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Change your Paradigm for a Better Life

Updated on September 3, 2017
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L.M. Reid is an Irish Writer who has published many articles in magazines and online.

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Paradigms Control your Life, Job, Career and Money

Get What You Want Out Of Life! Take Affirmative Action now

Learn how to control your thoughts and paradigms so that they work for you.

If you are stuck in a rut and feel the need for change then I have some interesting ways to help you here.

Control your thoughts and you control your life!

A New Career

Are you working in a job you do not like. Or worse still are you unemployed. I show you how to get that job and career you want by taking affirmative action in your life. Have you always wanted to work in a particular area that you are passionate about.

People spend most of their waking hours in their job. If working in a job they hate and just for the money it drains their energy and passion for life.

Have Circumstances Stopped You from Achieving that Career.

Do you believe you can do nothing about it? Do you believe you have to put up with what life has dealt you? Feel envious when you hear about other people and how they are doing what you always wanted to do.

You can continue to feel like this or you can change your Paradigms and thought patterns and get whatever you want out of life now.

How To Achieve Your Ideal Career

You can do something positive about your job situation and your life. If you could find a way to achieve your ideal career would you take it? What if I can show you how to change your thoughts and paradigms to find a better job.

Well I can, so read this article and start to enjoy life. Finding a different career that you are passionate about is achievable. And I am going to explain to you in this article how to change your thoughts and Paradigms to find a better job.

It is not something that will happen instantly and needs a little work. But it will be worth it for that new job and life path.

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What can you do about it?


I am going to explain here how to change your thoughts and expectations about what you believe people should expect from life.

Most people do not realise how by changing their thoughts they change their actions and therefore create better opportunities for themselves to have that fulfilling career change. .

What are your Paradigms?

Your paradigms are the ideas that have been ingrained in your subconscious mind after years of conditioning.

Since you were a baby you have soaked in the thoughts and beliefs of your parents and family.

When you got older it was your friends and your work mates. You collected these beliefs and accepted them as true.

Now it is time to change your paradigms and thoughts to achieve all you want out of life.

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You always wanted to become a teacher. It did not happen. Are these thoughts been going around in your head for ever as you spend years in an unfulfilling job?

'Wouldn't it have been lovely if I could have stayed on at school, gone to college, got that degree? I know I could have been a great teacher. It is such a waste.

But it was not my fault. I had to leave school, get a job. I had too many responsibilities too young.

I missed my chance.' Does this sound like you? Did you miss your chance to work at teaching, become a lawyer, healer, writer, artist etc?

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Missed Opportunities

Well yes, you are right in one thing. That opportunity is gone. Either it wasn't there for you at all or you were unable to take it up at the time. Are you ready now?

Yes I can hear you screaming at me. It doesn't work like that, life is never that easy. Hang on a minute and listen. What if by believing it is possible it actually becomes possible.

Okay, Let's say you Wanted a Teaching Career

You left school early, no qualifications. You now live without a partner, have two children. You work part time, at a job you don't particularly like.

The people you work for at not too bad, but you are bored and could do with more money. So how by you believing you can become a teacher is it going to happen.

That's up to you. It's your life, your path to follow. I can however show you how to take the first step on that path.

Believe in Yourself

First thing you have to do is believe in your dream

Say affirmations, there are some at the end of this article, and get that positive energy working for you.

Once you have started this process that's when the miracle starts to happen.

Yes a miracle.

You have started a process of tapping in to all the positive energies that are out there in the Universal Mind.

Things to help you will start to appear. You might see a course advertised on the notice board at your child's school or in the paper.

No it will more than likely not be a ten week course on how to become a teacher in five easy lessons.

It could be a personal development course, parenting course etc. You will know as soon as you see it.

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Your Subconscious Mind will tell you that this is for you

At first you will not know why, but it will nag at you. You'll find excuses not to do it.

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That is the negative energy telling you to stay in your comfort zone

It is not what you want, you want to teach, not go on a course.

Here again is where choice comes in. It is up to you.

You have been given this opportunity, the one you were unable to take when you were younger due to circumstances beyond your control.

Remember? This is it.

The First Step to your New Life

We'll presume you have recognised it as such and went on this course

What happens there. You meet other like-minded people.

They all have their reasons for going on this course, their own dreams.

As the course moves on the energy around the group changes to an even more positive vibration.

You are Not Alone

You tell each other your inner most thoughts, your dreams and aspirations.

Things you would not even express to your own family or friends.

