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How to Create a Cheer Up Journal and Use Positive Thinking to Improve Your Life
A New Years Resolution You Can Keep: Cheer Up Journals
Would you like to start the new year with a resolution that is easy to keep and makes you feel good, too? We're going to keep positive by creating a cheer up journal. It's different than a gratitude journal and more enjoyable to work with. Are you ready to take on the challenge? Although January 1st has the feeling of a fresh start, you can start your journal any time of year. Let's add some positivity to this new year.
It sounds easy, doesn't it? Just be more positive. Yeah, that will work. Don't be so cynical! There are things we can do to shift our perspective without much effort. One way is to remind ourselves that there are good things happening each and every day of our lives. Writing out the things that cheer us up each day is an easy way to refocus on the things that matter, remind us that there are nice people in our lives, and help get us out of the doldrums.
A cheer up journal can be started at the beginning of the year or at any time! It's not just for the new year. I'll show you how to create it and how to make it an important part of your day. The rest is up to you.
Do you keep a journal?
What is a Cheer Up Journal?
Oprah Winfrey made gratitude journals a party of the daily routine for many. In this journal, you keep a running list of the things you are grateful for. It helps you to count your blessings.
A cheer up journal is a bit different. Instead of noting your blessings as such, you write down the good things you remember during the day. You aren't looking for really big, amazing things. Not everyone gets to win the lottery or lands the perfect job on the first interview they go to. You're looking for the small things that happen at any moment, but are easily forgotten. No deed is too small for your journal.
Shed a Little Light on Your World
A spiral bound notebook with blank lined pages. The 8.5" by 5.5" format makes it easy to throw into a drawer.
Things You Might Write About
Received a card from my aunt
Ebook I've been waiting for is available at the library for download
Chocolate brownie was so good!
Got a photo of that strange bird in the neighborhood
Came across this quote "...." (list the quote)
Bizarro cartoon cracked me up (put in a copy of the cartoon)
My niece called
My sister baked cookies and shared them with me
Got that job I interviewed for last month!!!
Woman said thank you when I let her go ahead of me at the grocery store
How to Create a Cheer Up Journal
There are a couple of ways you can go about it. You can put your entries into a word processing file on your computer or laptop. You can buy a journal or diary, then write your entries in it. Are you creative? Get some paper and marking pens. Make your own.
If you spent your time on your cell phone or tablet, there are many apps made for memos and journaling. Check your app store to see what is available. Then, you can note entries while you are on the go.
There is no set formula as to what you should write. It's entirely up to you. Nor is it something you should force urself do. It shouldn't be a burden or a chore. Otherwise, it would be your “Ways I Bother Myself Daily Journal”. It should be a simple thing that you do during the day, but not something that is a struggle because you are determined to fill the page.
Making it My Own
I keep my journal on my computer in LibreOffice, a word processor. I list nice things that have happened to me, things I've spotted in nature, things that amuse me (stories, cartoons, etc.), and quotes and poems that I like. I don't write in it every day, but I add to it regularly.
When I'm feeling annoyed, mistreated, or out of sorts, I open the file. I read a few entries. It usually doesn't take me long before I find myself smiling and feeling lighter. It's good to have this reminder.
We Could All Use a Little Cheering Up
It's not always easy to see the sunny side of life. Work gets boring, we've had some rough times in our relationships, the kids are driving us up the wall, that new couch has a spot that no one will own up to...been there, done that, right?
When you feel like life is beating you up, take out that journal. Read through the entries. You're sure to feel a little better after you've recalled some items. You've forgotten a few, haven't you? Yes, it was good to remember that phone call from your niece and those cookies were delicious.
It's okay to get frustrated with life. It happens to us all. But, you have tools like a cheer up journal to remind you that in all the frustration good things happen, too.
Let's face it, we can't always depend on those around us to be cheer leaders every time we need a pep talk or a little pick me up. Keeping a journal let's you tap into a similar vein whenever you need it. Oh, you still need people, don't get me wrong. But, the journal can be there at 2 am or on your lunch break. You best friend might like sleeping and eating. Don't we all?
The Tree of Life Journal
This journal has light lines that don't interfere with your notes and drawings. The 5" by 7" size makes it easy to keep with you. There's also a pocket in the back cover if you'd like to save snippets like comics, articles, etc.
Make It Your Own
I've told you about my journal, how I set it up, and how I use it. You can start with my approach or find one of your own. You might like to make it a daily or weekly practice. You might like to end your days with an entry or two. You might want to keep it spontaneous and write in it whenever the mood strikes you. Just don't let the mood pass you by.
You might like keeping it on your tablet or computer. You may want to be a little more creative with it by buying a plain journal, then writing in it with colored pens. I can't draw, but you might be good at it. Use crayons if you want. It's yours and yours alone.
Whatever format you choose, be sure to write something down regularly. Even if it's something like “the neighbor waved this morning”, it is still something. Like most things, it may take some practice to get into the swing of things.
You may find during that first few days or weeks that you don't really notice anything. It is a lot easier to fume over the person who cut you off in traffic than the person who let you step in front of them in line at the coffee shop. You might have to be very deliberate in remembering at first to shift your perspective. You may have to scrape off a bit of the rust.
If you find yourself saying "nothing good ever happens!", you are either looking too hard or not hard enough. Stick to simple things and you'll see them. They are there waiting for you to notice.
Why Keep a Cheer Up Journal?
Why not? You got something against it? (Kidding, of course!)
Feeble attempts at humor aside, the reason I began keeping a cheer up journal is at one time I was in a funk. My spondylitis was being a pain (literally) and stuff was bugging me. I tried the grateful thing, but after a couple pages I felt a bit tapped out.
I decided on a different approach. I thought about different things that had happened recently that made me feel good. Remembering them made me feel better. If I kept a list of those things, I could refer to them when I was feeling out of sorts. It could cheer me up and help me change my perspective. Hit the ol' reset button, so to speak.
They say that journaling relieves stress. I'm pretty sure we all need a little bit of stress reduction in our frazzled lives.
Take a One Month Challenge
Why not give it a test run? For the next 30 days, make a point of noting things on a sheet of binder paper, a note pad, or on your computer. Then, when the month is done, go over your list. Make you feel any better to remember these items?
You might find it's not for you. That's okay. At least you gave it a shot. Then again, you might really like having these little reminders close at hand. Every bad day needs a little help.
Give it a go! You may be pleasantly surprised when you look back over your days and see the pleasant things that have transpired.