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He Came into Her Life for a Reason

Updated on March 20, 2016
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The soul connects to different people

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Why do People come into your life

Open your heart to different People

Relationships as a whole or when broken up can open your eyes to many different avenues.

In most cases you don't realize what you are missing out on until you break up a troubled marriage.

A new beginning can show you a happier life.

He came into her life with a broken heart, and looked older than forty with a few streaks of gray hair and with an unhappy face.

She did not know what to do with her acquaintance.

Her life changed the moment he stepped in and he managed to fit in somehow with no doubt or fear.

A woman who knew not much about love at that time he taught her how to love him, how to kiss him, how to touch and caress his face and neck.

The little moments they cherished forever.

She always knew that he had saved her from another life that she did not want to think about.

The unintentional move meant everything to them, and from then on they found their way pass the obstacles standing by.

  • People do come into your life for a reason but you just never see it, do you?

Once you work out the reasons for them coming into your life then you can move on in peace.

I was assisted through a bad time by such warm and friendly people they made me see how life can pass me by without noticing my daily experiences.

I was guided and supported by wonderful beings of life.

I did not get over that experience for while. I was aided, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Little did I know of their experiences and when I learned of their ordeal, then did I see that mine was much smaller to handle.

I felt her appearance was like a godsend to me.

Sometimes people walk away from you; they die in time or forget about your existence.

You also tend to drive them away unintentionally.

I saw the light and went toward it.

They fulfilled my days with such happiness and easy feelings I did not believe they were with me. It was so peaceful.

I experienced joy that did not seem real at that point.

I learned great lessons from these precious moments.

I built my platform of confidence to have a strong emotional foundation.

In my life I had no choice but to accept the lessons learned. I showed love toward our good friends, and allowed myself to be calm and relaxed when it was time for them to leave us.

All in good time for the lasting relationships and everything showed more progress.

I learned that from me loving myself it showed me how to love another freely and progressively.

  • Do you know why your partner came into your life?

  • Does your partner make a difference in your life?

The person you meet for the first time is meant to be there like to show you a purpose.

It can be someone that you had not met from before they just come your way. The person can be a complete stranger.

From that moment you will recognize their effect they have on you when with you and when they leave you.

I received my will power, strength, and peace of mind from the people I met and had not known them from before and they certainly surprised me.

Also the opposite can happen to you.

  • For example:

You can feel the exact opposite when meeting someone. Like you can meet someone who is bad and who can make you feel drained of your energy and make you feel tired or helpless in certain situations.

All what goes on in your life happens for all reasons and not all are good reasons.

  • You can overcome your weakness with your strengths.

If you think that things happen by chance or luck you are wrong.

Whatever you do and whoever comes into your life it is for a reason that you don't often see right away.

I believe that everything in my life happened for a reason.

Everything in my life happened and changed me for a reason.

There are limits in life for everything you do or say.

All the tests you do in your life it is for a purpose.

It would be pointless if you did not try anything in your life to make a difference to you.

People who come into your life have a great effect on you. They show you the side that you have not experienced. Some people will hurt you, or they will hate or love you.

Individuals will appreciate you and take you for granted all of which will open your eyes to view another side of themselves.

I did not know I will meet such people in my life. I wanted them to stay on with us unfortunately they could only stay for two days. Their kindness made me see the best of them.

The people who came into my life for a reason had shown me wonders in all that time. It was hard to see them go but I handled that moment with care.

I knew they came to me for the season not a lifetime. I grew and learned from their precious lifestyle their great experiences, of their kind nature.

They made me feel so alive and happy. Their task was completed so they had to move on.

When you have someone who comes into and out of your life you have to let it be.

You know deep down they make you feel fulfilled and happy. The time spent when together makes it all very accepting and great for that moment.

  • Some people come into your life when you really need them and they somehow change your life forever, and for the best, has that ever happened to you?

As you know life is a journey and the people you meet daily are for a reason. What you do everyday does not always matter in the long run.

Lessons learned tell you not to hang on to what is no longer there for you.

The people you meet are not always for a lifetime.

You will find people to be part of your life, but you won't always understand their reasons for staying with you or leaving you.

There is a reason for crossing each other’s paths. When a person comes into your life for a short period they change you and that is who you eventually become and a difference is shown in you.

Each person you meet you will notice that their reasons are not the same.

I believe that, each and every individual has their destinations mapped out. The people you invite into your home either stay or go and that is what changes you deep in your soul.

People come and go and in this process you can either gain a great friendship or you can gain a great life lesson.

The lessons are learned from everyone you meet and even a simple introduction can make you the happiest.

  • Why did they come into your life?

No matter how you meet those people, where you met them, or for how long they chose to stay with you. There is a reason for them to leaving just as there is a reason for them coming into your life.

It happens all the time and these smooth encounters make you feel alert and joyful in your own way.

I believe that when people appear in my life and when events happen it opens my mind to many possibilities. My opinion is to accept the challenges instead of trying to fight against the winds.

