

I solved my problems with own regular ways.

I focused on the present and got to live each day as I saw it.

  • I did not think ''I can't do, '' or, '' I won't do.''

I thought good and felt good.

I cried when I had the many stressful moments and knew I had to do something for me.

Sitting back and letting it all be was not my way of showing progress.

I had to attempt the task to see a difference in my life.

  • I believed in myself.

I let myself see all times and workout my way of life.

I listened and learned over time and I am still learning and listening each day. The more time I spend with people the more I learn about such individuals.

I look on and away but do get frustrated if I hear of any gossips about me. I couldn't care less for such little minds and such low mentalities.

People who support you when you at your weakest point are those you should be counting on and are worth having in your life. I learned of that from my own personal experiences.

I never stopped learning and nobody stops learning from their daily experiences.

The little moments had taught me great lessons.

  • Giving up has never been me.

In the past I lived an awesome life.

I am now living a wonderful life in another place and time.

Over twenty years ago I had no idea that I would be living in Croatia. When I look back on my life I would not change anything. I like my life presently.

I did not know that until I saw the greater changes of my life.

My great freedom and peaceful surroundings has showed me to appreciate my life even more.

I refused to sit by and not do for myself.

If I am searching for something that I had misplaced I make sure to find it. Only then would I be in peace. I don't give up on any thought.

I like to try what I don't know about. After all life is about taking risks that is if you are up for it.

Most people are afraid of what will be, if they tried to. If you don't try you will never know of the outcome.

It is better to have tried than to not have tried at all.

  • I know if I don't do for me then who will?

I have my supportive family but I have to make a life of my own. Depending on anyone else is not how I was taught to live my life.

I gained my independence with my own mind.

My life is not about thinking of the opinions of others.

I want differently and I do differently.

More positive thoughts and less negative thoughts is the way to go.

I laugh each day and that makes me feel great.

I don't care about what others have to say about me. An opinion is for free and also worth hearing or listening to. Don't take in everything you hear.

I learned from all my experiences.

  • People don't think alike but try to do alike.

I do what I like to do and in a unique way.

  • Did you give up on trying?

I did not feel depressed but sad when I came to a foreign country. The quality of my life is very important I made that my priority.

I had not once stayed in bed for hours and did not feel like getting out of it. I got up each day to move my feet forward with great strength.

Sleeping in and trying to overcome my demons was not my way of facing up to my challenging life.

I did not want to look or feel helpless to me and to my family.

My greater strengths opened me up to the bigger world.

The people I have met made me see their true behaviors. Once I noticed such envy or jealousy from them I stayed away.

I grew into another person but with the exact same personality.

A kind of personality that many people I know can't keep up to.

  • How did I get out of the hell road?

I did not only accept my weak points and moments. I accepted everything I had come across that made me change this way.

I continued to move on and had escaped the hell road with a lot of the happy side of me.

I tried to climb up my ladder freely with no obstacles or edges to hurt me.

The climb felt easy when the time came by. When I felt the climb was difficult I still continued to climb up. Finally I reached a point when I saw the better part of another tunnel.

I knew then as I do now the only option for me was to try. I have tried and failed, and tried again until I succeeded.

I couldn't avoid feeling awkward when I met some people those are normal feelings.

Anyone can feel awkward but that moment for me passed by easily. I did not let one or two awkward moments trouble me. I let it go by without acknowledging what was most problematic.

Certain people can make one feel awkward either on purpose or it is just the way people choose to interact.

I made my change for me acceptable and that was my most important part of me.

My great experiences have taught me more in another kind of life.

I have identified with my circumstances.

I do not fight with what I know is not worth my time and energy.

I focus on the most important and the best for myself.

I did not do this alone I faced up to change with my loving family and so glad I made it to this point of my life.

I feel everything is starting to take its place.

  • Time gave it all.

I am not a dreamer, I always looked for the reality of life and did not doubt my thoughts.

Having a dream and following it is a hug part of one's life. If you have a dream and don't work on it then you will not have what you always wanted.

To dream is to hope. Also, you also have it make that dream come true. To just think it will happen for you without any hard work toward that dream is definitely not the reality part of your life.

You have hope and dreaming is normal but you got to make it happen for you to allow an open path to come your way.

Don't think everything will come to you. Laziness does not bring you success.

  • At least try for something in life before you say ''I can't do.''

  • It is easy to ''I can't do.''

If you try you are showing an effort.

Always try and continue to try to make that difference in your life.

I tried and I am still trying to make my life here with all my strength. I want to beat my challenges all the way.

  • I don't want to give up that is not who I am.

The key to my learning process is not to give up and to keep on trying until I get it right.

I don't think my strengths will let me down.

I helped me to help others and did not feel bad about using my energy for something meaningful.

Life shows you great meaning I haven't ignored that meaning.

You can always give up easily that won't allow you to achieve anything worthwhile.

  • Why give up?

You will be amazed of what you are capable of.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Shyron E Shenko thank you for commenting and sharing

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      Shyron E Shenko 2 years ago from Texas

      Devika, I saw this in the feed an though it such an inspiring message that I would share it again.

      I miss you

      Blessing and Hugs

      Shyron

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Blackspaniel11 thank you

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      Blackspaniel1 2 years ago

      This hub is very well done. I have seen little on this topic.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Cherylann Mollan thank you for the vote up, useful and beautiful. Giving up is not an option for me.