They encourage you, you encourage them. You gain strength and energy from each other.

You start to believe that you can actually do the things that have been on your mind for years.

Then all too soon the course is finished. What happens then. You feel bereft. Some one in the group, maybe not you but some one will voice this thought. Then maybe some one will say, why does it have to end. Can we stay together as a group and do another course.

A few people will drop out but most of you will have the courage and the energy to decide that you do want to carry on.

You get involved with the school or centre where the course is held. It grows from there. You learn that you do have something to contribute to this new circle of like minded people.

As this is all going on you keep up with the affirmations.

The next step that is right for you will happen. It will appear to you.

You'll know what it is when it is there. You'll move onto the next stage.

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Let's stay with the person that dreams of becoming a teacher

You soon learn through these new friends and contacts that there is another course about to start. This one gives you a chance to re-sit some exams.

This course is particularly designed for people who left school early and want to sit those exams that they could never do before.

It is again aimed at people who work full time or rearing a family. You can go to the course in the mornings or at night. You are again mixing with like-minded people.

They give you energy when you need a boost. You do the same for them.

Together you are strong.

Confidence in Yourself and your Abilities is at a High

Keep up with the affirmations and positive thinking. By this stage you realise you are capable of doing and achieving anything you set your mind at. You pass these exams.

You could go to college. You have the choice. You still need to keep that job, look after the children.

So where's that teachers job?

Again whatever you need to move you along your chosen path will appear.

You will see another advertisement for something new. Meet people who will show you the way. The journey may be short or long, it's up to you whether you decide to enjoy it.

What energy will you travel with.

The situation will always be the same, it's how you approach it and deal with it that makes the different.

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You do not have the money or the time to go to college

Fair enough. So what happens next.

Accept this as a fact and then move on.

Look at the situation from another angle. When you went on these courses they changed you in a positive way.

Could you start a group up yourself. Could you organise courses for other people. Do you see a need in your neighbourhood?

Could you Teach one of these Courses. You know the benefits. You want to teach. What about a women's group, men's group. Teenagers, older people, literacy skills, etc, the list could go on and on.

Do you see where this is going? All your life you had this urge to teach. You felt cheated and frustrated because you lost your chance. Maybe it was meant to happen like this.

Now you realise how other people feel while they have harboured a dream of their own. You can help them realise their potential and move them on a further step towards their chosen path.

This can Apply to any Path you Wish to Take

It is always your choice. Decide what you want out of this life, where you are going. Be clear and precise to yourself. You are what matters. It is your journey. If you do not know where you are going, how do you expect to get there!

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Positive Affirmations are Important

Educate yourself into believing you can achieve anything you want out of life.

You have been telling yourself, (educating yourself) all your life that you missed your chance, it wasn't your fault, but that's how life is, you have to put up with it.

You are not educated enough, smart enough, strong enough, etc.

Affirmations change all this. Say these as often as you like. If you are alone, say them out aloud with feeling and belief. If you are in work, on the bus, in the car, say them silently to yourself over and over again.

You will soon teach your subconscious mind that there has been a shift in your thought pattern and now you believe you deserve all you want to achieve.

  • I deserve the very best that life has to offer.
  • I love myself and deserve the very best in life right now.
  • I have the power and strength to change my life for the highest good of all concerned.
  • I release the past. I love myself. I allow myself to be at peace and trust life.
  • Something wonderful happens to me today
  • I accept abundance in every area of my life right now.
  • I take control of my life.

You can say all of these or just whatever ones you like. Say them over and over again. Mean them, listen to the words, and say them slowly with feeling. Make yourself believe in what you are telling yourself.

Believe in it! Achieve it!

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How to change your thoughts and paradigm to find a better job.

Finding a different career that you are passionate about is achievable.

You can stay in that job you are in, that is your choice. People tend to prefer to stay with what they know, what they are used to.

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Staying in our comfort zone is what most people prefer

Are you ready to accept you need to change your thoughts and paradigms to find a better job.

Using your subconscious mind to tune into the positive energy around you is how to achieve your goal of that better career and life.

Your life and how you live it really is your choice.

No matter what hardship and circumstances you are experiencing it is how you deal with this through your thoughts that make the difference.

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      L M Reid 2 years ago from Ireland

      Yes I agree with you Deborah we need to act on our clear positive thoughts to turn them into reality

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      Deborah Demander 2 years ago from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD

      We can live our dreams, if we make up our mind to do so. The hardest thing, and the easiest thing to change is your mind. Once you have changed your mind, the entire world will change.

