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How You May Appear Unattractive and Not Know It!
I think of myself as a pleasant and fair person, a kind person who is loving and giving to everyone and a people person. I have been teaching my children, the beauty of an individual is not in a facial mole, but the real attraction is inside a person. Teaching character traits are an ongoing process, and there are character traits to avoid because they are unhealthy habits. The big question up for debate, 'What qualities make a person attractive?'
As children, we all learn our personality from the people around us; if we grow up with high self-esteem, it’s plays a considerable influence in determining the type of adult that child will eventually become. However, if we grow up with low self-esteem and being rude and get a reputation for it, this feeling of being “tainted” can be carried into adulthood.
Confucius said, “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” We all are familiar with the Proverbs beauty is only skin deep, the world is full of beautiful people, but being a beautiful person is not only in the skin, but beautiful is also in the eye of the beholder and comes from within.
If you would just take a scroll through a model's portfolio, or just look around - the world is full of beautiful people. However, true beauty is a rare and seldom recognized by the individual who possesses it. In fact, the most impressive feature in the world - is a unique kind of beauty, the one that you cannot see.
Some people may seem unappealing to others by their selfish behavior, cockiness, and arrogance during interactions with others and not know it. Everyone should strive to be a noble, kind, caring and compassionate person because We all want to be loved, but what feels good to us is feeling the love. There are many ‘unhealthy habits’ that people have that make them seem unattractive and annoying, and it is hard for them to know they have fallen off the attractive wagon. A person’s behavior can make him or her unattractive because attractiveness does not only come from outside, it comes from within, too.
It is sometimes hard to know how unattractive you are when you are so focused on yourself. It is even more difficult to know when you’ve fallen off the attractive wagon. If you wonder Why? It is normally because when a person lets his or herself go, people are not going to be inclined to tell him or her to their face that they are heading towards that unattractive territory. Also, when a person is not aware that they are acting unpleasantly… a manner that is so unattractive, they forget that attractiveness is not just what is seen with the eyes, it is also what we feel with our hearts and souls.
When a person starts to look unattractive, people might hint, but more often they will feel uncomfortable telling them. That is why a person is responsible for being self-aware and present always. When a beautiful girl is around an ugly person, she feels prettier around them, and when an ugly girl is around an attractive person, she feels uglier. Moreover, if you think about it, even a walk down the street and meeting the wrong person can change the way you think about your look. It is more likely because our brains have a built-in tracker that never stops gathering data.
What you might be unknowingly doing to appear unattractive, you could be Self-Absorbed. Some people are self-absorbed without realizing it. If your focus is solely on yourself, as if you are the only one that matters and most all you talk about is yourself; and you do not take into consideration what others around you think or say, you are a self-absorbed person. If this is you, know that it is time to change because no one wants to be around or be friends with someone who is unattractive and not know it.
Three Ways you are making yourself seem unattractive and not know it
1. Constantly being negative
We all will have days where things go wrong, and we tend to have the need to vent, but someone who speaks and acts detrimental most of the time is an unenthusiastic person. Even when a person is attractive, if his or her behavior is connected to being negative It does not matter how good looking he or she is, a sour attitude can bitter their attractiveness faster than you would think.
2. Focusing only on yourself
A person with an attention seeking behavior and believe they are all that and a bag of chips, this does nothing too much for their attractiveness level. Also, a person needs to know how to draw a line between being confident and being cocky...when a person crosses into the land of self-absorption, exactly how attractive other people see you totally fall.
3. Rude to other
An individual who is obscene, impolite or insulting that immediately lessens their attractiveness. People are attracted to people who are respectful and kind. Rudeness diminishes person good looks who have an awful personality or mean behavior.
How You May Appear Unattractive and Not Know It!
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