He came into her life at her lowest point and she never imagined that her world will turn around for the best. They have a deep connection and feel their strongest when together.

Everything happens for a reason

Do you believe that people come into your life for a reason?

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Be hopeful with people.

I believe that people have come into my life for a reason.
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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Faith Reaper so glad to read a comment from you always a good one. Thank you for the vote up and more.

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      Faith Reaper 3 years ago from southern USA

      Lovely thoughts and deep reflections as to those who come into our lives. I do believe there is a reason why each person comes into our lives and if we realize that then we can look at them with new eyes and appreciate each one's uniqueness that each add to our lives.

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      Blessings always for lovely people to always come into your life.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      rebeccamealey thank you for stopping by

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Shyron thank you for the vote up, UABI and shared. ''My saying to my husband is "I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you" So true about that.

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      Rebecca Mealey 3 years ago from Northeastern Georgia, USA

      This is a beautiful way to look at life. Very uplifting! Thanks!

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      Shyron E Shenko 3 years ago from Texas

      Everyone comes into our lives for a reason, it is the ones that stay that make the difference.

      My saying to my husband is "I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you"

      Voted up, UABI and shared

      Shyron

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      IndependentMind so nice of you to stop by. Your comments are thoughtful and direct. Thank you very much for sharing your mind here.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      KoffeeKlatch Gals so nice to read a comment from you it has been quite sometime thank you

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Thelma Alberts hope you had a great Sunday thank you for stopping by

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      IndependentMind 3 years ago

      Nice hub. I enjoyed reading it, and especially loved the video. I have believed all my life that things happen for a reason. And when things happen that change our lives we must embrace the changes and learn from the experience, not dwell on the negative side.

      Every experience we encounter should be a 'learning' experience that enhances our life journey.

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      Susan Haze 3 years ago from Sunny Florida

      I believe that people come into your life for a reason. You may not know why but there is a reason.

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      Thelma Alberts 3 years ago from Germany

      I think there´s always a reason for everything. We learned from the people we meet and vice versa. Be it a good or a bad one. Happy Sunday Devika.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi AliciaC thank you for all comments

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      Linda Crampton 3 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      This hub contains some interesting ideas about human emotions and behavior, Devika. Thanks for sharing.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway, so glad you came by here thank you very much.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      D.A.L. So interestingly commented and as always you find the best words to describe my work. Thank you for all votes take care and I hope to read another new hub from you soon.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      VioletteRose, thank you very much for sharing your views here.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Nell Rose, great to know that about how you can bump into someone you least expected thank you

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      FlourishAnyway 3 years ago from USA

      I do believe there are reasons that bring us together. We have gifts to give or lessons to teach.

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      Dave 3 years ago from Lancashire north west England

      " You can overcome your weakness with your strengths" these words you wrote sum this up. People, as you say can come into your life and make you feel weak,but your strength and inner belief in yourself can over power this, until they disappear once more from whence they came. Another great article covering human emotions that effect us all in one way or another. Voted up, useful and interesting.

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      VioletteRose 3 years ago from Chicago

      Nice hub. I believe people come into our lives for a reason. Most of them bring positive experiences in our life, and make our life beautiful. There will be those who also bring negative experiences, just to teach us valuable lessons in life.

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      Nell Rose 3 years ago from England

      I do believe people come into our lives for a reason, or appear at certain times, coincidence? I think not, take today for example, I dreamed that I went back to work at my old office, so i got up went down there and asked for a temp job, they said yes! so I start in a couple of weeks, but the strange thing was that I asked if my two friends, who I haven't seen for months, would be there, they said they were not sure, so when I left I walked back up the road, and would you believe it? I bumped into both of them! I believe this was telling me that it was a good idea for me to try to get my job back!

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      THarman7 how nice of you to stop by. Thank you very much for sharing your views here.

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      Terry Harman 3 years ago from Lacey Washington

      A very good read and I too believe that people come into your life for a reason. But the fact remains if someone comes into your life then makes you hurt badly when they are suddenly gone for no apparent reason that in my book is wrong. This to me is someone you write out of your life, lesson or not!

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      RachaelOhalloran thank you for stopping by

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi MsDora thank you for sharing your thoughts here.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi torrilynn, thank you kindly for sharing your views here.

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi billybuc thank you for the continuous support I appreciate you stopping by

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      Rachael O'Halloran 3 years ago from United States

      People come and go through each other lives, and usually it is to help us over a certain bump in the road, and sometimes they are the bump we needed.

      You make some very good points in your article.

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      Dora Weithers 3 years ago from The Caribbean

      Yes, people enter your life for a reason, and as you point out, there is opportunity to learn from them and to grow. Thank you for sharing your insights.

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      torrilynn 3 years ago

      I feel that everyone comes In your life for a reason. Whether it is to learn a lesson or to gain a life long friend. I thank you for this.

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      Bill Holland 3 years ago from Olympia, WA

      A tough poll that one. I'm not sure I believe in a grand cosmic plan, but I'd rather believe in that than nothingness. All I know is I'm a better man because of my wife.