      First step is to believe in the power of your own dreams. Then, speak of those dreams, then act on them. It can all change, in just a moment, if we allow ourselves to believe in ourselves.

      Thanks for writing this article and getting the word out.


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      L M Reid 4 years ago from Ireland

      Yes working in a job you do not like can be soul destroying. I have had to do it many times over the years.

      The act of changing our thoughts and paradigms are easy enough but it takes patience and belief. The subliminal videos do help to lift the spirit and keep us focused.

      I agree Cyndiia that it is very easy to allow negative energy to destroy all the positive energy that we have built up because the negative is so much stronger.

      Being aware of our paradigms and how they effect us in life is the first step to achieving our goals.

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      Cynthia B Turner 4 years ago from Georgia

      We are what we think we are. Your article is so on target with that. Thoughts can hold you back or thoughts can make you soar.

      I liked you videos as well. There is so much power in subliminal messages and we are receiving them all day long. The trick is to block the negative and accept the positive. Pair that up with a clear vision of what you want out of life and a path to get there and you're on your way.

      Thanks for the great work and sharing with us.

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      Gail Sobotkin 4 years ago from South Carolina

      I agree that our thoughts and beliefs have a powerful effect on our lives, and that regardless of how old or young we are, we can always make choices that change our reality, actions and future.

      Thanks for sharing this inspirational hub and the videos that you created.

      Voted up across the board except for funny.

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      L M Reid 5 years ago from Ireland

      Using positive energy and affirmations do work very well for getting us in the right frame of mind when looking for a new job or career. Thank you LetitiaFT for your comment

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      LetitiaFT 5 years ago from Paris via California

      This comes at a good time. Thank you for making and sharing your videos.

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      L M Reid 5 years ago from Ireland

      Hello Deborah, Yes once we decide to believe in ourselves and abilities we really can change our own lives for the better. Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment

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      Deborah Demander 5 years ago from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD

      I definitely believe that we can change our lives by changing our thoughts. I am wealthy beyond my wildest dreams. I am a wise and kind woman who travels the world and earns more than $10,000 every month. All of this becomes true, because I believe. And it can work for anyone.


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      L M Reid 5 years ago from Ireland

      sandrabusby yes I use the videos all the time. They are relaxing and are doing me good too with the positive affirmations and vibes. Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment and for sharing

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      Sandra Busby 5 years ago from Tuscaloosa, Alabama, USA

      Love the subliminal videos. Thanks for SHARING.

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      L M Reid 5 years ago from Ireland

      Yes when I get depressed sometimes I read a positive attitude book or watch some of my videos like above. That usually shakes me out of it and I then remember to keep my thoughts and ideas positive and powerful in the right direction.

      Thank you cclitgirl for taking the time to leave a comment.

      amymarie, I agree we need to remember how it is us that are directing our own destiny with our thoughts and actions. Thanks for the comment and votes

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      amymarie_5 5 years ago from Chicago IL

      Great hub. People need to be reminded of this. We have more power and control over our destiny than we realize. Voted up, awesome and useful

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      Cynthia Sageleaf 5 years ago from Western NC

      Beautiful hub that is also inspiring. Your words are powerful. :)

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      L M Reid 5 years ago from Ireland

      Yes the first thing to do to change our lives for the better is to look at ourselves, I agree CMHpno. If we do not respect and love ourselves how can we expect others to.

      Thanks for reading and taking the time to leave a comment

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      CMHypno 5 years ago from Other Side of the Sun

      Very interesting hub. When I work with my hypnotherapy clients one of the things I always do is address the way they speak and think about themselves and their world. Many are quite shocked when they realise how negative they have been about themselves and how harsh. I always say to them that they would never speak to a loved one or friend like that, so why speak to themselves so unkindly

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      L M Reid 5 years ago from Ireland

      Yes I do believe that what we think is what we are. It can be hard to remember to be positive all the time though. The videos help to put me back in a positive mood

      Thank you for you comments and Brett for sharing

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      Brett Caulton 5 years ago from Thailand

      Belief and positive thinking can achieve what you want. Not so much through magic, but through your drive and the effect of your new attitude on others.

      Thanks for SHARING.

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      RU 6 years ago

      Dear Reid,

      Thank you very much. You have given me so much confidence and i will try to instill trust in myself and start taking responisbility of my situation. Iam unemployed and broke , but right now I see the world through a different glass. Thank you Sir!