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      Cherylann Mollan 3 years ago from India

      Very inspiring hub DDE! Although I try very hard not to, sometimes I do tend to give up. I guess I just need to push myself more. Nice advice and personal anecdotes here. Voted up useful and beautiful!

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      shelpeare thank you kindly for stopping by great quote here.

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      shelpeare 3 years ago

      Great stuff! Recently I rediscovered the following quote from the greatest basketball player ever, Michael Jordan: "I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Monis Mas no individual is the same thank you

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      savvydating thank you ver much for stopping by. I appreciate your bright thoughts.

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      Aga 3 years ago

      Very interesting hub. I feel that I do give up quite easy, on certain things :-)

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      Yves 3 years ago

      I liked that you said, "People who support you when at your weakest point are those who you should be counting on and are worth having in your life." This is so true and I have certainly been able to discover this in my own struggles. Well, I must say, nothing is going to keep DDE down. You're a trooper, to say the least. Thanks for the encouraging words, and being there for me.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      snerfu great words from you thank you for the vote up.

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      Vivian Sudhir 3 years ago from Madurai, India

      I will never let any clouds in my skies to hold me down. Great article there. Voted up.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      midget38, ''It's just that it is wiser to pick your battles so that you have the energy to fight the important ones.'' Well mentioned thank you

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Vellur thank you giving is easy if you let it be.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Mel Carriere thank you for sharing your thoughts here for me Giving up is not an option.

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      Michelle Liew 3 years ago from Singapore

      I don't give up easily either...though I don't think giving up is weak. It's just that it is wiser to pick your battles so that you have the energy to fight the important ones.

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      Nithya Venkat 3 years ago from Dubai

      Positive and inspiring hub. Giving up is all too easy, we must try and make things work whatever the situation maybe. Great hub.

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      Mel Carriere 3 years ago from San Diego California

      I can feel the passion in your words. When I was younger I gave up a lot, but now that I am older I guess I am more stubborn and I'm not going to quit chasing the dream because it gives me a purpose for living. Thanks for the meaningful words.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway, ''Giving up is a choice. No one's going to tell me I can't it I have my mind set on something.'' Great words from you thank you.

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      I'm glad you don't give up. I'm not a "giver-upper" either. I get defiant and seek new strength, a new way around, above, through the barrier that is holding me back. Giving up is a choice. No one's going to tell me I can't it I have my mind set on something.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Pamela99 so kind of you to say so. '' I have read your hubs for a long time and I know you are emotionally strong and no quitter. There is a very good message in this hub.'' Thank you very much for stopping by.

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      Pamela Oglesby 3 years ago from United States

      I am not a quitter either. You have obviously been through some tough times that would have been a big problem for some. I have read your hubs for a long time and I know you are emotionally strong and no quitter. There is a very good message in this hub.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      ChitrangadaSharan thank you very much for sharing another helpful comment

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      jtrader greatly thought of and so true thank you

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      Chitrangada Sharan 3 years ago from New Delhi, India

      Great motivational hub! I do not give up and I agree with your inspiring thoughts. Thanks for sharing!

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      jtrader 3 years ago

      Some people don't really give up but they take a break to come back renewed.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Shyron E Shenko thank you for showing up here I appreciate your kind efforts

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi CrisSp so glad you came by all my best to you thank you for sharing this wonderful comment

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      Shyron E Shenko 3 years ago from Texas

      Very incouraging Devika, thank you for the reminder to never give up.

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      CrisSp 3 years ago from Sky Is The Limit Adventure

      Very inspirational. I love the positive vibes in this hub and one that must be shared, so I am definitely passing this along.

      Meanwhile, here's sending you some love from the sky.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      AliciaC thank you for reading and I appreciate you stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Ericdierker thank you

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Morning D.A.L. I appreciate your votes and so glad to read another great comment from you. Thank you very much.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc thank you as always you make the effort to stop by

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi MsDora thank you very much for sharing your opinion here.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      ARUN KANTI thank you for sharing such great words

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Jodah thank you very much for stopping by I appreciate the vote up.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Chinaimport Thank you kindly for stopping by here at my hubs.

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      Linda Crampton 3 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      You have shared a lot of great advice in this hub, Devika. Thank you for the encouragement and the inspiration.

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      Eric Dierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      "can't" is called a four letter word in my home. No such thing. Great Hub

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      Dave 3 years ago from Lancashire north west England

      Once more you have hit on a subject that will resonate with many readers,not giving up and being positive needs an inner strength and a strong spirit of which you have an ample share of both. Voted up Interesting and useful. Fascinating read.

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      Bill Holland 3 years ago from Olympia, WA

      There is no give up in me. :) Hopefully others will read what they need in this fine hub.

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      Dora Weithers 3 years ago from The Caribbean

      Thank you for sharing your confident attitude to life. You have always been an inspiration!

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      ARUN KANTI CHATTERJEE 3 years ago from KOLKATA

      Your excellent hub will inspire those people who do not believe in their own strength. It will definitely help them reach their goals and dreams by a change of attitude. Thank you very much.

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      John Hansen 3 years ago from Queensland Australia

      Very inspirational hub DDE. Your writing is always so honest and from the heart. Thanks for sharing. Voted up.

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      Kamal Mohta 3 years ago from Guangzhou

      A great motivational hub! I hope this would help those who give up just before reaching their goals. Thanks for sharing.